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Topic: Pluto in Synastry
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UnderworldGlory
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From: USA
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 30, 2015 01:10 PM
  
Who else here is completely obsessed with Plutonic relationships?It's like, they get your "depth". They understand your private & innermost needs and they love it because it's all them and nothing else... How passionate is that UNFFFF IP: Logged |
Koniucha
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posted August 30, 2015 01:51 PM
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Originally posted by UnderworldGlory:
Who else here is completely obsessed with Plutonic relationships?It's like, they get your "depth". They understand your private & innermost needs and they love it because it's all them and nothing else... How passionate is that UNFFFF
I love them, but I feel most people don't, at least the ones I have met. I have Pluto square asc and Pluto square Moon, so I am already a very intense person. I feel like people prefer someone that is more east, breezy, so to speak. IP: Logged |
Stellar.pleasure
Knowflake Posts: 37
From: Somewhere only we know
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 30, 2015 02:07 PM
Love it but I also like a nice dose of lightness at times tooI have Venus and Mars square Pluto, sun and Mercury trine Pluto IP: Logged |
Randall
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posted August 30, 2015 02:39 PM
Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |
UnderworldGlory
Knowflake Posts: 139
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 30, 2015 03:18 PM
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Originally posted by Koniucha:
I love them, but I feel most people don't, at least the ones I have met. I have Pluto square asc and Pluto square Moon, so I am already a very intense person.I feel like people prefer someone that is more east, breezy, so to speak.
I think it has a lot to do with maturing, because that's what Pluto does But PHEW. Doesn't really matter. Pluto is my planterary ruler anyway. I love it. It's like you can't escape. You don't want to escape
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Bluejay
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posted August 30, 2015 04:14 PM
Meeeee! I'm a Scorpio Sun, Moon conjunct Pluto, and 5 planets in the 8th. Pluto has to be involved for me to feel ANY type of romantic attraction, and then it becomes a complete obsession. IP: Logged |
mereiposa
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Registered: Apr 2015
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posted August 30, 2015 05:46 PM
Agreed. Scorpio rising, 8th house sun. If Pluto is not active, it seems like romantic interests don't grab me. As someone else mentioned, it takes another plutonic person to want this same type of relationship. Romantically, I am not finding too many.IP: Logged |
UnderworldGlory
Knowflake Posts: 139
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 30, 2015 05:51 PM
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Originally posted by mereiposa:
Agreed. Scorpio rising, 8th house sun. If Pluto is not active, it seems like romantic interests don't grab me. As someone else mentioned, it takes another plutonic person to want this same type of relationship. Romantically, I am not finding too many.
That's exactly my problem. I feel like I'm never going to meet my Persephone. Or at least my legendary Plutonic lover.
I've been trying to investigate where I could possibly meet him astrologically, but alas .. Nothing
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Soltze
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Registered: Mar 2015
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posted August 30, 2015 06:46 PM
No Pluto. No relationship.
Whether the person is Plutonian or it won't work. I know I'm not very easy, so I need someone who knows how to help me stabilize (as in let me get it all out and give me the alone time to chill)- and feels deeply like I do.The issue is I always get involved with people that activate the bad side of Pluto by synastry.
It's always my Pluto on their angles, nodes...gosh you name it I wan't some nice...soft Pluto aspects plzzz IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
Knowflake Posts: 294
From: New Jersey
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 30, 2015 07:42 PM
Do Pluto aspects always indicate attraction?l I have this aspect with a guy I like, and the orb is less than 3 degrees. However, I checked the synastry with a few of my friends, and the orbs are almost exact. Does this mean I should keep him away from everyone in my generation? :P IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
Knowflake Posts: 294
From: New Jersey
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 30, 2015 07:47 PM
Actually, I have Venus opposite Pluto - out of sign natally - and in sign with everyone 2 years older than me, and I don't feel attracted to most people of that generation.. Obviously it would have been almost impossible to crush on the 200 people in the graduating class before me. :P IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh
Knowflake Posts: 294
From: New Jersey
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted August 30, 2015 07:52 PM
Although Pluto aspects are golden, without synastry/composite aspects like Moon/Mars, Mars/Venus, Moon/Venus as a driving force, I don't feel much attraction for the other person. But, when those aspects are present, and there's a nice Venus/Pluto aspect as well, there's no stopping me.  IP: Logged |
GypseeWind
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From: Love Street, she lingers long on Love Street..
