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Topic: Gemini guys, emotional or not?
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Isis71
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posted July 06, 2015 02:22 PM
  
So here I am, generally don't like Geminis cause they are emotionally detached or most of them can be, but I met one Gemini guy and I'm confused, even if I know how they can be, when you like someone, you want to find all best in that person, so what you can tell me about this one? Hm, he has that Cancer Mars and Mercury, can that change Gemini not to be so cold or talkative? Help, help, help!  Sun 27°44' Gemini
Moon 0°41' Libra
Node 26°24' R Capricorn
Mercury 13°31' Cancer
Venus 25°42' R Gemini
Mars 23°49' Cancer
Jupiter 4°12' R Capricorn
Saturn 12°21' Gemini
Uranus 14°12' R Libra
Neptune 3°14' R Sagittarius
Pluto 29°20' Virgo IP: Logged |
athenegoddess
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posted July 06, 2015 03:42 PM
Yeah the Cancer Mercury and Mars make him more emotional than your typical Gemini.. His Ascendant also matters a lot. If he has a Water Ascendant then he will be even more emotional. If He doesn't come across that way his Ascendant is probably Masculine. IP: Logged |
Isis71
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posted July 06, 2015 04:08 PM
He seems so mysterious, don't know how to explain, he looks so cold at first but it seems like he is an actor, like he wants to protect himself not to be abandoned or something. Don't know his Ascendant yet, but all those retrograde planets, scares me.  IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
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posted July 06, 2015 05:14 PM
Cancer Merc may help a little with the talking. He will still do a lot, but it will likely be more emotional and nurturing.Would have liked to see a Cancer Venus there though, and a moon not in another air sign. I can't really offer a qualified opinion about the Cancer mars other than to say the one Gem lady I dated that had it seemed both too clingy and to brisily for my taste. And that was with her mars conjunct my Venus... That said, Gemini isn't the sign of the robot or anything. We have feelings too. But sometimes we have to stop for a bit and think about what we are feeling. IP: Logged |
Isis71
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posted July 06, 2015 05:50 PM
Then you must have Venus in Cancer and it's so much different than this cold Gemini Venus, Venus in Cancer is cool. But he has retrograde Venus and that Saturn in Gemini, could it mean he is not so talkative, cause he is quiet most of the time, not like Geminis can be? IP: Logged |
Isis71
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posted July 06, 2015 05:52 PM
He is really weird, can't read him but I want, still looks to me much more softer than he acts.IP: Logged |
Gemini Blues
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posted July 06, 2015 06:33 PM
I do have the Cancer Venus. And it is retrograde. Sometimes retrograde means we internalize the planet's energy. It's still there. But for what comes naturally for a direct planet, the retrograde has to take it step by step. Like learning all the parts instead of being natural at the whole thing.Maybe the Gemini Saturn makes him quieter than the average Gemini. Makes him doubt his communication. Not sure about this... IP: Logged |
Isis71
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posted July 06, 2015 07:12 PM
Could be I must talk with him more Btw I have Cancer Mars, I think it's one of the worst positions xD A lot of passive aggression.IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted July 08, 2015 10:27 PM
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Originally posted by Isis71:
Could be I must talk with him more Btw I have Cancer Mars, I think it's one of the worst positions xD A lot of passive aggression.
Isis, Dear god please explain the passive aggressive thing? Like he can get mad over things I really don't understand why? I over look alot as I'm getting use to it but, I'm so abt self respect and not letting a man treat you or talk to you in any certain way. I'm like the previous text, it's like I see him deeper or I'm nuts and think I can. Lol I am a Virgo rising, Cancer sun, Libra moon, Gemini venus and mars. Saturn in Virgo. He is a Gemini sun and moon, Cancer mars and venus. I'm not sure what his rising sign is. Saturn in gemini. Our Saturn's square each other. IP: Logged |
Isis71
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posted July 09, 2015 06:51 AM
Well, still didn't see him mad or something but as someone who have mars in cancer, can tell you that it's more like, we are fine and cool, until someone say something bad, then we protect ourselves and go mad, but ofc it depends on other aspects I guess. His cancer venus is fine, he can be more emotional and softer then, if we talk about love, mars shows passion, so again, he might want more emotions and to feel secure in relationship, but that gemini moon.. and what about his saturn in gemini? Is he talkative like geminis can be generally or? This one also have that saturn but mercury in cancer, still I think your gemini have much better venus than mine IP: Logged |
Soltze
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posted July 09, 2015 10:35 AM
My Cancer Mars just makes me moody.
