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Jimmy2321
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posted October 03, 2015 04:57 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jimmy2321     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Does anyone have stories of relationships in wich they had chiron aspecting the significant other venus? , being a little more specific an aspect of Conjunction between em.

I just met a guy with whom i have this aspect (almost exact 1degree orb) and im feeling some odd vibe like good one , but i dont know if its the chiron.

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posted October 03, 2015 05:14 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have experienced the exact conjunction in synastry. Love is strong between us but it was not meant to be its past life karma clearing. And he caused me intense pain. He was Chiron.

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posted October 03, 2015 05:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jimmy2321     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
I have experienced the exact conjunction in synastry. Love is strong between us but it was not meant to be its past life karma clearing. And he caused me intense pain. He was Chiron.

Welp... that doesnt sound very nice ... i hope i dont cause any issues to him , im chiron on my case

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posted October 03, 2015 05:17 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
I have experienced the exact conjunction in synastry. Love is strong between us but it was not meant to be its past life karma clearing. And he caused me intense pain. He was Chiron.

Same. If anyone can make this aspect work, more power to them, but in the research conducted and in my own personal experience, this is a total karma-clearing aspect (like Athene I was Venus). Healing if you want it to be! I say don't let this deter you, though. Enjoy the ride and when you guys stick together you'll be the exception, not the rule

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posted October 03, 2015 05:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes.. I assume it matters on how the conjunction is aspected. Ours was very bad.

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posted October 03, 2015 05:26 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Supreme cT     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Whats the degree of orb to be used For chiron venus conjunctions?

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posted October 03, 2015 05:48 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ami Anne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, VERY intense but seems to break up over a little nothing, never to be ignited again.

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posted October 03, 2015 06:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Soltze     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's the big issue with Venus-Chiron: you can't walk on eggshells forever in a relationship.
And you already suffer with the anxiety of doing something wrong and loosing the person forever.
I feel embarassed and "transparent" and I'm afraid to act weird/hurt or annoy the other.
It's a Venus conj Chiron - Venus square Chiron DW.
That's also why I hesitate in my life and I try to find someone more "favorable".
But Chiron-Venus makes a person feel that the other one is THE one.

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posted October 03, 2015 11:44 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.

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posted October 04, 2015 07:39 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Chiron can wound, but Chiron can heal. The conjunction of Chiron and Venus can be a beautiful thing. Or one of the most painful relationship of your life.

The thing about chiron is, you must look at your natal chart and see if in your natal chart, Chiron is being challenged with nasty aspects from natal Uranus and Pluto as it happened for generations of people from the 1950 through the 1990s. If this is the case, the conjunction of Chiron with Venus in synastry will reflect those challenges and the relationship will not live up to expectations. Any healing will be made through pain, and I mean PAIN.

We now have generations of people who have experienced Chironic pain, and it's due to chiron's opposite/square dance with the planets Uranus or Pluto that went on for decades. It has given CHiron a bad rap, but it's not the whole truth about Chiron.

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posted October 04, 2015 12:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jimmy2321     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Belage:
Chiron can wound, but Chiron can heal. The conjunction of Chiron and Venus can be a beautiful thing. Or one of the most painful relationship of your life.

The thing about chiron is, you must look at your natal chart and see if in your natal chart, Chiron is being challenged with nasty aspects from natal Uranus and Pluto as it happened for generations of people from the 1950 through the 1990s. If this is the case, the conjunction of Chiron with Venus in synastry will reflect those challenges and the relationship will not live up to expectations. Any healing will be made through pain, and I mean PAIN.

We now have generations of people who have experienced Chironic pain, and it's due to chiron's opposite/square dance with the planets Uranus or Pluto that went on for decades. It has given CHiron a bad rap, but it's not the whole truth about Chiron.


Hi Belage, thank you for you answer, well i guess i will have to see how things develop its nothing formal yet were just getting to know each other.
But im guessing theres gonna be some kind of pain for what you mention, I am free of chiron - uranus/pluto ugly aspects but he does have Chiron opposition Uranus.

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posted October 04, 2015 12:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Jimmy2321:
Hi Belage, thank you for you answer, well i guess i will have to see how things develop its nothing formal yet were just getting to know each other.
But im guessing theres gonna be some kind of pain for what you mention, I am free of chiron - uranus/pluto ugly aspects but he does have Chiron opposition Uranus.


But you are the Chiron persono here, not him.

Many people have Chiron square or opposite to Saturn. My question to you is, what is happening to Chiron in your chart? Which natal planet is it interracting with and what kind of aspects they are making? That will give you the answer.

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posted October 04, 2015 12:58 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jimmy2321     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Belage:
But you are the Chiron persono here, not him.

Many people have Chiron square or opposite to Saturn. My question to you is, what is happening to Chiron in your chart? Which natal planet is it interracting with and what kind of aspects they are making? That will give you the answer.


Oh LOL... well im pretty much screwed then , i got several bad aspects with my own Chiron

Opposition Saturn
Square Mars
Conjunct venus ( yeah , my own venus too)
Sextile Jupiter and Mercury.

Im not trying to be pessimistic but yeah ive realized i have lots of issues relationship wise. My venus is bad aspected. And chiron to note something more is on my 7th house

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posted October 04, 2015 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Sorry to join the gloomy chorus, Jimmy. 0º-2º CHIRON conjunctions (especially) are some of the toughest around. They tend to bring us swiftly together, and then something, usually ostensibly minor, blows us apart.

It's a very karmic aspect. If you have it in synastry, then there IS karma to clear between you. How it goes from there is ... dependent upon many factors; especially mutual emotional maturity.

