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Topic: Will this friendship survive or is it over?
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EmGem
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posted September 30, 2015 01:36 AM
  
I've been friends with her for 8 years. We once had a bit of a tiff because i felt like i needed my space after she wa going through some stuff of her own. She became really clingy and i needed to breathe.So then we patched things up and it was great. We bounce off each other, lots of energy in our exchange and we have so much fun together. She's 29 so I think she must be going through her saturn return. She has been going through lots of family stuff too. Her brother bashed her at work and she had him arrested. Her dad is trying to keep everyone together. She loses her job. I lend her money for a photoshoot I did for her. As in, I gave her the opportunity to pay me back in instalments, no rush. Then we went out one night and i ended up paying for alcohol and recreational assistance lol... so then the next day I simply told her I'd let her know how much everything was and she blasted me two days later basically accusing me of 'chasing' money out of her and how dare I do that. I hadn't even reminded her of the photoshoot money. it was a passing comment. Then she went on to say that i was selfish and not a true friend etc...
clearly there is a LOT happening for her. I relaise that there's a lot of her stuff in this that she needs to sort out.
So we haven't spoken for about a month and I don't know what to do... I miss her but at the same time I don't want to be treated like a piece of crap either.
Does this synastry show a strong friendship or not really? What do you think?
I'm outside. I know she's cancer ASC but the time may not be exact.
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Aubyanne
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From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
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posted September 30, 2015 02:14 AM
Awwww, man. That CHIRON-MERCURY. Whenever something happens suddenly, I often find there's a tight CHIRON conjunction.  IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted September 30, 2015 02:33 AM
I was afraid someone would say that....who instigates this sudden cut off, chiron or planet??? this is ******** . There's gotta be something worth saving here even with chiron? i imagine her leo venus and my leo mars are too proud to make the first move? IP: Logged |
stillatlarge
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posted September 30, 2015 02:10 PM
All the angles have major planet conjunction. Could have something to do with it.IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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posted September 30, 2015 05:26 PM
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Originally posted by EmGem:
I was afraid someone would say that....who instigates this sudden cut off, chiron or planet??? this is ******** . There's gotta be something worth saving here even with chiron? i imagine her leo venus and my leo mars are too proud to make the first move?
I agree. There's always something worth saving; I'm just flabbergasted how many times someone (in my case, it's often been the planet person) makes a sudden, often inexplicable break. And I consider myself a very perceptive person. All I can ferret out is that there was a lot that was never said, and likely had nothing to do with me. I still got the brunt of it. IP: Logged |
Aubyanne
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From: Tinseltown, Hollyweird, The Multiverse
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posted September 30, 2015 05:32 PM
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Originally posted by EmGem:
... I miss her but at the same time I don't want to be treated like a piece of crap either.
That's it for me in a nutshell. That's my internal war, every time I pick up the phone ... and hang it back up. Hundreds of things will remind me of her, and then I'll think of the way she treated me. And my husband will affirm it. And then I just sigh, and ... wait for her. Can't believe it's been 7 months now. Criminy. IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted September 30, 2015 07:15 PM
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Originally posted by stillatlarge:
All the angles have major planet conjunction. Could have something to do with it.
Can you explain further? is a case of too much intensity? IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted September 30, 2015 07:17 PM
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
That's it for me in a nutshell. That's my internal war, every time I pick up the phone ... and hang it back up. Hundreds of things will remind me of her, and then I'll think of the way she treated me. And my husband will affirm it. And then I just sigh, and ... wait for her.Can't believe it's been 7 months now. Criminy.
it's heartbreaking Auby! FFS can someone please take chiron out of the sky???? IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted October 01, 2015 07:55 PM
What I'd love to know is, looking at this synastry, would our friendship be a true one based on trust, honesty, support etc if we were to reconcile?
She just messaged me asking if we can have coffee!IP: Logged |
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