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Septembergirl
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posted September 14, 2015 06:06 PM
  
I''m a Virgo woman and I've been dealing with this same situation with a cap man for the past 3-5 yrs. I'm so frustrated with him, I'm about ready to cut off all contact with him. I may post my charts later and you all can tell me what you think, but I think it's a lost cause. IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted September 14, 2015 07:22 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Hi I can see you did have some advice here, right?  The charts are not bad, apart from his Saturn and Uranus not receiving aspects and there's a need for Taurus in his chart and I don't see any/ Do you have specific questions?
Thank you LeeLoo. Yes, I did, but then I was asking to elaborate and no one answered. In particular: Someone said that due Saturn with NN and Mars sq Pluto it would overpower our positive aspects. Saying that Saturn/NN karma could be a negative one if we are young. We are in our mid 30's and I would hope that we have had enough relationship experiences to know what we want in a relationship. But I am curious to hear how strong of an influence this aspect plays? Would it overpower other positives? I was asking if these positive aspects: Sun/Sun, Moon/Moon, both Venuses in water, as well as Juno aspect would be strong enough to overweigh the Saturn and Mars/Pluto negative aspects. We have Moon/Moon aspects as well as Moon/Juno and I though that astrologers look for when matching up someone who would be a long-term or even marriage positive pair. Are these strong enough to counter-balance the Saturn/NN and Mars/Pluto?
Thank you!!!
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CuriousV
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posted September 14, 2015 07:27 PM
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Originally posted by Septembergirl:
I''m a Virgo woman and I've been dealing with this same situation with a cap man for the past 3-5 yrs. I'm so frustrated with him, I'm about ready to cut off all contact with him. I may post my charts later and you all can tell me what you think, but I think it's a lost cause.
Wow, sorry to hear that. You've got some patience though! I could not do the on/off thing with someone for 3 years...What is it that is not working with you two? Is he also cold/aloof/distant? Or something else?
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Septembergirl
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posted September 14, 2015 07:39 PM
Very hot and cold....don't know where I stand with him, not sure he knows where he stands with me. It's very complex. Not sure if I'm imagining this connection I feel with him or if it's one sided. I feel it in my soul. Very hard to shake off.
What you said here: "I do feel that we had that instant/unspoken attraction but it seems to be somewhat difficult for us to move forward. I feel like both of us are wary of showing our interest towards each other...would it be due to Saturn restriction?" Yes, yes, yes!! That sums it up!! That's exactly how I feel too!! Though I feel rejected too because my Venus squares his Saturn.
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LeeLoo2014
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posted September 15, 2015 10:05 AM
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Originally posted by CuriousV:
Thank you LeeLoo. Yes, I did, but then I was asking to elaborate and no one answered.In particular: Someone said that due Saturn with NN and Mars sq Pluto it would overpower our positive aspects. Saying that Saturn/NN karma could be a negative one if we are young. We are in our mid 30's and I would hope that we have had enough relationship experiences to know what we want in a relationship. But I am curious to hear how strong of an influence this aspect plays? Would it overpower other positives? I was asking if these positive aspects: Sun/Sun, Moon/Moon, both Venuses in water, as well as Juno aspect would be strong enough to overweigh the Saturn and Mars/Pluto negative aspects. We have Moon/Moon aspects as well as Moon/Juno and I though that astrologers look for when matching up someone who would be a long-term or even marriage positive pair. Are these strong enough to counter-balance the Saturn/NN and Mars/Pluto?
Thank you!!!
Saturn NN is an important aspect and it can be an important glue. Mars/Pluto doesn't have to be bad, if the energy is used for common goals and activities and not against each other. It's not a sq, it's a conjunction on DSC and it can be very passionate and attractive. Saturn is also involved in a widish conjunction with Sun and you do have Sun/Saturn DW and also Moon Saturn. The difficulty of your synastry comes from the fact that there is something missing for him, his Uranus Minor Triangle is a bit lonely. But there's a lot to work with, if you both want it. IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted September 15, 2015 01:14 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
Saturn NN is an important aspect and it can be an important glue. Mars/Pluto doesn't have to be bad, if the energy is used for common goals and activities and not against each other. It's not a sq, it's a conjunction on DSC and it can be very passionate and attractive. Saturn is also involved in a widish conjunction with Sun and you do have Sun/Saturn DW and also Moon Saturn. The difficulty of your synastry comes from the fact that there is something missing for him, his Uranus Minor Triangle is a bit lonely. But there's a lot to work with, if you both want it.
Oh thank you so much LeeLoo...Wondering if that "something is missing for him" as you stated it is why I feel that he has not been so forward with progressing this relationship?? I feel like the attraction is there and it's definitely mutual but he has been acting rather aloof. However, I can feel that there is this familiar feeling between us and it definitely draws me to him like a magnet (Is this Moon/Juno aspect that would act that way?) Can I also ask you if my friend's chart has any of these negatives or something that stands out for you that you see as a very good aspect or a bad aspect? She has been trying to get with her Cappy guy but he seems to be giving off mixed signals, like he wants to see her, then something comes up and he cancels and then she doesn't hear from him for a couple of days. Then he makes plans to see her and when they are together, she says that the chemistry is off the hook, they are all over each other. But it's the same as in my situation I guess, it has not moved forward... Thank you!
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LeeLoo2014
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posted September 16, 2015 12:21 PM
That would mostly be planetary Moon/Mars, Sun Mars, the lovely Sun Moon combo Both charts have very good aspects, but some not so great. For your friend for instance, I am not a fan of Saturn Jupiter opp or an unaspected Moon. Make it more difficult for these stubborn Caps  and they will have to get it going. ------------------
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CuriousV
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posted September 17, 2015 01:47 PM
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Originally posted by LeeLoo2014:
That would mostly be planetary Moon/Mars, Sun Mars, the lovely Sun Moon combo Both charts have very good aspects, but some not so great. For your friend for instance, I am not a fan of Saturn Jupiter opp or an unaspected Moon. Make it more difficult for these stubborn Caps and they will have to get it going.
Thank you so much for your input, LeeLoo! Yes, I feel like more on his terms at this point and unless I make an effort to reach out and when I do, he seems to be interested but that's about it. As far as I like the guy, I am more into a traditional approach where a man would need to court a woman. So I think I am going to leave this one for now... And for my friend, she has much more patience than me She's been hanging herself all over him, literally, lol. I feel like it's waaaayyyy too smothering and clingy. Not sure how long her patience will last though. He is all sweet to her when SHE makes an effort but other than that he is rather cold/unmoved. Do Caps are usually like this? They take a LOOOONGG freaking time to warm up to someone? I thought that was only Scorps who took FOREEVVVERR to let someone in, lol IP: Logged |
CuriousV
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posted September 21, 2015 08:14 PM
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theunknown
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posted September 21, 2015 08:31 PM
@CuriousV: not to be rude, but when anybody rewind with an aspect, like sun conjunct Mars or Mars conjunct Pluto, it's really up to your initiatives to google the mentioned sunastry aspects. Mostly because we are not paid, and this is a forum for self learners who all have a real life. You could have just googled these aspects yourself. I think you receive very thorough answer here. (I'm remembering my threads last year that needed 5 bumps for just one response). Since you don't have direct birth time of both party, your moon might not conjunct his moon and the house overlays are probably incorrect. IP: Logged |
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