And your guy is really REALLY air dominated so if you really wanna make it work you might have to adapt a bit. Because he might have great charm from the libra placements but he won't have all that emotional depth you might be interested in...IP: Logged |
Isis71
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posted July 09, 2015 12:44 PM
I have a lot of air in my horoscope, my Venus is in Aqua for example.
I forgot to add his aspects, here it is, is someone can tell more. Sun Square Moon
Sun Conjunction Venus
Sun Opposition Jupiter
Sun Square Pluto
Moon Square Jupiter
Moon Sextile Neptune
Moon Conjunction Pluto
Mercury Square Uranus
Venus Opposition Jupiter
Venus Square Pluto
Jupiter Square Pluto
Saturn Trine Uranus
Neptune Sextile Pluto IP: Logged |
Isis71
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posted July 10, 2015 12:12 PM
And this is our aspects, first is me, and he is second.Sun Conjunction Jupiter
Mercury Opposition Sun
Mercury Opposition Venus
Venus Trine Sun
Venus Trine Venus
Mars Conjunction Mars
Jupiter Square Mercury
Jupiter Trine Saturn
Jupiter Conjunction Uranus
Saturn Trine Saturn
Saturn Trine Uranus
Uranus Opposition Mercury
Neptune Opposition Mercury
Pluto Trine Mars
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Empty Spaces
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posted July 11, 2015 03:32 AM
My ex is a (gemini moon)hes emotional and a little bit needy.Im also a gemini moon but im nothing like him.My capricorn sun slays my moon i guess..IP: Logged |
Empty Spaces
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posted July 11, 2015 03:43 AM
My ex is a (gemini moon)..hes a little bit needy.Im also a gemini moon but im nothing like him.My capricorn sun slays my moon i guess..IP: Logged |
Isis71
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posted July 12, 2015 12:30 PM
It depend on other aspects, not just a Moon.IP: Logged |
Isis71
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posted July 12, 2015 12:31 PM
So that's why I ask people here to help me about his planet positions and aspects.IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted July 14, 2015 11:25 PM
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Originally posted by Isis71:
Sun 27°44' Gemini
Moon 0°41' Libra
Node 26°24' R Capricorn
Mercury 13°31' Cancer
Venus 25°42' R Gemini
Mars 23°49' Cancer
Jupiter 4°12' R Capricorn
Saturn 12°21' Gemini
Uranus 14°12' R Libra
Neptune 3°14' R Sagittarius
Pluto 29°20' Virgo.
My Gem has mercury conjunct mars in cancer, very aggressive in an argument, not really talk too much but if something bothered him emotionally, he talks very fast and emotional, he won't stop until he gets the point. Mostly I found Mars in cancer (in men) gives shyness in their approach but not when they get threatened. Cancer mercury is a shy communicator. But it doesn't mean they will stop flirt around. My Gem flirt in emotional level, women are emotional creatures, so he will attach with every women in emotional level, there you go... I would prefer a Gem sun without Gem venus. I experienced Gem moon conjunct Gem venus, can't help to love different women and flirt to all of them. Flirt is like a breathe for him. Is it his moon conjunct pluto? Air sun paired with air moon, you must have at least some air and fire in your charts, so you can keep up with him. Edit: If I were you, I may be careful with Libra moon paired with especially air sun. Libra moon tend to indicisive, they will keep balancing.
