posted September 11, 2015 06:08 PM            

I am thinking about it... It's a complex connection and I don't have a firm grasp on how to interpret it. It is an intimate connection, no doubt; neither are planetary energies, and both are derived from the moon (unless we're discussing asteroid Lilith..). The action feels subtle but profound to me. It seems that I'm being stimulated in my needed direction by that which he fights to repress in himself in Pisces--the Lilith which is all-knowing and yet unsure, a Lilith who is nebulous and mutable, sensitive and impressionable and in some way has been made to feel wrong for being so.

It's a challenge because I feel the definite rightness of that Piscean energy in myself; I KNOW I'm doing the right thing when I go towards the NN energy of transcendence, mutability, etc... yet he feels it is something dark, to be fought against.

I might be wrong and totally off in left field with my interpretation of Lilith's energy. Please somebody steer me right if so.

With the point which describes the repressed/irrepressible on a partner's North Node we can well expect a potent connection. Especially if Lilith is well aspected or prominent in the relationship or natally for either party, i think there is huge potential for exploration of themes surrounding assertiveness, desire, true expression of our core...

posted September 11, 2015 06:09 PM            

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Originally posted by Gracha:
Oh I Had this he was very attracted to me and we matched very well intimately. His complaint was that I didn't put enough effort into the relationship. We are both aries suns btw

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Ohhhhh makes sense I had a feeling it meant what I had thought about these NN conjunct lilith (i).

Did he always find you attractive even before you got together and after the relationship? Does it seem like YOU are a haunt to him physically? Emotionally? Etc?

posted September 11, 2015 06:22 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
My partners true osc black lilith is conjunct my North Node.

I am thinking about it... It's a complex connection and I don't have a firm grasp on how to interpret it. It is an intimate connection, no doubt; neither are planetary energies, and both are derived from the moon (unless we're discussing asteroid Lilith..). The action feels subtle but profound to me. It seems that I'm being stimulated in my needed direction by that which he fights to repress in himself in Pisces--the Lilith which is all-knowing and yet unsure, a Lilith who is nebulous and mutable, sensitive and impressionable and in some way has been made to feel wrong for being so.

It's a challenge because I feel the definite rightness of that Piscean energy in myself; I KNOW I'm doing the right thing when I go towards the NN energy of transcendence, mutability, etc... yet he feels it is something dark, to be fought against.

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Yeah I can see where your going with this especially since you've had mutable aspect in synastry. It definetely is confusing im with you on that and your right about how prominent lilith (i) which is h21 in ASTRO.com. In my natal and if we have strong lilith in synastry. And omg yes I can definetely see the NN oppurtunity to learn whatever asteroid or planet is touching this sensitive point to them. Bringing Lilith is a wonderful oppurtunity to a mans world especially if the man this guy has slept with lots of girls can get any girl he is super attractive he's a musician. Maybe this oppurtunity is for him to realize that he can't always get what is far away from him LMAO I don't know I have no idea. LOL

My 5th house Lilith (I),h21, is trine my ascendant exact opposite my pholus in the 11th house. All of his Lilith's except asteroid Lilith 1181 I think....is conjunct my venus and trine my moon. My BML square his sun moon and venus lol.

posted September 11, 2015 06:28 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Also I think maybe Lilith's attraction to the North Node person when they're expressing their NN in a healthy way would be extremely powerful, but there would also be an element of repulsion, perhaps equally powerful... They would fight the repulsive part but it would persist.

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Oh so what your saying is that the NN finds Lilith beautiful but repulsive at the same time? I figured that. He does compliment my clothing and my style a lot his NN also trine my ascedant and he's got his Casanova and YURLOV conjunct my ascendant lol. Which is also trine his NN. Hehe

posted September 11, 2015 06:51 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
I have a feeling it could go both ways.. depends how much Lilith has embraced their own Lilith and to what extent the NN is comfortable seeing that energy expressed... Although whether comfort is the right word is questionable! There will always be some dynamic tension, in my opinion...

