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Topic: Venus Neptune synastry- true love, deception or confusion?
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Neptune29
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From: usa
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted September 26, 2015 12:11 PM
  
My Venus trines his Neptune. I am very positive about this connection and this makes me really dreamy.
But my Neptune opposes his Venus so do he think I am deceiving him?
Any experiences??
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Cappi112
Knowflake Posts: 45
From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted September 26, 2015 12:27 PM
Your venus trining his neptune should be a good, spiritual connection. Trines are positive, so that's okay in my book.Opposition to me can go in a few ways - ARE you in any way deceiving him? There may be a bit of a question mark on this aspect -- to me these neptune influences encourage a feeling of connectedness between the two of you, but can definitely cause a feeling of worry here and there -- it's VERY important that you learn to be 100% open with each other and also learn to turn to faith. To me, neptune's about learning to have faith in each other. I have a very neptune-filled relationship... but I would say the FEELING of 'being deceived' goes both ways - the neptune person may feel it in that aspect, or the venus person may. In my relationship, we broke up several times because of a feeling it must be too good to be true and that we were deceiving each other. In my situation, my venus sextiles his neptune, my neptune semisquares his venus. He has questioned my stability in his life. I have caught him in lies before - and that led me to believe the ABSOLUTE worst. But, other aspects were much stronger and caused us to both 'come to Jesus' so to speak, to try and work out what was wrong. I think it can be an important bond. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
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posted September 26, 2015 01:08 PM
I have Venus trine Neptune both ways with someone in synastry. His Neptune trine my Venus and my Neptune trine his Venus.IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
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posted September 26, 2015 01:32 PM
It can be both. I don't mean to be old-fashioned, but I do not like the squares and oppositions. I think I've experienced them too much to now be on my guard somewhat -- unless there's clear reason not to be.Of course, even the soft aspects can be perverted and corrupted by affliction. Just got to watch out with NEPTUNE. Sometimes, it's the real deal. But that's rarely the case, and it's never a bad idea to be most mindful and watchful, just to be on the safe side. Think of the 'people as permanent transits'. Ever experience tNEPTUNE opposite your VENUS? Ohhhh, dear. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted September 26, 2015 01:57 PM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
It can be both..
Exactly my instant thoughts.
And like you I am NOT fond of Neptune square or opposing a personal planet, and especially not Venus (for some reason I find Neptune-square-Mars tantalizingly attractive, but it is a double edged sword) I am not so sure it is really about intentional leading-on someone, but the question is: Are you looking at a spiritual truth or an illusion of grandeur? Usually it takes time to know which it is, and unfortunately with the challenging Neptune aspects, there often comes an eroding effect. It is like while it feels like magic at first, eventually it just crumbles and you wake up wondering why you are standing there with two hands full of nothing. but of course it depends on the overall picture. ONe of the best things (though exhausting, too) to ground Neptune and bring dreams into manifestation and reality, instead of leading only into disillusion or just dreaming without ever touching reality, is Saturn.
Saturn and Neptune are great "cures" for each other - at least under certain circumstances. But it is still tricky, as they can also wear you down, if they are too heavily configured.
However all in all Venus-Neptune of course can feel so blissful, it might be intoxicating. I would check if there is enough glue in the personal planet aspects. if there is, it might be not so much of a problem, if it is only the Venus-Neptune that marks the attraction, you might have a problem here.
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Cappi112
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From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted September 26, 2015 03:04 PM
With the venus neptune negative aspects,are both potentially deceiving each other? Would it be Neptune deceiving Venus usually?As usual, this concept (the 'who's who?') is where I get a little lost. IP: Logged |
thegrinning_cat
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posted September 26, 2015 06:06 PM
I guess it's about learning a lesson that goes through heaven and hell….and eventually leads to a self that knows more about the many faces of love
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fireopal09
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From: Dallas,TX, Us
Registered: Oct 2010
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posted September 26, 2015 06:41 PM
I'm living a Venus/Neptune DW. His Moon Neptune conjunctions conjuncts my Venus Neptune conjunction and my Neptune sextiles his Venus. We have been together for almost 6 years and were together about 20 years ago. It took me almost 4 years to completely trust him (my issues, not his). He trusted me immediately. All I can say, don't put each other on a pedestal. The eventual fall hurts like hell. There is a great capacity for acceptance. Seriously, their Shite stinks and you really don't care, but you know they shite. ------------------
Claire
"When going gets weird, the weird turn pro."
