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NYCdodger
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posted July 15, 2015 06:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NYCdodger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What are your thoughts or experiences on this? I have never seen one thread on here talking about these two planets conjunct or in the same sign as each other in synastry.....surprisingly...

SUP WITH THAT???

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Aunt Anomalia
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posted July 15, 2015 06:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aunt Anomalia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this in one synastry. The problem is the guy is a celeb ~~" But I can tell you I suspect it to be one of the astro factors that are behind his ability to make me feel desperate to be his friend.

Perhaps it's rarely mentioned here because it generates friendly feelings more often?

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posted July 15, 2015 06:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NYCdodger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
I have this in one synastry. The problem is the guy is a celeb ~~" But I can tell you I suspect it to be one of the astro factors that are behind his ability to make me feel desperate to be his friend.

Perhaps it's rarely mentioned here because it generates friendly feelings more often?


So nothing out of romance really comes from a venus/venus conjunction? Find that hard to believe.

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Aunt Anomalia
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posted July 15, 2015 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aunt Anomalia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I didn't say it can't manifest itself in a romantic way. For some it could feel too familiar though. And maybe the sign plays a part in it too. For example, I have Aquarius Venus which is considered to be friendship-focused and at this point I happen to be interested in pursuing platonic relationships only and I don't know if it'll ever change. What if I need something different to drag me out of the friend mode? Anyway, that's just my guess, it's not like I have lots of experiences or observations with this aspect.

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NYCdodger
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posted July 15, 2015 06:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NYCdodger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
I didn't say it can't manifest itself in a romantic way. For some it could feel too familiar though. And maybe the sign plays a part in it too. For example, I have Aquarius Venus which is considered to be friendship-focused and at this point I happen to be interested in pursuing platonic relationships only and I don't know if it'll ever change. What if I need something different to drag me out of the friend mode? Anyway, that's just my guess, it's not like I have lots of experiences or observations with this aspect.


I feel like its kinda rare..I never see people talking about it lol

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Aunt Anomalia
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posted July 15, 2015 06:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aunt Anomalia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not necessarily rare but definitely rarely discussed here .

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posted July 15, 2015 06:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Petronilla     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't know if it 'triggers' anything romantic, but surely it would at the very least reinforce other romantic/sexual aspects?

Wouldn't Venus conjunct Venus in male-female synastry mean that the way the woman expresses her femininity is compatible with what the man finds attractive in a woman?

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posted July 15, 2015 06:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aunt Anomalia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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I don't know if it 'triggers' anything romantic, but surely it would at the very least reinforce other romantic/sexual aspects.

If the synastry is generally "hot", this aspect shouldn't harm it in the very least.

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Wouldn't Venus conjunct Venus in male-female synastry mean that the way the woman expresses her femininity is compatible with what the man finds attractive in a woman?

Theoretically, yes.

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posted July 15, 2015 06:49 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NYCdodger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Petronilla:
I don't know if it 'triggers' anything romantic, but surely it would at the very least reinforce other romantic/sexual aspects?

Wouldn't Venus conjunct Venus in male-female synastry mean that the way the woman expresses her femininity is compatible with what the man finds attractive in a woman?


Thats exactly what I was thinking. And the woman may find the way a man appreciates beauty attractive.

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posted July 15, 2015 09:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Empty Spaces     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My brother and his wife have this :-)

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llewsacm
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posted July 15, 2015 11:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for llewsacm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Haha, I just love the way you express things on here dodger! You had me smiling!!!

Wow, so I think this would be a pretty cool aspect to have with someone. I have experienced Venus sextile Venus in synastry...awesome! I would think you would really get each other and there would be a strong appreciation for one another with a conjunction. Maybe very excitable about your likes, kinda like, YES I enjoy that very much as well!

So funny that you mentioned it has not been discussed much!

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posted July 15, 2015 11:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gemini Blues     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My $.02...

Don't think about is so much as male/female but rather as active/passive or giving/receiving. In that sense, Venus-Venus wants to receive the same things.

My Venus is pretty prominent in my relationships, as it's trine AC, trine Saturn, and conjunct NN. It's one of my main attractors I believe. I've had Sun-Venus, Mars-Venus, Saturn-Venus conjunctions, and any number of squares or trines. Never Venus-Venus conjunct though.

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posted July 16, 2015 03:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Petronilla     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
It's funny because, in my own case, I do seem to find Venus-Venus in some major attraction. For example:

Case #1:

My Venus conjunct his Venus (a bit wide, but same sign)
My Venus conjunct his Eros (less than 1 degree)
My Venus conjunct his Mars/Venus midpoint (exact)
My Venus trine his North Node
My Venus sextile his Saturn
My Venus semi-sextile his Mercury (exact)

Case #2:

My Venus conjunct his Venus (closer than above, but different signs)
My Venus conjunct his Eros
My Venus square his Pluto (exact)
My Venus square his Moon
My Venus opposite his Nessus
My Venus sextile his Uranus
My Venus semi-sextile his Neptune (exact)

I can see that other aspects are more important here, but there are no Venus-Mars aspects in either case. (Except that my own Mars squares #1's Venus.) I just wonder if the Venus-Venus might account, at least partly, for the specific "vibe" here. I usually get very insecure if I have a crush on someone - I feel like I want to become invisible. Here, there's a complete absence of insecurity. In both cases I feel powerful and very feminine - it's almost as if they trigger some kind of narcissism in me.

