posted September 28, 2015 08:19 AM            

Uranus is currently going through my 8th house. That part would be appropriated (sex&relationship related), but Uranus in my natal rules 6th and is in 4th. It also was going through my 8th for several years already (since my 8th begins at 3 degrees Aries).

It went through an opposition to my chart ruler and 10th ruler Mercury, which is in my natal 2nd - what happened was my life socially turned upside down, out of the blue i got a good job, many good contacts, expanded my social life and friend circle, got financially stable and higher income, etc.

It went through an opposition to my Venus practically the same time since Mercury and Venus in my chart are conjunct closely. Venus rules my 2nd and 9th, so maybe that's why it coincided.

But all this brought no changes to my relationships - non existent relationships. I was all so right and didn't even kiss with anyone until it would be sure we would be a couple, which never happened.

Changes started happening, however, when transit Uranus started to oppose my natal Sun. Small changes at first, but major ones now, when Uranus is going backwards exactly over my Sun. I had no men until this transit (short term ~2-3 dates i've had several, but nothing substantial and it never went further), now i have 3 and all the sudden attraction from different men, i've being noticed a lot.

So, during the last month i have a boyfriend, i have cheated on him with another man which i never thought i'd ever do, i have attention from many, and all because of this Uranus - Sun opposition.

The reason i am confused - Sun does not rule any of relationship houses for me nor it is situated in one. Sun rules my 12th and is in my 2nd. Uranus rules my 6th and is in my 4th. No reason to so drastic changes in my romantic and sexual life and most of all, my own behavior.

posted September 28, 2015 03:33 PM            

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No reason to so drastic changes in my romantic and sexual life and most of all, my own behavior.

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Can't wait for my Moon-tUranus opposition

posted September 29, 2015 04:39 AM            

I realised it's my unconsciously 'projecting' my own issues with intimacy versus independence upon my relationships. But it originates from within. My boyfriend is merely playing out my unconscious need for freedom and independence while my husband confronts me with my reawakening desire for greater intimacy. So, between them, I'm truly at war with myself. It's my inner conflict that this transit is helping me to resolve.

Of course, my SUN is conjunct PLUTO-BML, so the tURA opposition is lighting those up as well.

But it's transformed my sexuality, and the way I approach intimacy upon a fundamental level. 'Transformation' is the only truly accurate word. I've become sexual -- even with tSATURN on my 8R (MARS).

Interesting enough, tURA is conjunct my twin's MOON, throughout its opposition to my SUN. Ahhhh, symmetry.

But, for him, it's 5H. Similar, but different. Though, MOON is his 8R, so, who the hell knows? He would appear to be going through a deep metamorphosis and emotional awakening as well. Largely regarding intimacy and sexuality. tURA is hitting our c7H soon, too.

posted September 29, 2015 08:37 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Going through the same, except URA in 3H for me. Otherwise -- all the same. SUN also my 12R.

I realised it's my unconsciously 'projecting' my own issues with intimacy versus independence upon my relationships. But it originates from within. My boyfriend is merely playing out my unconscious need for freedom and independence while my husband confronts me with my reawakening desire for greater intimacy. So, between them, I'm truly at war with myself. It's my inner conflict that this transit is helping me to resolve.

Of course, my SUN is conjunct PLUTO-BML, so the tURA opposition is lighting those up as well.

But it's transformed my sexuality, and the way I approach intimacy upon a fundamental level. 'Transformation' is the only truly accurate word. I've become sexual -- even with tSATURN on my 8R (MARS).

Interesting enough, tURA is conjunct my twin's MOON, throughout its opposition to my SUN. Ahhhh, symmetry.

But, for him, it's 5H. Similar, but different. Though, MOON is his 8R, so, who the hell knows? He would appear to be going through a deep metamorphosis and emotional awakening as well. Largely regarding intimacy and sexuality. tURA is hitting our c7H soon, too.

So, tPLUTO is about to square your SUN, as well, am I correct? Also, I'd no idea you're a Libran with Virgo rising, Selene.

