posted August 15, 2015 09:49 AM            

For exemple the Sun is almost unaxpected BUT that Composite Sun is trine with North Node & CONJUNCT to Lilith in 0s so maybe thats even much important in the fact that are the only Sun aspects.

posted August 15, 2015 05:42 PM            

The relationship may ultimately serve as a vehicle for the woman (or whose synastric points aspect the cSUN) to form healthy boundaries, deal with rejection and favourtism, and the darker elements of her sexuality -- or that which is anti-social, raw, and taboo.

The relationship itself would be about score-keeping; the core is 'what can you do for me?' and denotes a selfishness and egocentric drive. It's this-for-that and exchange-based, rather than healthy, communal relating. 'I did X, now I expect you to do Y.' Both partners are keeping close track of what they're getting -- or not getting -- out of the relationship. Especially the one whose natal accesses the energy.

There may also be a danger of extra-relational parties and partners, or the relationship itself involves multiple sexual partners (polyamorous or nonmonogamy). In the case of the former, triangulation, manipulation, and the pursuit of being 'the preferred one' can be a factor, where competition is prominent.

Either way, it's ego-driven, with the darker drives at its core, needing to be fully explored, with the underlying psychological dynamics acknowledged and worked through. Psychotherapy is a great option; the couple entering into issue-centred psychotherapy together to help bring things to the surface.

posted August 15, 2015 11:18 PM            

This is a relationship of selfishness where both parties are going, 'what are you doing for me?' and won't give unless they are getting enough of what they want. Things must be fair to each and equal. One will not give more than they get.

There could also be cheating of one partner by the other, or multiple sexual partners outside of the relationship. So one or both partners could feel rejected by the other as there is a sense of competition, where one is always competing for the other's time or attention.

Bad things will come out of the relationship from childhood and the past to be dealt with in the light once and for all. This can be deep and cleansing. Like therapy.

posted August 16, 2015 08:57 AM            

Well, in fact that relationship "started" while both of us where into other relationships, with other persons, in a clandestine-secretive way.

Specially the man, was in other relationship, and then I enter in another relationship like a "revenge" or make him jealous. So I suppose that explains the birth of our relationship.

I want to know if it's possible some jealousy/possesiveness/ego-charged in that aspect of composite.

We were speaking trough the eyes more than with words cause this "triangle".
And I suppose too much suffering in the part of the other partners, specially the girlfriend of the man.

I think if composite is the birth of a relationship and their appeareance to the others, that sun conjunct lilith and trine NN can explain that strange jealousy triangle games.

posted October 29, 2015 12:28 AM            

But there were some issues (he was married when we begun, I always known that) and some time after, when I left to love him intensenly (because he still merried), I began other relationship (just online, never in real life) but he took that as a competition (acting sometimes with rage but never against me physically, but verbally) with the other man, and he played until he "won me". Tt´s a very emotional-sexual aspect (in both kind of charts)... But in Davison Chart, amor conjunct DSC and Venus conjunc IC, can dimish in some degree that psyco-sexuals ups and downs.

posted October 29, 2015 12:33 AM            

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Originally posted by LaGuinda:
more opinions please!! SUN CONJUNCT LILITH + SUN TRINE NORTH NODE IN COMPOSITE

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I'm not sure it's that big of a deal; to be shouting about, at least. SUN trine NNODE is nice, if it's in tight orb. It can feel very fateful.

posted November 01, 2015 11:47 AM            

For example I need to know what house is ruled by the Sun in the chart.

In what sign the conjunction is in.

What the other planets are doing and assess their strenght

posted November 01, 2015 12:11 PM            

If you need to understand more than has been given here so far, well yes do post the chart so we can give you a more detailed reading of the relationship and have some context for that aspect.

You could also go into meditation... quiet your mind and listen for answers... and every day during the course of your relationship, listen and observe intently. You'll understand the meaning of this aspect with time, since you're applying so much energy there.