posted August 21, 2015 10:21 AM            

Since It's the first time I share with someone these aspects I have noticed:

- unless there is also a Venus/Uranus conjunction, this aspect won't bring love at first sight and if it does it will take the pair longer than usual admit their feelings.
-You will hate being apart from each other. Even if you have no relationship or even feel like you can't stand each other as people, being apart will be a pain. Literally a huge pain.
- You will act hot and cold.
- You will feel responsible for each other.
- Even if you love each other you will have a hard time to express those feelings.

Its gonna be a love/hate relationship but if the aspect is mutual it will be hard to break. At least... this is how I feel. And how I know he feels.

posted August 21, 2015 11:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
I have these aspects with someone very tight. 1 to 2 degrees.

Since It's the first time I share with someone these aspects I have noticed:

- unless there is also a Venus/Uranus conjunction, this aspect won't bring love at first sight and if it does it will take the pair longer than usual admit their feelings.
-You will hate being apart from each other. Even if you have no relationship or even feel like you can't stand each other as people, being apart will be a pain. Literally a huge pain.
- You will act hot and cold.
- You will feel responsible for each other.
- Even if you love each other you will have a hard time to express those feelings.

Its gonna be a love/hate relationship but if the aspect is mutual it will be hard to break. At least... this is how I feel. And how I know he feels.

What experiences do you have for this aspect?

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It is a glue, but can be a bit harsh to experience.

posted August 21, 2015 12:30 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Look at your progressions. For both. Individually and synastric progressions.
It will start when your progressions say so.

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posted August 21, 2015 12:36 PM            

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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
I have a double whammy of Venus square Saturn with someone and Saturn square Venus in composite with a Venus trine Uranus in composite and Venus tribe Uranus in synastry. Will this work like you explained for the Venus Saturn conjunction?

I've also read that in Venus Saturn hard aspects that Saturn loves Venus but does not feel good enough for Venus and is afraid of getting hurt so they pull away and act cold .

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Conjunctions ARE NOT bad or good aspects. Are neutral. Are we are talking here about conjunctions not squares.

posted August 21, 2015 12:57 PM            

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Originally posted by LexusVirgo:
Did I say it was bad? No I did not, I said what I read on the Venus Saturn conjunction aspect.

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No. I said it.

posted August 22, 2015 02:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
the conjunction is a tough aspect but it is def so much better in comparison with the square/opp..the square is just painful over time

I agree that it delays the start of the relationship ( if ever)

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If ever?

posted August 22, 2015 08:35 AM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
If ever?

Apparently no one was made for me. There must be something wrong with me. Not sure what to think. I used to believe that squares and oppositions were because the men I liked were my age or a bit younger. Now this guy is almost a decade older than me and we cannot have a relationship either. What the heck? No matter with whom I want to be, the relationship can never be. OK... I will resign myself and start adopting cats. Fatalistic much?

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posted August 22, 2015 08:45 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Judging from your progressed chart, you will meet your LOVE in 10-12 years, that is the time your Sun will progress to conjunct your Venus.
Can you post your progression to natal in let say 11 years?

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posted August 22, 2015 08:49 AM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
Orange I hope you are joking. I cannot wait that long. I want to have children and get married.

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well, maybe you will get married earlier under a different progressed aspect/transit and 10 years from now it will simply show a perfect harmony in your love life.

arent you very young now anyway? Like 23 or something?

posted August 22, 2015 08:50 AM            

Also, the most important part of progressions making you come together with someone is when the progressions activate your synastric structure.

Example: I have a mutable Venus/Mars cross with my current love and we got together when this cross was activated by transits/progressions.

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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

AstroMandala

posted August 22, 2015 08:50 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
well, maybe you will get married earlier under a different progressed aspect/transit and 10 years from now it will simply show a perfect harmony in your love life.

arent you very young now anyway? Like 23 or something?

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posted August 22, 2015 08:55 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
I would also look at your major relationship planet. I have Saturn conj DSC and I have always had hard/dynamic aspects to Saturn (progressions) when forming or ending a relationship. The same happened with my parents, for my mother, who has Saturn as relationship planet too.

Also, the most important part of progressions making you come together with someone is when the progressions activate your synastric structure.

Example: I have a mutable Venus/Mars cross with my current love and we got together when this cross was activated by transits/progressions.

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posted August 22, 2015 08:56 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:

yep, that too. Especially if Venus is involved. i.e. Venus progressing to the 7th house ruler ( or vice versa) usully bring an important love relationship

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posted August 22, 2015 08:57 AM            

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Originally posted by Rosalind:
So I'm doomed. As always.

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shut up

it's already cooking. It's coming to you

posted August 22, 2015 08:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
shut up

it's already cooking. It's coming to you

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posted August 22, 2015 08:58 AM            

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Originally posted by Orange:

yep, that too. Especially if Venus is involved. i.e. Venus progressing to the 7th house ruler ( or vice versa) usully bring an important love relationship

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Orange is probably right in your case though, Venus is your DSC planet. It doesn't mean you will not know love until then, but probably this is the moment when you start a family. Maybe knowing the guy a few years before and getting married in app 10 years. It's not that bad, 39 is like 29 nowadays
About my age now, and I still want and know I will have kids.

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posted August 22, 2015 08:59 AM            

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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Orange is probably right in your case though, Venus is your DSC planet. It doesn't mean you will not know love until then, but probably this is the moment when you start a family. Maybe knowing the guy a few years before and getting married in app 10 years. It's not that bad, 39 is like 29 nowadays
About my age now, and I still want and know I will have kids.

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