posted September 30, 2015 07:02 AM            

In my composite with current SO, we have an almost exact Sun/Venus conjunction in the 1st house of our composite.

This seems to always be the glue for us. Our composite is otherwise a mixture of awesome and negative aspects - we have Neptune sitting on our composite AC (conjunct mercury, sun, venus, etc.) which has made me nervous, BUT, there's a lot of spiritual bond with us.

Our 12th house is ruled by Jupiter which is positively aspected, but Uranus is in there, which has always made me a bit nervous. Mercury is in there too.

posted October 01, 2015 01:05 PM            

Say, if you had a particularly volatile relationship that broke up because of that... did you still somehow love each other underneath that?

posted October 01, 2015 01:20 PM            

The conjunction of SUN/VENUS in composite is far too common.

posted October 02, 2015 12:23 PM            

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Originally posted by Dancing Maenad:
Nope. Sorry. There is no aspect to shelter you from the bad. You make a choice, each day, to follow the love or give in to the division. That's how people stay together: they both decide to, every day.

Check out Soul Unions, I recently posted there about Romy Schneider and Alain Delon. They had, among others a Sun conjunct Venus double-whammy in synastry and also in the composite. Didn't save them.

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posted October 02, 2015 06:18 PM            

Then Jupiter might give a general expansive, jovial nature. Saturn makes two people feel responsible for each other.

posted October 02, 2015 07:18 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
Innnteresting - so Valentine prominently placed in composite ---- in conjunction with the Venus in composite??

Obviously researching for my own personal reasons: with current man I have composite sun tightly conjunct Venus AND valentine in the 1st house. Under 3 degree orb of both. That soothing 'balm' feeling is definitely felt. Destinn also sits right near the conjunction in that same house.

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I had that, too. Plus the MOON. Exactly as you're describing -- with DESTINN (and KARMA) but in Scorpio.

posted October 02, 2015 08:17 PM            

Outers bring glory too

My parents have Moon conj Neptune on MC. Neptune is needed in romance, it's a big plus; what you need with it is strong Saturn too (preferably some place else lol) as Ceri brilliantly said.
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I seem to have loved you in numberless forms...

AstroMandala

posted October 02, 2015 08:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
thanks auby...

I'm curious -- do you mean that this aspect can be bad? I thought your earlier post re: valentine was implying these are generally positive influences.

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Heh, and it generally has been, I'd say. One bad apple, as they say; I like to be objective. After all, my one composite hardly dictates all of the others out there. It was merely in our case that it wasn't so.

Though, it might have to do with orb.

VALENTINE conjunct MOON (1º)
SUN conjunct VENUS (1º)
VALENTINE conjunct SUN (3º)
VALENTINE conjunct VENUS (3º)

So, really, the orbs were quite wide; instead, it was VALENTINE/MOON that was so close. (And the SUN/VENUS.)

My boyfriend and I have VALENTINE-JUNO-MERCURY, and SUN-VENUS-JUPITER.

Interestingly, I had SUN conjunct JUPITER in the other composite, too. 1º.

posted October 03, 2015 07:03 AM            

I guess if I were to put a negative spin on this aspect, I would say what it has done is create a feeling of not being able to fully part from one another ever. But, I've enjoyed that feeling so far.

posted October 03, 2015 01:25 PM            

So ... I dunno. If it was really needed somewhere, that's where it was needed.

Plus, in synastry, my HORUS is conjunct his KARMA (0º05), SATURN (1º30), SNODE (2º). If HORUS is going to 'clear' or neutralise 'the bad', I'd think it'd be a lock for being exactly conjunct his KARMA (5 minute conjunction) and less than 3º with his SNODE/SATURN.

Alas, it was not.

But then he (iQ) also said, of our composite:

'the superb first house destroys the past life delays or hurts done to one another in the quest for Transformation.'

posted October 03, 2015 01:33 PM            

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Originally posted by Cappi112:
Interesting... our moon is trining our planets but not conjunct valentine, sun, venus.

I guess if I were to put a negative spin on this aspect, I would say what it has done is create a feeling of not being able to fully part from one another ever.

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Now that I can relate to. I remember when he'd said he 'felt married' to me, and wasn't sure how he felt about it. Clearly, he wasn't too happy about it, due to the way things ended up.