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Yes, I am, Auby, so I guess, we have almost the same birthday as well!

tPluto currently squares my Mercury&Venus, and will square my Sun in a year or so (i hope i'm correct)

posted September 29, 2015 01:36 PM            

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Originally posted by Selene:
Yes, I am, Auby, so I guess, we have almost the same birthday as well!

tPluto currently squares my Mercury&Venus, and will square my Sun in a year or so (i hope i'm correct)

But yes, Uranus SO changed my life during this opposition transit, i am baffled. Positively, though. It was time to spice things up a little.

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I'm wagering 12 OCT 90? If so, that's more than a bit fascinating; I'm 12 OCT 80.

As soon as tURA hit my 8H in 2012, things definitely got to changing for me. Or, perhaps closer to the truth, I was welcoming them. tPLUTO was also be-bopping back and forth over my 5C; the impact of the two in tandem was definitely having a deep effect upon me. Around this time in 2012, my false twin and I were being confronted with the karma we'd not resolved (that had surfaced during the VENUSRx the previous June). Everything began falling apart -- but one thing seemed to be holding firm.

I realised I was not truly monogamous. I was capable of deeply loving more than one man, as well as enjoying a sexual relationship. Well, I'd say that enjoy is a bit too strong of a word; I was discovering my ability to love two men (then, for a short while, three) who were all doing their part, in the cosmic grand scheme, to help me become who I am.

My husband has deep-seated issues with control which he had to begin working through, or we would both be miserable. Then, a year later, my twin and I decided to resume our previously aborted relationship (from three years prior), and were both dedicated to making it work. Why? We were both tired of being asexual; it felt as if the world was collectively in on something outside of which he and I were locked. This was surprisingly what my husband needed to begin working through his own issues -- as tPLUTO opposed his VENUS, and my boyfriend's SUN (as they have a 1º30 conjunction in synastry). Thus began what's now referred to as our great social experiment, or, what we call it, the deconstruction of sex.

And while we became technical experts, thanks to the dedicated work undertaken, we were clueless on the emotional side of things. I learnt that 'sex in a Petri dish' has the passion of a wilted turnip.

Then my husband found her. Well, he already knew her. But in my extreme frustration at being bombarded with the constant and unremitting need of my husband to discuss our marriage, and especially his feelings (for days, mind you, in an endless conversation, because whatever I'd said before was further scrutinised and questioned, with his badgering me until my answer was changed, or he'd just 'lawyered' me into feeling so beaten down about it, that I'd say whatever he wanted me to -- just to drop the whole thing) -- I went to him and said I wanted us to begin working towards polyamory; to learn how to effectively be a functional polyamorous couple.

He had a girlfriend the next bloody day. I know, because he mentioned it and she made a public announcement! And I'll never blame her for that, because he neglected to tell her that I didn't know! How's THAT for Uranian?

After I explained to him that deciding to BEGIN WORKING TOWARDS something was NOT my stamp of approval for him to now get a girlfriend. But what could I do? They'd been online friends for a few years, and he now made all of her dreams come true by taking it to that level. Gah!

No, I was going to have to learn how to deal; put my money where my mouth is. Practise what I preach. And when I saw all of our charts together, I knew why. It was absolutely fate. It's also forced us all to grow so exponentially in such a short while. That's Uranian, too. It'll make us do the thing we're terrified to do, but it's high time we do it, otherwise we won't be sufficiently growing.

I'm proud of it now, even if the initial 'labour pains' to give birth to this new life we're all living, was excruciating at times. But I also knew it was time. I'd made the decision months before that I wanted -- no, I needed to learn how to love without possession; to live in gratitude, rather than fear.

tSATURN over my MOON left me in a troubled state; while I was more self-aware than ever before, I was also living in so much fear. Anxiety rose to an all-time high, and I was miserable. tURA opposing my SUN has slowly been helping me achieve balance: to find the truly happy medium, between independence and intimacy.

As I learnt to live as a twin flame -- maintaining, as opposed to fleeing my obligations -- teaching my husband how to love without expectation, without the need to control his beloved -- so much changed for me. For everyone around me, in my most inner circle. I began to wonder if this isn't the highest and most pure form of love. You see, his girlfriend and I are great friends; we're very close. She's 'my sister', and we both know of our deep soul ties (being a soul sister). We're also here to learn to let go of each other, so that we may both begin journeys anew, wherever they should lead us. So, we're touching base, living in love, and letting go.