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Aquarian Moon
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posted July 29, 2015 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello Everyone,

So this person is someone that annoys to no end. I do not hate him, but there are times where I want to argue with him about how he does certain things. He comes to me for items or professional advice. I actually like helping people and he tried to take advantage of that. At first he was kissing my butt, but then later he acts entitled. Like he signs my pay check (he does not nor does he work for my employer).

He does not respect me or my things. He has boundary issues. He is too thick in the skull to understand that my glares are warning signs before I start to verbalize my opinions. I want to tell him to shove it in the worst way, but it's not the best reaction at work.

Astrologically, do you see where this is showing up in our charts together? I'm on the inside. I also do not know his time of birth.


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LeeLoo2014
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posted July 29, 2015 07:41 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Mostly because you don't like him (unespected Venus stellium), but there are other potentially irritating aspects such as the opposition.

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Aquarian Moon
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posted July 29, 2015 08:15 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Mostly because you don't like him

Yes, that. ^^

I'm thinking maybe there's an aspect where I can say, "Aha! Avoid this in the future!" but astrology is flexible on what makes you melt like butter and what makes you gag like lingering B.O. in a subway train during a 95-degree day.

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Gabby
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posted July 29, 2015 10:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Saturn opposed Saturn/Sun.....that could do it!

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Aquarian Moon
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posted July 30, 2015 08:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Gabby:
Saturn opposed Saturn/Sun.....that could do it!

I definitely feel the Sun/Saturn one.

Funny that he is the Saturn and I always thought he is behind the times.

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Gabby
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posted July 30, 2015 11:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Gabby     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aquarian Moon:
I definitely feel the Sun/Saturn one.

Funny that he is the Saturn and I always thought he is behind the times.


Well, aries anything are kind of nerds, they didn't get the amazing trendy fashion sense us libra ppl do, even if we are only talking about Saturn! Lol

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Aubyanne
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posted July 30, 2015 11:51 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Oh, wow. I'm fascinated.

I could swear that the outside chart is ... late June '67? And yours is ... early October '81?

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Aquarian Moon
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posted August 01, 2015 02:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aquarian Moon     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Oh, wow. I'm fascinated.

I could swear that the outside chart is ... late June '67? And yours is ... early October '81?


Yes, you're correct. Wow, you're good.

What do you find fascinating, Auby?

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Aubyanne
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posted August 03, 2015 01:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aquarian Moon:
Yes, you're correct. Wow, you're good.

What do you find fascinating, Auby?


Heh, well, that's the first time, I think, I've found anyone born remotely near my boyfriend. (And I have plenty of '81'er friends, so I can recognise those placements rather handily, too.)

I'm mostly fascinated by the fact, evidently '80 October, in one individual, is magic; and '81 October with another individual is oil-and-water. And you guys don't even have the 'worst' synastry aspects that we do, which often cause real enmity. Wow!

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