posted October 03, 2015 08:13 PM            

Okay so I met this guy at work three months ago. He is much younger than me, which at first was a bit of a problem for me (Cap Venus) but I got over that very fast. Unfortunately there was a misunderstanding at work because of which I was fired after three weeks. Anyhow during those 3 weeks we got along rlly well and he flirted quite a lot. E.g. typical Scorpio moon behavior: He stared at me and kept doing so even though I noticed.. But I rlly liked that (I’m a Scorpio Sun) ^^
After I was fired there was no (direct) opportunity to contact him. I knew his name and where he lives but I didn’t wanna seem like a stalker by calling him even though didn’t give me his number. Also there were multiple numbers with his surname and I know they are all related to him (he lives in a small village), so I didn’t rlly want to cause a fuss and embarrass myself.
Sometime during those three weeks of work he told me that he’s on fb but I also told him that I wasn’t for specific reasons and I didn’t wanna seem desperate by reactivating my account „just“ to add him. Also I was pretty devastated after I got fired and at fist really had „better“ things to do than to worry about how to get into contact with him again. I wanted to do it after I sorted work and money things out but somehow I didn’t.

So the months went by and I - the idiot - didn’t do anything but then I dreamt of him 3 weeks ago. So I finally reactivated my fb account and added him. It took him four days to accept, even though he was online pretty much all the time during those four days. After about 2 days after he finally accepted me I wrote him and I have to say I’m quite disappointed by our talks. I wrote him the first time during the night and he answered right when he woke up but every time it was just one single sentence and nothing rlly to keep up the talk (no questions, etc.), he was friendly but nothing more. I tried to ask more questions to keep it going and told him that I will be here for another 2 weeks (I’m a student) but he totally didn’t react to that at all.
Anyway I’m so confused, is he just young and shy or is all the affection that was there gone ?

There m i g h t be the chance that he has a gf, I’m not sure. There’s no info on fb and no pictures showing him with any girl but I saw something but it just could be a misunderstanding, idk. Still, I’m kinda „shocked“ by how distant he is.
These are two of the reasons why I don’t want to ask him out directly, the other one being his age.. if he was my age or older, I’d have no problem somehow but given that he’s so young, I’d feel stupid and if I was „molesting“ him if he says no (lol Idk if that makes sense to anyone ).

So yeah any inside please??

Here's his chart (Idk his birth time, put it to 12 noon):

I can put up our synastry as well if someone's interested.

posted October 05, 2015 12:42 PM            

Also, how much happened with you guys back when you were talking?

All in all, astrology aside, to me this reads as you maybe took a budding friendship with him as much much more, and it could be coming on a bit too strong to be contacting him so much after a few months of not being in contact. I'm guessing you guys didn't have a relationship of any kind (or romantic contact), or else hopefully you'd have each others' numbers... so to me it just doesn't seem like he's very interested, and you really should not waste too much time on this.

In terms of astrology, Pisces is a pretty direct sign when it comes to attraction, and they are generally pretty good about making their feelings known. I wouldn't call them aggressive - but any Pisces guys I have known and been involved with were incapable of hiding how they felt. So when they seemed distant and disinterested, they usually were.

posted October 05, 2015 02:20 PM            

Contacting him so much?! I just asked him how he is and how things are going but okay.. Well, I’m sure we would have exchanged numbers if I hadn’t been fired. It was very soon and kinda „surprising“ (and unlawful but that’s another story). I had to go to that company again after I was fired because I had to give them back work clothes, etc. and I asked if I could say bye to my colleagues but they wouldn’t let me do it. You can only enter that company through gateways with special IDs, so there was no way to find him there somehow. Also I don’t actually know which gateway he used because he is from another city than me and that company has like 10 gateways.