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ChildofVenus
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Registered: Apr 2015
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posted September 26, 2015 08:30 PM
I have Venus opposition Neptune with the same person I have the Venus trine Neptune with in synastry. I don't know how that works out. We have it both ways in synastry though. IP: Logged |
Neptune29
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: usa
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted September 26, 2015 09:54 PM
I have Venus trine Neptune in natal. Whoever shows affection to me I never doubt about his intentions. I found everyone clear hearted. in general I am a true love believer. Anyone having natal experience??IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted September 26, 2015 10:47 PM
Could be any of those, or it could be a combination of those. His venus/mars trine my neptune. There isn't any deception or confusion, but hey they trine my saturn too, so I guess they soften each other out. And in his natal he has venus/mars square neptune. I have the conjunction. We both know how to deal with this energy. IP: Logged |
Neptune29
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: usa
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted September 26, 2015 11:09 PM
Yes, it might be the Saturn who is balancing the aspect. But has he felt deception in general with people not having good Saturn aspect with him. What is his experience about love matters in his life? Does he have any Saturn Venus aspect Natally? IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted September 27, 2015 01:56 AM
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Originally posted by Neptune29:
Yes, it might be the Saturn who is balancing the aspect. But has he felt deception in general with people not having good Saturn aspect with him. What is his experience about love matters in his life? Does he have any Saturn Venus aspect Natally?
He doesn't have many saturn aspects in his natal chart. No saturn-venus. His saturn is in the 10th house, sextile cap asc. Those are pretty saturnine placements. I don't think there's any particular problem with people who don't have good saturn aspects with him. His closest friends are people who barely share any saturn aspect with him. In general his romantic experiences are mostly positive, except for that one time his ex cheated on him. Her saturn sextiles his sun, square his venus/mars. Neptune trine his moon. She felt insecure over some random cr*p and did it to make him jealous. Just a case of not knowing how to handle her own issues, I suppose. And incompatibility - his moon/venus/mars square uranus, he likes his space and it rubbed her the wrong way. There aren't many harsh aspects in her chart, saved for saturn oppose sun, which could be the root of her insecurity. And moon-pluto, which may cause her to be rather paranoid. He was like "Ok you're nuts. I'm out of here". And that was it. My neptune square his sun, conjunct his asc, his neptune conjunct my sun. Our relationship is fine. I'm as honest as can be. Don't keep anything from him. To me, that is the only way one can find the way through neppy fog. But meh, I'm the saturn dominant one, so honesty in relationship is important to me. IP: Logged |
Cappi112
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From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: May 2015
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posted September 27, 2015 05:30 AM
So I'm confused... are ANY neptune aspects in synastry then considered potentially negative/confusing/deceptive, etc?I have a strong neptune in my natal chart,as well as my SO... so it was bound to be that together we would have neptune aspects. It also means I have neptune with most people close to me. Are even positive aspects (trine/ sextile) capable of causing these same issues? IP: Logged |
colorful butterfly
Knowflake Posts: 82
From: Durham north carolina usa
Registered: May 2015
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posted September 27, 2015 09:19 PM
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Originally posted by Neptune29:
My Venus trines his Neptune. I am very positive about this connection and this makes me really dreamy.
But my Neptune opposes his Venus so do he think I am deceiving him?
Any experiences??
I'vehad this aspect both ways. I have been neptune and I have been venus.When my neptune opposed the venus, it wasnt that I didn't like the guy or wasn't attracted to him, it's was more of a logical thing, he wanted me but there was no way I was going to be with him. He had way too much going on personally, plus he got around. I tried to just downplay things so I wouldn't hurt his feelings with things such as we'd talk but then I ignored him after that. I really just wanted to be a friend. I should have told him that but when I did it's like it killed him and the friendship.
The other way was I really liked this guy but I guess he won't that into me, he was probably just being nice.
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hypatia238
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posted September 27, 2015 09:25 PM
What is your H47 Poseidon doing in your synastry?Neptune is the higher octave of Venus and Poseidon H47 of Neptune.... IP: Logged |
Neptune29
Knowflake Posts: 33
From: usa
Registered: Jul 2015
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posted September 28, 2015 07:35 AM
What does H47 denotes I have this on my Moon Pluto conjunction in 8 th house in natal. And in synastry it trines his Venus and Ascendent making a grand trine.IP: Logged |
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