I think we could work together, several years into the future, though. He'd have to quit lashing out at me, and I'd have to stop getting so damned nervous that he's going to for the umpteenth time, that I don't even try anymore. But, in my defence, that's ALL he's done since 2013.

It seems the only way we're truly 'nice' to each other is through 'snarky' Facebook comments (barbs) and just never directly communicating.

: finger-twirl :

posted October 03, 2015 07:53 PM            

Yeah, well I mean, this was a bit of a ridiculous question for me to pose because everyone's experience is going to be different. My composite won't play out the same way someone else's will - especially since we have learned a lot of it also has to include what our natals are missing or used to in terms of energy. What could be a deal breaker for one couple could be manageable for another... and so on, and so forth.

In my experience, I've looked at this energy as being a saving grace after about 2 years with this guy; the positives, after a long time analyzing the negatives, really overwhelm the experience for the better.

It doesn't mean I ignore the concerns but I have noticed that just the love energy in general is stronger and more real than what I've felt before - and so often I've read of the Sun/venus conjunction as being that, purely.

I guess it's more what it's meant to each person individually - or what has been that thing for you??

posted October 04, 2015 04:44 AM            

My boyfriend and I, on the other hand, have overcome some very powerful obstacles. My husband and I are extremely bound, too. It's just been rockier with more volatility in my marriage than it has in my relationship. They're very different. My husband is emotional, sexually passionate, and quite mercurial. My boyfriend is logical, asexual, and self-possessed.

They joke that the three of us make one complete psychoanalytic personality, with no doubt who's the id and superego among them.

I've got SUN and VENUS with both -- I think. I think with my husband it's SUN-SATURN-VENUS, in 12H. With my boyfriend, it's 10H SUN-VENUS-JUPITER.

posted October 04, 2015 05:47 AM            

I checked back at my synastry with previous relationships that were serious before my current guy - they lacked a lot of this energy, which is actually comforting to my capricorn brain ha. I have wondered why this one has had so much more of that intense LOVE energy. I certainly had some good binding aspects with the two previous relationships in my life, but honestly, almost no Sun-venus, def. not as much Jupiter, and not even a lot of Moon connections to give us the emotional weight we needed to weather the storms.

posted October 04, 2015 06:04 AM            

I was noting that, my husband and I have JUPITER conjunct MOON, while my boyfriend and I have the JUPITER-SUN-VENUS stellium, and my ex have JUPITER-SUN-MOON-VENUS, etcetera in a large 1H stellium (aforementioned).

posted October 04, 2015 06:10 AM            

I also notice, with my current man, he always says that when he is with me he feels much much happier. His chart is filled with tense squares and oppositions, and a lack of Jupiter energy... so I've sometimes wondered if the Jupiter from my chart and our composite has touched him in that way. Sometimes he gets downright cheesy about life with me, and it always throws me off because he's otherwise kind of a dark serious dude.

posted October 04, 2015 06:14 AM            

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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
HORUS on GC conjunct EROS and NEPTUNE.

So ... I dunno. If it was really needed somewhere, that's where it was needed.

Plus, in synastry, my HORUS is conjunct his KARMA (0º05), SATURN (1º30), SNODE (2º). If HORUS is going to 'clear' or neutralise 'the bad', I'd think it'd be a lock for being exactly conjunct his KARMA (5 minute conjunction) and less than 3º with his SNODE/SATURN.

Alas, it was not.

But then he (iQ) also said, of our composite:

'the superb first house destroys the past life delays or hurts done to one another in the quest for Transformation.'

Which, clearly, someone didn't get the memo there.

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But the composite is a potential that may or may not actualize depending on whether the two people commit and get together long term and also your composite was soo compacted that it was a problem as it was established in one of your threads. I think he was referring to natals though when he said that anyways.

That is a pretty cool aspect you have with him in synastry, very lovely! but if he is not open to your HORUS illuminating that stellium for him it can't be forced, astrology is about potential but if you block off the potential and the opportunity or energy it will not materialize and that is what he did, its his free will intervening. He gives me the impression that he wants to party and he is not connected to his higher self OR wants to be right now anyways.