posted June 24, 2015 07:22 AM            

The Pluto person always has the upper hand in my experience. Pluto controls the relationship because Pluto has the power. I've always been the Sun with Sun-Pluto aspects and once Pluto. When I was Pluto, I felt the intensity from my end too, but me and that particular guy had a lot of Taurus-Scorpio oppositios all 4 degrees or less, applying so the intensity was overpowered by all those other aspects.

posted June 24, 2015 08:39 AM            

That being said...I have Moon conjunct Pluto by 1 degree in the 8th house, plus I'm a Scorpio Sun with an 8th house stellium. I am feeling obsessed with a guy that has his Pluto right between my Moon and Pluto. I have this conjunction with a lot of people my age, although in this case the orb is very close. However, he also has a Scorpio Moon conjunct my Sun, plus we have Venus square Mars double whammy, and Sun trine Mars double whammy, to name a few. Those other attraction aspects are intensifying the Pluto conjunction, which I probably wouldn't even feel otherwise. He would feel it though, because my Moon 0 degrees on his Pluto is not an energy that he would be used to having with very many people.

As a Moon/Pluto person with a lot of Scorpio and 8th house in my chart, I've attracted a lot of obsessed people in my age group. I rarely feel the same unless there are other factors involved, because it's an energy I'm used to having with a lot of people.

posted June 25, 2015 06:38 PM            

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Originally posted by polkadotstars:
So it seems situational?? I know that I have a Sun, Mercury, and Mars trine Pluto pretty closely in my own chart. And that same stellium usually trines other people's Pluto who I date. But I don't think I really feel that. I wonder if a conjunction is felt differently though, because conjunctions are usually stronger than trines?

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I'd say that he's had one of the biggest impacts upon my life, period. Being a natal PLUTO-SUN, I don't get affected much by PLUTO hits to it. Oddly, another PLUTO conjunct SUN in tight orb can feel like an absolute soul-sibling -- and that's not always a good thing, with PLUTO involved.

I'm always a bit blown away by the fact it's a 0º00 conjunction. And, indeed, this man was like being hit by a truck. Or, as a clever writer once said, it 'was like having a loaded pistol in one's mouth and liking the taste of metal.'

posted June 26, 2015 08:02 AM            

I met a person whom I had sun square Pluto DW and it definitely felt like I've met my own self in him. He doesn't play games either. So I don't think the whole having the upper hand works in this case.

posted July 08, 2015 02:03 PM            

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Originally posted by theunknown:
I have sun square Pluto natally and the people whose Pluto square my sun don't affect me much. I'm a 7th Pluto so maybe that's why. I'm very quick to read between the line and I have sun-Saturn conjunction so I don't put up with their games.

I met a person whom I had sun square Pluto DW and it definitely felt like I've met my own self in him. He doesn't play games either. So I don't think the whole having the upper hand works in this case.

If a person with the conjunction natally is very in tune with the energy, it's they are not gonna feel too manipulated imo

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I completely agree with you dear. I,myself have natally a stellium of Pluto,Venus and Mercury in Scorpio in 2nd House,plus all three all conjunct to each other.

I had an horrible relationship with a guy,his Pluto conjunct to my Venus,and opposed my Mercury. At first,i felt his power and felt manipulated,then I recognized his power into myself. Lucky me,I was ready astrology during dating him,so I understood a lot about Pluto power. Since I've already got it myself,after a while,it felt natural,I could easily read him,wound him with my words and actions and "control" the situation.

Can you believe that? Him telling me that he was afraid of me? And even after a year of a bad break-up,despite his huge (misplaced) ego,he can't refrain himself from texting me on social medias. LOL

I believe that if you have it natally already,as long as you know and understand yourself,and know how to use it (for good and for evil,let's be honest here) you won't feel it like a burden or anything scary for that matter,it'll be like a mirror.