I think the NN person is always going to feel the intrinsic rightness of that point in their chart and they'll probably be uniquely placed to embrace their partner's Lilith energy, to embody the goodness of that point...

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I see I can definetely see this and the dynamic tension will always be present as I can understand where your coming from with this. Yes I'll keep that in mind that it can also go both ways.

posted September 11, 2015 06:59 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
My partners true osc black lilith is conjunct my North Node.

I am thinking about it... It's a complex connection and I don't have a firm grasp on how to interpret it. It is an intimate connection, no doubt; neither are planetary energies, and both are derived from the moon (unless we're discussing asteroid Lilith..). The action feels subtle but profound to me. It seems that I'm being stimulated in my needed direction by that which he fights to repress in himself in Pisces--the Lilith which is all-knowing and yet unsure, a Lilith who is nebulous and mutable, sensitive and impressionable and in some way has been made to feel wrong for being so.

It's a challenge because I feel the definite rightness of that Piscean energy in myself; I KNOW I'm doing the right thing when I go towards the NN energy of transcendence, mutability, etc... yet he feels it is something dark, to be fought against.

I might be wrong and totally off in left field with my interpretation of Lilith's energy. Please somebody steer me right if so.

With the point which describes the repressed/irrepressible on a partner's North Node we can well expect a potent connection. Especially if Lilith is well aspected or prominent in the relationship or natally for either party, i think there is huge potential for exploration of themes surrounding assertiveness, desire, true expression of our core...

I am thinking now of the North Node as a point which can be stimulated in infinite ways, all lending to the essential learning and growth of the North Node party. Bringing Lilith into the equation is a definite learning opportunity, no matter how you slice it. Maybe it's an opportunity for NN to learn how the world might demonize their NN's energy, how to be it anyway?

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I think for NN, Lilith conjunct might feel like a calculating Mars, Mars with intention...maybe Pluto... I know how it feels to have Pluto conjunct NN. NN can be elusive. Pluto there identifies, acts as a magnifier...

posted September 11, 2015 07:12 PM            

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Originally posted by venus2tinkerbell:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
[b]My partners true osc black lilith is conjunct my North Node.

I am thinking about it... It's a complex connection and I don't have a firm grasp on how to interpret it. It is an intimate connection, no doubt; neither are planetary energies, and both are derived from the moon (unless we're discussing asteroid Lilith..). The action feels subtle but profound to me. It seems that I'm being stimulated in my needed direction by that which he fights to repress in himself in Pisces--the Lilith which is all-knowing and yet unsure, a Lilith who is nebulous and mutable, sensitive and impressionable and in some way has been made to feel wrong for being so.

It's a challenge because I feel the definite rightness of that Piscean energy in myself; I KNOW I'm doing the right thing when I go towards the NN energy of transcendence, mutability, etc... yet he feels it is something dark, to be fought against.

I might be wrong and totally off in left field with my interpretation of Lilith's energy. Please somebody steer me right if so.

With the point which describes the repressed/irrepressible on a partner's North Node we can well expect a potent connection. Especially if Lilith is well aspected or prominent in the relationship or natally for either party, i think there is huge potential for exploration of themes surrounding assertiveness, desire, true expression of our core...

I am thinking now of the North Node as a point which can be stimulated in infinite ways, all lending to the essential learning and growth of the North Node party. Bringing Lilith into the equation is a definite learning opportunity, no matter how you slice it. Maybe it's an opportunity for NN to learn how the world might demonize their NN's energy, how to be it anyway?

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I think for NN, Lilith conjunct might feel like a calculating Mars, Mars with intention...maybe Pluto... I know how it feels to have Pluto conjunct NN. NN can be elusive. Pluto there identifies, acts as a magnifier...

I feel my own Lilith this way too
- identifying, magnifying, naming[/B][/QUOTE]