Of course, it might have nothing whatsoever to do with the Venus-Venus, but I do find it interesting that the conjunction is present in both cases that trigger such similar feelings in me.

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posted July 16, 2015 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for NYCdodger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Although I can't claim its the main reason for it, one thing I know for sure is that all of my most memorable relationships had some form of Venus/Venus contact. Either a conjunction, opposite, or square.

But then again whoever touches my Venus also touches my Moon (and vice-versa) so I know that has to play a role as well.

My Venus is in Cancer and my Moon is in Libra.

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posted July 16, 2015 09:40 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I had a long term relationship with one conjunct mine very very tightly.
We lived together.
Although the relationship failed we've always had a deep love of each other (even if not acknowledged). It went beyond romantic and it will always be there.
Almost like family in a way. If we popped up out of the blue in need we know that we'd have support in the other, always and forever. On her end, I don't think the desire for romance ended as she tried again last that I saw her. I'm rather cutthroat however so I wasn't having that.
Still, there is a type of love there that didn't fade with time, only changed its expression.

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posted July 17, 2015 10:17 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for NYCdodger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by DopGang:
I had a long term relationship with one conjunct mine very very tightly.
We lived together.
Although the relationship failed we've always had a deep love of each other (even if not acknowledged). It went beyond romantic and it will always be there.
Almost like family in a way. If we popped up out of the blue in need we know that we'd have support in the other, always and forever. On her end, I don't think the desire for romance ended as she tried again last that I saw her. I'm rather cutthroat however so I wasn't having that.
Still, there is a type of love there that didn't fade with time, only changed its expression.

That sounds deep, were any other aspects involved in that conjunction?

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posted July 17, 2015 11:36 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for DopGang     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
That sounds deep, were any other aspects involved in that conjunction?

Her south node is there, conjunct. Otherwise they are hanging out there all alone.

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posted July 17, 2015 12:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for NYCdodger     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Her south node is there, conjunct. Otherwise they are hanging out there all alone.

Ahhhhhhh, always best when alone in my opinion! Don't want pesky Saturn interfering lol jk

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posted July 17, 2015 02:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for stillatlarge     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have it with my SO's little brother who had a crush on me. Didn't feel anything special from it.

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I had venus conjunct venus with my ex. We were together for 9 months. On one hand, I loved that ours was conjunct because we got along almost instantly. We both had the same values and wanted the same things from love.

But unfortunately, the things that bring you together, can also bring you apart. I think if there are other positive aspects in the chart, the venus / venus conjunction can be 10x more amazing. Unfortunately, our chart consisted of a lot of power plays lol

Other than that, it is a nice aspect to have in synastry.

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posted September 14, 2017 08:03 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for vertiver     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been on a few dates with a Gemini Sun/Venus with his Venus conjunct my natal Venus in the 7th house. The connection is effortless, we are music nerds, collect vinyl and are obsessed with same bands/artists and every time we hang out it is fun and exciting and he really likes me and my assumption about gemini men has definitely changed. This link is a overlooked one because synastry focuses on yin/yang combos too much.

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posted September 14, 2017 08:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrandFireT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Have had the Venus conjunct Venus (in Sag) with several women. Valentines have not yet grown in any of these gardens, but we are good friends even though we don't stay in close touch.

With my Venus in the 9th, there has always been a literary/language element of some kind involved in these contacts - mainly a shared interest in writing, books and learning.

One gal is an English teacher, another an editor. We've all enjoyed writing.

My sister and I have conjunct Venus. We are great buddies in spite of being far apart geographically. Again, the letters might be a Sag manifestation.

The Venus conjunction in my experience appear to be more of a long-term friendship connection than anything with romantic overtones.

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posted September 14, 2017 08:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for GrandFireT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In his book, Synastry, Ronald Davison writes:

"The conjunction,unless either Venus is afflicted, is a particularly happy contact, denoting tastes in common and inviting shared confidences, but it is not an infallible guarantee of a lasting marriage. . . . . .

A happy companionship and an affectionate consideration for each other's needs develops."

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posted September 14, 2017 10:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for colorful butterfly     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Venus in Gemini with another venus in Gemini. thats 4 people together.

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posted September 15, 2017 05:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hearttreasure     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Venus in Gemini with another venus in Gemini. thats 4 people together.

hahahahahaha

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