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colorful butterfly
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posted July 17, 2015 09:28 PM
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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
My Gem has mercury conjunct mars in cancer, very aggressive in an argument, not really talk too much but if something bothered him emotionally, he talks very fast and emotional, he won't stop until he gets the point.Mostly I found Mars in cancer (in men) gives shyness in their approach but not when they get threatened. Cancer mercury is a shy communicator. But it doesn't mean they will stop flirt around. My Gem flirt in emotional level, women are emotional creatures, so he will attach with every women in emotional level, there you go... I would prefer a Gem sun without Gem venus. I experienced Gem moon conjunct Gem venus, can't help to love different women and flirt to all of them. Flirt is like a breathe for him. Is it his moon conjunct pluto? Air sun paired with air moon, you must have at least some air and fire in your charts, so you can keep up with him. Edit: If I were you, I may be careful with Libra moon paired with especially air sun. Libra moon tend to indicisive, they will keep balancing.
I am a Cancer with a libra moon. I can never settle with my emotions. One day I'm ok and the next I'm super sensitive. I understand too much but can't control my emotions from being flighty. I over react when I should just talk about stuff with my partner but u can't help it, once the button is pushed I'm gone. Literally like the wind.
Cancer sun
Libra Moon
Gemini mars and venus
Saturn in Virgo
Virgo rising
I broke up with my Gemini today. Ooooo!!!! He has too many girls, logically I actually understand things but I can not take the guessing games and mental game of when he's going to do something to hurt my feelings ot say something to hurt my feelings. I know he tries not to but it happens and I can not take the jelousy or possessiveness that I feel for him. It's too intense, I don't feel these things and for the life of me I don't know why I feel it now. He has a Gemini sun and moon
Cancer mars and venus
saturn in Gemini. I do not know his time of birth for rising sign. We also have Sarurn square Saturn. I try to leave him but I or he always comes back. I know if our circumstances were different he would be something different to me but given the circumstances I don't know anymore. IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted July 20, 2015 07:31 AM
The quote:
Originally posted by colorful butterfly:
I am a Cancer with a libra moon. I can never settle with my emotions. One day I'm ok and the next I'm super sensitive. I understand too much but can't control my emotions from being flighty. I over react when I should just talk about stuff with my partner but u can't help it, once the button is pushed I'm gone. Literally like the wind.
Cancer sun
Libra Moon
Gemini mars and venus
Saturn in Virgo
Virgo risingI broke up with my Gemini today. Ooooo!!!! He has too many girls, logically I actually understand things but I can not take the guessing games and mental game of when he's going to do something to hurt my feelings ot say something to hurt my feelings. I know he tries not to but it happens and I can not take the jelousy or possessiveness that I feel for him. It's too intense, I don't feel these things and for the life of me I don't know why I feel it now. He has a Gemini sun and moon
Cancer mars and venus
saturn in Gemini. I do not know his time of birth for rising sign. We also have Sarurn square Saturn. I try to leave him but I or he always comes back. I know if our circumstances were different he would be something different to me but given the circumstances I don't know anymore.
I found cancer mercury can be so mean with words because they know how to push your buttons emotionally. They are a good listener though and sometimes understand you in emotional level but also they can use it to hurt you if they feel threatened which is often. So you need to treat your words carefully out of your mouth which frustrating for me because when I try to be honest he sees it as a threatening or give me a silent treatment. I also experienced Gem sun tends to playing mind/mental games, they can't help themselves from doing it, sometimes and other times purposely. So it is your guidance before riding the rollercoaster, are you in or out? Usually also I found Gem don't hold grudges. But with cancer mars they can hold it until it explodes. And also can manipulate to hide from conflict because their feelings easily hurt. Gem with some cancer placement usually has hard time to leave the past esp to the attachment, they like the familiar, so will come back to check their past sometimes. I and my Gem also on-off hundred times. Gem moon is fun but restless, you need to have a lot of variety to keep up with him or don't get jealous he will look for it outside, but usually they can't help it. Prob Gem moon conjunct gem Venus in synastry could be a nice one because you can keep up with the flirtatious. Just my opinion. IP: Logged |
Isis71
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posted July 21, 2015 06:43 PM
Sorry, I haven't been here for some time, was on holiday, yes, it's his aspects and the second is our aspects. Well I have a lot air and water in my Natal, have Venus in Aqua for example, my Saturn is in Aqua, I have Mercury in Sagg, also Mars in Cancer, Jupiter in Libra, Moon in Pisces and what you can say about this, can we be good match or not? Yes he is not talkative so much but seems to me like really clever guy, the only thing is that I wonder does he like to flirt or not. I have one Gemini friend for example, he has Venus in Gemini and Mercury, and have Moon in Cancer, when he is in relationship, he cares about that girl a lot, and don't flirt with others and he actually likes stable relationships, every his relationship ended cause of that girl, not cause of him.IP: Logged |
hearttreasure
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posted July 22, 2015 03:25 AM
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Originally posted by Isis71:
Sorry, I haven't been here for some time, was on holiday, yes, it's his aspects and the second is our aspects. Well I have a lot air and water in my Natal, have Venus in Aqua for example, my Saturn is in Aqua, I have Mercury in Sagg, also Mars in Cancer, Jupiter in Libra, Moon in Pisces and what you can say about this, can we be good match or not? Yes he is not talkative so much but seems to me like really clever guy, the only thing is that I wonder does he like to flirt or not. I have one Gemini friend for example, he has Venus in Gemini and Mercury, and have Moon in Cancer, when he is in relationship, he cares about that girl a lot, and don't flirt with others and he actually likes stable relationships, every his relationship ended cause of that girl, not cause of him.
