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eliotray
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posted June 19, 2015 11:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for eliotray     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hey Lindaland, it's been a while.

Just a quick glance at this chart will do and it goes back to the previous question so allow me to reiterate;

I met J only twice and the sexual tension is ridiculous; I feel it, and people around us feel and even see it, and J doesn't do much to hide his curious indiscretions. Now this will touch on morality a bit and I'm not going to allow a discussion of morality to ensue because that's not the topic of discussion but I will mention Jerry is married and I am a gay man, just so we have a better understanding of the dynamic, and my concern/morbid curiosity.

Below is the synastry chart, I just want an opinion as to what's going on here. Is there's something else beneath the surface? My friend feels it can be a lot of 12 house action (hidden, secrets and such) but we can't draw a conclusion since we don't know his exact birth time, however the date and place is correct.

I literally cannot look this man in the face. I have no idea why. It was much easier at company dinner with drinks around but it's very hard to ignore the married man staring at you from across the room.

Let's also try to forgive the generous age gap, I'm sure a lot of imagery comes to play and believe me I've had my share of laughs concerning what I have gotten myself into with this gentleman.

I am the circle on the outside (Scorpio) and he is the inside (early Gemini-Cancer cusp)


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Libra Rising
Taurus Moon
Stellium Sun, Venus, Mercury,
Pluto in Scorpio

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Lioness
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posted June 20, 2015 01:43 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lioness     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm no expert as some of the others, but I'm willing to give it a go, if you don't mind a novice

First
He comes from a generation that isn't very open about sexuality. So he may or may not have ever expressed attraction to men. If that's the case, I think it would be difficult for him to handle/ deal with.

But I think you have a strong effect on him.
His Venus is on your SN, familiar yet comfortable feeling. Maybe a de ju vu type of feeling.
Bam, your Pluto is opps his mars, he won't be use to that at all. Deep attraction. He may have never felt that type/deep of attraction before.

Pluto/mars has good and bad. It can be overpowering and aggressive. But Pluto always wants to transform what it touches.
In this case Mars, the sexual planet.
Weather he's comfortable with that or not, I can not say.

Depending on his time, his moon could be conjunct your Neptune (I personally love this aspect)
In my experience it can be bonding and romantic, but needy and having rose colored glasses.
I still favor moon/Neptune plus your sun his Neptune.
Neptune loves to make us feel like it's true love. Neptune always knows best! Hehe so he says!

If it's moon/Saturn could make him feel an obligation, or maybe just heavy. Not sure.

I think your sun/Venus is his mis stepped (look through ll for details) depending on the orb.

Eros sq Eros trine NN. Could point to heavy sexual attraction, but with the square may not be easy to handle or what I mean easy to come to fruit.

I see your an h2 stellium, so your values/self esteem my be tested here. His mars is going against that (opposite)

I would say the attraction is there, I can't say if it will ever come to fruit. I think his natal and how comfortable/ ready he is. Would he the big factor, for you the values behind it would be the big factor for you.

His sun is un aspected, not sure how to interrupt that.

Well that's 1 novice opinion

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LeeLoo2014
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posted June 20, 2015 05:25 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mars/Pluto DW (with valid square although not visible here) and most likely your Mars on one of his angles, which can't be seen here neither.

What happens to Mars/Pluto in the composite?

and no, you shouldn't play with the fire in someone else's kitchen

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LexusVirgo
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posted June 20, 2015 08:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for LexusVirgo     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your venus is oppose his mars by sign this is where the sexual attraction is coming from. A lot would say what if it's not in orb. I have seen that this pull is so powerful that two people with mars or virgo in the same sign or opposing signs go bonkers for eachother.l

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