Registered: May 2009
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posted August 30, 2015 10:25 PM
Sigh. Pluto relationships are the only ones that ever stick for me. Currently with a scorpio sun/mars/nept guy who has moon sq pluto. I have merc and nept in scorpio, 8th house sun and venus, pluto sq sun and venus, trine MC. Together we have sun sq pkuto, moon sq pluto and mars sextile pluto. I dream pluto any more....IP: Logged |
UnderworldGlory
Knowflake Posts: 139
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 30, 2015 11:22 PM
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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Do Pluto aspects always indicate attraction?l I have this aspect with a guy I like, and the orb is less than 3 degrees. However, I checked the synastry with a few of my friends, and the orbs are almost exact. Does this mean I should keep him away from everyone in my generation? :P
Honestly I think it's based on primitive sexuality also predator vs prey. I don't like or go for Plutonic lovers from my generation either. I tend to go for older types. Because that's "Plutonic" to me. I'm not easily swooned by my NeptunexUranus generation. IP: Logged |
UnderworldGlory
Knowflake Posts: 139
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 30, 2015 11:25 PM
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Originally posted by Soltze:
No Pluto. No relationship.
Whether the person is Plutonian or it won't work. I know I'm not very easy, so I need someone who knows how to help me stabilize (as in let me get it all out and give me the alone time to chill)- and feels deeply like I do.The issue is I always get involved with people that activate the bad side of Pluto by synastry.
It's always my Pluto on their angles, nodes...gosh you name it I wan't some nice...soft Pluto aspects plzzz
Same :/
I really want to experience a PlutoxMoon trine.
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Gabby
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posted August 30, 2015 11:29 PM
Love them!!
Got a Pluto/Venus conjunction going on in synastry right now, my Pluto/his Venus are on my AC. Plus my Eros/Valentine/IC square that conjunction! So far I like it. IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
Knowflake Posts: 504
From: TX
Registered: Nov 2010
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posted August 31, 2015 02:07 AM
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Originally posted by Soltze:
No Pluto. No relationship.
Whether the person is Plutonian or it won't work. I know I'm not very easy, so I need someone who knows how to help me stabilize (as in let me get it all out and give me the alone time to chill)- and feels deeply like I do.The issue is I always get involved with people that activate the bad side of Pluto by synastry.
It's always my Pluto on their angles, nodes...gosh you name it I wan't some nice...soft Pluto aspects plzzz
What would you say about Pluto and vertex on someone else' IC? IP: Logged |
AstroAJ
Newflake Posts: 24
From: Rocky Mountains
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 31, 2015 08:07 PM
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Originally posted by UnderworldGlory:
Same :/
I really want to experience a PlutoxMoon trine.
