posted January 01, 2010 06:58 AM            

Has anyone ever experienced North Node conjunct IC with an other person?
And if yes, how is it felt or played out?

I have this with a guy whome i had a short but very-very intense relationship during the summer, and whome i still have feelings for.

It was a long distance relationship, we live in different countries and this fact is still killing me for some reason.
My North Node and my chart ruler Mercury conjunct tightly his IC, and i suspect this is why i long to be at his city eventhough he hurted me quite much in the past.

Any experiences with this aspect?

posted September 17, 2015 02:35 PM            

If so what does this bring?

posted September 17, 2015 11:04 PM            

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Originally posted by Randall:
Moving it there.

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posted September 17, 2015 11:45 PM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
We're discussing this over in Interpersonal Astrology right now, where, honestly, this belongs.

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posted September 18, 2015 12:09 AM            

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Any experiences with this aspect?

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I have this with my boyfriend. It's his NN on my IC, and we have a number of other "fated" aspects so I can only say that I am intensely attached to him, and he is to me, as well. I have my NN conjunct his Ascendant and Chiron as well, so we've both got the NN involved. There is a sense of "the future" with us -- I think about my time with him as a whole lifetime, not something that is simply "right now" or "for now."

We have a composite 8th house with the sun there and our mission is to merge, apparently. It's been bumpy at times and it's not comfortable, but not in the way that people might think. I truly feel that I am a better person when he is around. I feel that I am moving forward. I've been in plenty of relationships that encouraged bad behavior, or lazy behavior, and I used to wonder at the advice where people would say, "You should feel like the best version of yourself around this person!" It never happened to me until now. So in this case, "not being comfortable" means striving to better yourself, because it's worth it and if you don't, you will cause undue strain on your relationship.

posted May 05, 2019 07:28 AM            

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Originally posted by Dons2angelss:
I have this right now and there is a very heavy pull. His nn on my ic. My venus is exactly on his chiron/Midheaven and his venus is opposite my sun/chiron too so I'm not sure what id pulling us so hard but it definitely feels fated.

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Do you think it's more on your side or theirs? Do you think being invested in your inner world, or setting up a home with you feels somewhat integral to their growth?

posted May 05, 2019 03:10 PM            

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Originally posted by HieronymusTush:
Do you think it's more on your side or theirs? Do you think being invested in your inner world, or setting up a home with you feels somewhat integral to their growth?

Not sure whether this is a significant connection, so wanted to pool opinions

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Nodes to angles (not in said house, but conjunct the angle) are very significant. I read a great article somewhere... For some reason the website returns an error when I try to access it... But try to Google it.

posted May 05, 2019 05:37 PM            

"With the North Node conjunct the IC, it is a very subtle influence. The IC person’s sense of security and groundedness–a sense of belonging, confidence, roots, family, etc. helps the North Node person to achieve the expression of the North Node. Planets there, either natal, progression or by transit, can either help or disturb this.

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This aspect works in an almost unconscious way, with the Node person looking to the IC person for guidance and direction. The IC person already is what the Node person needs to grow into; the intimacy stems from that."

posted May 05, 2019 10:00 PM            

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Originally posted by HieronymusTush:
Do you think it's more on your side or theirs? Do you think being invested in your inner world, or setting up a home with you feels somewhat integral to their growth?

Not sure whether this is a significant connection, so wanted to pool opinions

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posted May 07, 2019 02:17 AM            

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Originally posted by HieronymusTush:
How lovely, Dons2angelss! The Saturn and AC on the IC feel much more immediate and apparent to me. I think NN development feels slower, more unsure and much more anxiety-ridden. It feels like one <b>should</b> move toward that direction, but it feels like the first day of school. I think in your case, it might be aided by Saturn's sense of duty and determination, as well as the ease and immediacy of the AC. Sounds great.

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