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posted October 04, 2015 01:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Jimmy, because of natal Saturn opposing your Chiron, with what I know now, I would be cautious and I would avoid idealizing this relationship.

You may be able to have healing relationships with people that have planets that make nice aspects like trine or sextile to your Chiron-Saturn opposition.

Magi astrology majorly dropped the ball on Chiron. I remember when they first came on the scene at the end of last century, they trumpeted Venus conjunct Chiron as THE marker for the best relationship you could possibly have. I don't think they took into consideration that whole generations of people had debilitated (if I can use that term here) Chiron, and that such a synastry aspect would only serve to exacerbate the chironic wound.

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posted October 04, 2015 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Belage     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by Aubyanne:
Sorry to join the gloomy chorus, Jimmy. 0º-2º CHIRON conjunctions (especially) are some of the toughest around. They tend to bring us swiftly together, and then something, usually ostensibly minor, blows us apart.

It's a very karmic aspect. If you have it in synastry, then there IS karma to clear between you. How it goes from there is ... dependent upon many factors; especially mutual emotional maturity.


I had a chiron-venus nearly exact conjunction with someone in those particular degrees. Yeah, thought it was the love of my life. Yeah the pain was unbelievable and lasted so long.

So glad Im over it.

@Jimmy, having Chiron in your 7th house means you can't escape the karmic lessons of Chiron through partnerships. One symbolism of chiron is being disabled. I am going to go off on a limb and make this prediction without taking a very deep look at your chart, so take it for what it's worth. You might meet and marry someone who has some kind of disability that is not preventing him from enjoying life to the fullness. Some people with disability have an extremely strong will and personality shaped through the fire of the pain and limitation of being disabled. They are able to accomplish things no one thought they could. Having such a partner would be one way that you could embrace the chironic wound and things would actually work. I have seen very happily married couples where one had some kind of disability. It's not for everyone, but I would think Chiron in 7th would be able to handle it.

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posted October 04, 2015 09:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Jimmy2321     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@Aubyanne Lol dont worry about it, ive always rathered have an honest ugly truth than some pretty non usefull lies.

And well if there has some karma to clear between us i will wait for it , this is gonna sound odd but its been a while since i had some kind of emotional times, i wanna experience em once again.

@Belage i totally get it with the Magi Astrology, everyone has been metioning it since i started researching about chiron, well lets see how the pain goes if i do get to experience any or make him experience any. btw could you tell me how much time your relationship (chiron - venus ) lasted? was it a months thing or years?

And about the chiron in 7th i guess that could happen , i dk if i would be able to handle it, i always try to judge people on their mentality/personality way of percieving things , so its a possibility, i would need to experience something like that to really tell you. But i do appreciate the prediction .

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posted October 08, 2015 06:32 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for dash17     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Chiron conjunct Venus in natal
My Venus conjunct the guy I'm dating's chiron...

It hurts! Can't say it doesn't.

In the composite chart, Chiron quincunx Mars at exactly 0.00 orb

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posted January 24, 2021 01:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Iteza     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
that's interesting!
my friend and her husbands synastry is not that good but they got chiron conjunct venus !

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posted March 11, 2021 03:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 3l3n     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Interestingly this post made me think of a previous relationship I was in which had their Venus square Chiron nataly. Our Venus were in opposition, so a Tsquare was formed. Leo/Aquarius

Autumn of 2020 I met an individual who also has their Venus square Chiron. Our Venus in opposition again.

For some odd reason she triggered in me similar exciting, passionate, caring but also unexplained feelings of pain/hurt, from the very beginning.
Exact same vibes, which brought back memories of the previous lady I had dated 7 years ago.

My BML conjuct both their Venus in Leo.
They both also trigger in me unexplained anger, and passion.
It's preferable I keep my distance

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posted March 22, 2021 06:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Bump!

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posted November 03, 2022 11:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for rockwell     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I should have read this thread earlier. I had that aspect, not in a relationship but in a friendship. He was Chiron and I was Venus. I liked him straight away but was not romantically attracted as with other aspects (for example: Mars conjunct Venus, Mars conjunct Sun). Although I'm initially reserved and suspicious when it comes to meeting ne people, we were immediately open and had a very good rapport. Because I know that he also has Venus square Saturn in his birth chart, I was very careful and tried not to (unintentionally) offend him and was as sweet as one could imagine. In the end, he (Chiron) ultimately hurt me (Venus) badly with his behavior. Shame it ended that way, but I wouldn't and couldn't go back either.

With Venus conjunct Chiron, Chiron in particular inflicts wounds on the Venus person! Perhaps because Chiron himself is deeply hurt and cannot handle Venus' affection, maybe even because the Venus person does something (mostly meaningless) that triggers Chiron's deep seated fears and tempts him to hurt. If Chiron has matured and is aware of his wounds, this connection has potential, otherwise it's a lost case.


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posted November 03, 2022 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for AnnabelLucy     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welp... this thread is certainly interesting. Currently getting over an unrequited situation with a guy who's Venus conjuncts my Chiron and who's Chiron squares my Venus.

Luckily, he isn't feeling anything because nothing is going on (as far as he's aware lol). But I'm feeling a pull similar to a Plutonic obsession. I see him as the "perfect partner", although I have no basis for that feeling whatsoever, it's all down to my Venus in Libra and Chiron in 7th House I imagine... Painful and pointless. Run from this aspect is my advice to anyone, before your CNS is taken for a ride!

EDIT: It's also probably because my Venus squares his Neptune, making him the "perfect guy" in my eyes, even though my rational Saturnian and Mercurial influences can see full well that he isn't!! These damn planets! :'D

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