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lightbones
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posted August 19, 2015 01:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lightbones     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Would that still indicate a soulmate relationship? I've never understood this couple together and after I looked at their synastry, I still didn't understand it until I added asteroids. I'd always read to not consider asteroids until a solid foundation can be seen with the planets, at least in terms of soulmates/twinflames.

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posted August 19, 2015 01:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for cchampliss2     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't have much to offer but I have this in synastry with someone and looking at our charts before asteroids, we don't have much. We didn't even have aNY saturn contacts and relationships without saturn for me, usually mean "just passing through" but not much else.

But then I checked and we have this conjunction, exact. And for some reason we are drawn to each other but we just can't pinpoint what it is. I think time will tell.

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posted August 19, 2015 03:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Do they have any Sun/Moon/Asc contacts?

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posted August 19, 2015 03:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lightbones     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I'm not sure if you mean Sun/Moon/ASC aspecting the others Sun/Moon/ASC or if they aspect anything in the others chart, so I'll just post their synastry. They do have a few good aspects, including Saturn and the ASC/NN conjunction but, I guess, what I didn't understand was why they were together when her stellium was pretty much unaspected and his Moon/Mars unaspected.

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posted August 19, 2015 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LaceyLeigh     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hmm, no I don't see any Sun/Moon/Asc aspects. However, their moon signs are compatible by sign, so that's nice.

This does look a bit strange. But her stellium does fall into his 5th house, although it is pretty unaspected and his Venus, Sun and Jupiter fall into her 8th house, which explains the attraction.

His Sun also opposes her Neptune which can be very dreamy, but also a bit deceiving. Very soulmate-y

How long have they been together? Are they happy?

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posted August 19, 2015 04:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aunt Anomalia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That unaspected stellium is probably saved by the 5th house overlay.

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posted August 19, 2015 04:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peluches     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow ! It seems Red has his SUN/MOON, VENUS/MARS and EROS/PSYCHE midpoints all conjunct. I'd have preferred to see more of Blue's planets aspecting that point than just EROS. Are you sure her DSC isn't a little further in late Taurus ? (You can easily guess if her TOB is rounded off -- having it fall just on the hour or half hour, for instance, wouldn't be very common.)

They do have an ASC/DSC-NODE conjunction, though. And falling right on the cSUN.

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posted August 19, 2015 04:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What is the story of this couple and how long have they been together?

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posted August 19, 2015 04:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lightbones     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Hmm, no I don't see any Sun/Moon/Asc aspects. However, their moon signs are compatible by sign, so that's nice.

This does look a bit strange. But her stellium does fall into his 5th house, although it is pretty unaspected and his Venus, Sun and Jupiter fall into her 8th house, which explains the attraction.

His Sun also opposes her Neptune which can be very dreamy, but also a bit deceiving. Very soulmate-y

How long have they been together? Are they happy?



Lol, I just realized I didn't even look at the house positions because I was so confused about their relationship based on the planets. That does seem to explain quite a bit though! The thing that concerns me is that she seems to be a bit more serious than he is and that may be explained by the 8th house emphasis for her and the 5th house emphasis for him.

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posted August 19, 2015 05:01 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lightbones     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Peluches:
Wow ! It seems Red has his SUN/MOON, VENUS/MARS and EROS/PSYCHE midpoints all conjunct. I'd have preferred to see more of Blue's planets aspecting that point than just EROS. Are you sure her DSC isn't a little further in late Taurus ? (You can easily guess if her TOB is rounded off -- having it fall just on the hour or half hour, for instance, wouldn't be very common.)

They do have an ASC/DSC-NODE conjunction, though. And falling right on the cSUN.


It actually could be! Her mom swears she was born a little after 6:30 and her dad swears it was at 7 PM so I put her birth time as 6:45. She's gonna look at her birth certificate to see for sure later and get back to me! But, yes, I looked and all his midpoints are around Taurus 27/28.

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posted August 19, 2015 05:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lightbones     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
They dated for a couple months back in high school (5ish years ago) and got back together about 6 months ago. She was really serious about him but he broke up with her, dated other people and was pretty much a jerk to her. She was really broken up about it back then and never really 100% let it go. He came back around about a year ago and they started officially dating 6 months ago but it's been rocky. She thinks he's her soulmate and it just concerns me because I, personally, don't see it. Of course, I could be wrong, I'm not in the relationship so I don't know how it really is. Her whole family and most of the people who knew her back then and knew what all happened was really against them getting back together but they do seem to have a genuine liking for one another.

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posted August 19, 2015 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for LeeLoo2014     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am glad to hear they like each other and I wish the best to them, but from the POV of a relational astrologer, this is a weak synastry to say the least.

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posted August 19, 2015 05:36 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lightbones     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I am glad to hear they like each other and I wish the best to them, but from the POV of a relational astrologer, this is a weak synastry to say the least.


100% agree. I thought maybe I was missing something because I still have a lot to learn.

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posted August 19, 2015 06:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've found that EROS conjunct PSYCHE is not a lock unless it's activated. There are a few ways this can happen. The energy must be integrated and active in both, to start; PSYCHE's must be present in 'hers' and EROS, active and acknowledged in 'his'.

It's said that Psyche is ever-longing for Eros, and will not stop until she 'finds' him. This is regardless of gender. My husband's Psyche stopped 'searching' when he found me (his EROS conjunct my PSYCHE). But a crucial element of my soul's journey is to incorporate the divine feminine, so I couldn't stop until I found my boyfriend (my PSYCHE parallel his EROS). His PSYCHE, curiously enough, is 0º sextile my EROS; there is a subtle ambience where his Psyche is also no longer 'longing for Eros', given the nature of the aspect being present. But his journey involves incorporating the divine masculine, so focussing upon EROS energy is more important than whether his Psyche is 'satisfied'. In our composite, the opposition of the two shows the mutuality of Eros and Psyche united.)

But, in a woman (or one who is feminine-oriented) it can be a powerful drive and deep hunger.

It should be stated, too, that Red is the one for whom it is most necessary to find a Soulmate relationship, and is either here for union with their Twin Flame, or has powerful unresolved karma with a Soulmate (or both).

So we must mention how there is also an EROS conjunct EROS here, which can certainly be sexually powerful, but not necessarily binding. Simply compatible on a soulful sexual level.

One thing's for sure: if EROS is trine the NNODE (as it appears it could be here) it's important to EROS to develop and harness their Erotic energy. I don't see it active in the natal, though. Hmm.

But Red's EROS-PSYCHE is definitely longing for a powerful Soulmate relationship in any case. But I can't say that only having EROS=EROS/PSYCHE is enough to make that a lock. Lovely that it's hovering about the DSC, though. I can see why it looks like it is.

Yes. I'm afraid this is bothersome. Perhaps EROS does have a developed understanding of the divine masculine, or is truly capable of being the loving, transformative partner that PSYCHE longs for and needs. Ergo, PSYCHE must, too, be integrating her divine feminine, able to be Love; to do so unconditionally, and at its total mercy.

Outside of that, this conjunction simply won't cut it.

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posted August 19, 2015 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by cchampliss2:
But then I checked and we have this conjunction, exact.

Curiously, is it female PSYCHE to male EROS, or male PSYCHE to female EROS?

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posted August 19, 2015 06:33 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Peluches     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by lightbones:
It actually could be! Her mom swears she was born a little after 6:30 and her dad swears it was at 7 PM so I put her birth time as 6:45. She's gonna look at her birth certificate to see for sure later and get back to me! But, yes, I looked and all his midpoints are around Taurus 27/28.


Anything in the composite at 27° TAU/SCO ?

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