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posted September 16, 2015 05:04 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Selene     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Not sure if i can even fix it, lol.

A month and a half has passed and i am already bored with my boyfriend. It happens all the time, i suspect i would be running soon, but this time i promised myself to stick around. I wonder if my Venus square Uranus by 8 degrees could still be causing this...

The other thing is Mr.Uranus.. why, oh why, is he acting like such an a....e, when i have somebody else to keep my company. He showed up at my first date with my bf and acted as if he would like to hit the guy straight there. He didn't, of course, but the fact that he was there when i specifically told him that i would be there on a date... He stated very clear that the guy was not good enough and that i should stop seeing him and if not, he would call him by himself and tell it. He also now compliments me everytime he can and has even made plans to go with me to an event next weekend - only if i'd be there.

I'd be happy to receive all this extra attention from him, BUT i know he is acting like that just because somebody else is in the picture. He can't stand if i am with someone else but he doesn't act himself. What in his chart or our synastry could point to that? (Theoretically speaking, not from the actual one)

I know that our progressed charts show that we COULD begin a relationship right now as my progressed Sun is in an applying almost exact trine with his natal Venus on my DSC. But this is making me feel so bad. I feel like a really bad person being in a relationship with my bf and thinking about Him. Wanting him, loving him. I'm a mess.

Any advices?

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posted September 16, 2015 05:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mnm1978     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My gut...astrology he showed up for the same reason you are dating guys you have no interest in Maybe it's time to give it a chance.

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posted September 16, 2015 08:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for mir     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Selene, I would advice you to do what I'm doing nowadays (if that's ever possible haha), something which I should have started 20 years ago to not spoil any precious time on this worldglobe. Simply force him to make the choice to be with you. Not by running after him but just by being very clear and honest that it's now (or never / which in fact might be very well the case looking at the progressions) and that your time is too precious to circle around each other as if we would live a thousand years. Any doubt from his side should be enough to break the tie of hope, or to let him think twice about his 'decision'. And then he will know the cause of your progress and can only blame himself. Really Selene, you'll almost notice by a glimpse if there's anything in it for the both of you. And even better, you will gather the trust and space to go on without any frustrating half-hearted ties that keep you from truly doing so. Really worth trying! (at the least hehe). Talking about Mr Uranus and the huge effect he has on your life.

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