It depends on how much you want to work on the relationship, I have learnt that astrology is only a guidance to understand not necessarily an absolute answer. Gem sun is naturally a flirt and it can be in many form. Some will use words or body language or voice tones, etc, for example my Gem flirt through emotional side kind ways, I don't even understand this too since I'm not a water mercury nor mars lol. Usually women who have lots of water/earth will attach soon to him. I also found he is more comfortable around women than men. Imagine he approach women using cancer mars strategy, and since he's a Gem sun ruled by mercury which is in cancer, he will talk/flirt gently and with a lil bit shyness. He's still a Gem sun though. I've heard it too about the relationship ended because of the girl, but there's always two side of the story. Somewhere I read that compatible moon increase the comfortability in a long term, there's a natural understanding unconsciously and in synastry it would be very nice if man's moon contacts your personal planets, or prob some of your outer planets? IP: Logged |
Isis71
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posted July 22, 2015 04:20 PM
Well, I am for an serious relationship, was on holiday like I said, but we stayed in touch and we will see each other tomorrow, so I'm a bit nervous, but still must say what I like about him is that he is not so much talkative like Gemini can generally be, he can listen to you and slow down, at least for now, maybe I need to meet him better. I didn't understand very good, you was talking about him when you said that he is more comfortable around women than men? What you mean with that? Yes, Moon is important I know, but also is important in which house is Moon and unfortunately I don't have his time birth to know it, must see.IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
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posted July 26, 2015 05:27 PM
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Originally posted by hearttreasure:
The I found cancer mercury can be so mean with words because they know how to push your buttons emotionally. They are a good listener though and sometimes understand you in emotional level but also they can use it to hurt you if they feel threatened which is often. So you need to treat your words carefully out of your mouth which frustrating for me because when I try to be honest he sees it as a threatening or give me a silent treatment.I also experienced Gem sun tends to playing mind/mental games, they can't help themselves from doing it, sometimes and other times purposely. So it is your guidance before riding the rollercoaster, are you in or out? Usually also I found Gem don't hold grudges. But with cancer mars they can hold it until it explodes. And also can manipulate to hide from conflict because their feelings easily hurt. Gem with some cancer placement usually has hard time to leave the past esp to the attachment, they like the familiar, so will come back to check their past sometimes. I and my Gem also on-off hundred times. Gem moon is fun but restless, you need to have a lot of variety to keep up with him or don't get jealous he will look for it outside, but usually they can't help it. Prob Gem moon conjunct gem Venus in synastry could be a nice one because you can keep up with the flirtatious. Just my opinion.
My appolgise, the original post has a Gemini with cancer mercury. My Gemini has a Gemini mercury and my mercury is in leo. I do feel like when he is offended he can try to take a stab at you to make you hurt. Sometimes he actually hurts me deeply, other times he just makes me laugh because I get what he's doing. I've been surrounded by geminis my whole life I think. Ughhhh, manipulative to some level but mostly careing people. I know he cares, it's just too much for me I guess given the circumstances. IP: Logged | |
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