I have Pluto trine Moon natal, so does the guy I'm seeing. We are the same age so it's a double whammy in synastry. Also, in our first meeting chart, Moon was trine Pluto. I'm super curious about this aspect and want to read more of others' experiences. Because we both have it and it was also in the first meeting chart I have a hunch that it may be an important "theme" in the relationship. We have lots of other strong contacts (double whammy venus mars stuff, etc) and the relationship is still fairly new so I'm not sure how to look for this aspect playing out between us in real life. It's hard to decipher exactly what is what when there are a lot of powerful aspects happening between two people. any suggestions on how to understand this one? IP: Logged |
UnderworldGlory
Knowflake Posts: 139
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 31, 2015 08:22 PM
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Originally posted by AstroAJ:
I have Pluto trine Moon natal, so does the guy I'm seeing. We are the same age so it's a double whammy in synastry. Also, in our first meeting chart, Moon was trine Pluto.I'm super curious about this aspect and want to read more of others' experiences. Because we both have it and it was also in the first meeting chart I have a hunch that it may be an important "theme" in the relationship. We have lots of other strong contacts (double whammy venus mars stuff, etc) and the relationship is still fairly new so I'm not sure how to look for this aspect playing out between us in real life. It's hard to decipher exactly what is what when there are a lot of powerful aspects happening between two people. any suggestions on how to understand this one?
I have Moon Square Pluto natally and so does my ex of 8 years, so same situation. I think what Pluto does in this situation is express A LOT of emotion and jealousy/possessiveness of the other person. It also cuts deep to the /real/ intentions/emotions of the other person. I imagine the trine would make things a lot easier though. As in, the real intention/emotion of the other person or you (in synastry) wouldn't be so devastated. It would be more soothing, comfortable, but still intense nonetheless because Pluto's there. IP: Logged |
AstroAJ
Newflake Posts: 24
From: Rocky Mountains
Registered: Aug 2015
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posted August 31, 2015 08:31 PM
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Originally posted by UnderworldGlory:
I have Moon Square Pluto natally and so does my ex of 8 years, so same situation. I think what Pluto does in this situation is express A LOT of emotion and jealousy/possessiveness of the other person. It also cuts deep to the /real/ intentions/emotions of the other person.I imagine the trine would make things a lot easier though. As in, the real intention/emotion of the other person or you (in synastry) wouldn't be so devastated. It would be more soothing, comfortable, but still intense nonetheless because Pluto's there.
Okay so yeah emotionally intense, but in a smooth way. TY!! 
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erickaf
Knowflake Posts: 1076
From: Europe
Registered: Oct 2014
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posted August 31, 2015 09:09 PM
Maybe its just me or I am allergic to Plutonians LOL but I don't get this fascination with Pluto in synastry to be honest. My first bf ever and I had a lot of Pluto aspects in synastry and in our composite. And I hope never ever to go through this again, and I now with experience I have learned Pluto in synastry isn't going to make me happy. It was an intense love but intense hate. Sometimes his presence alone irritated me, exhausted me...other times I needed him so badly. I felt sooooo emotionally drained during our relationship. Yes, it feels fated but once we were over I felt like I dodged a bullet. Once we broke up it took years to recover, then we tired to get back together and that love/hate started all over again quickly LOL. We had Pluto square Venus, Sun opposite Pluto, Moon trine Pluto, in synastry and in composite I believe it was Sun squared Pluto tight, and Venus conjunct Pluto. No Thank You. IP: Logged |
UnderworldGlory
Knowflake Posts: 139
From: USA
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted August 31, 2015 09:50 PM
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Originally posted by erickaf:
Maybe its just me or I am allergic to Plutonians LOL but I don't get this fascination with Pluto in synastry to be honest. My first bf ever and I had a lot of Pluto aspects in synastry and in our composite. And I hope never ever to go through this again, and I now with experience I have learned Pluto in synastry isn't going to make me happy. It was an intense love but intense hate. Sometimes his presence alone irritated me, exhausted me...other times I needed him so badly. I felt sooooo emotionally drained during our relationship. Yes, it feels fated but once we were over I felt like I dodged a bullet. Once we broke up it took years to recover, then we tired to get back together and that love/hate started all over again quickly LOL. We had Pluto square Venus, Sun opposite Pluto, Moon trine Pluto, in synastry and in composite I believe it was Sun squared Pluto tight, and Venus conjunct Pluto. No Thank You.
Omg lol Sun Square Pluto. Sounds really intense.
What was the Venus conjunct pluto like? IP: Logged |
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