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Topic: Saturn and the South Node in Synastry
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charlie
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posted October 05, 2015 12:05 PM
  
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Originally posted by Gabby:
You guys have been together awhile, right?
Together for quite some years, yes. Just got married. MY interp for this conjunction, and it seems to play out that way between the two of us, is that the SN brings a serious amount of old traits and issues into the relationship. Saturn asks for all cards on table, doesn't like them, points the issues out and then wants to rebuild structure. It CAN backfire since the issues of SN brings back old memories and traits that Saturn once went through and lived..he won't like that either! He's in it to teach and we all know it's hard to teach an old dog new tricks (old dog being SN)  If the process is a success and both parties are open and willing to listen and learn, I think the glue factor comes in and that's what's hard to break free from! To leave a human that greatly helped to rebuild something bad into something good will hurt and sometimes feel completely wrong. If relationship ends anyway, I think what remains is a deep friendship/bond that no other person can touch or even come close to. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted October 05, 2015 12:26 PM
quote:
Originally posted by charlie:
Together for quite some years, yes. Just got married. MY interp for this conjunction, and it seems to play out that way between the two of us, is that the SN brings a serious amount of old traits and issues into the relationship. Saturn asks for all cards on table, doesn't like them, points the issues out and then wants to rebuild structure. It CAN backfire since the issues of SN brings back old memories and traits that Saturn once went through and lived..he won't like that either! He's in it to teach and we all know it's hard to teach an old dog new tricks (old dog being SN) If the process is a success and both parties are open and willing to listen and learn, I think the glue factor comes in and that's what's hard to break free from! To leave a human that greatly helped to rebuild something bad into something good will hurt and sometimes feel completely wrong. If relationship ends anyway, I think what remains is a deep friendship/bond that no other person can touch or even come close to.
Who are you in the relationship?
Me....I'm the old dog, the SN! I'm very up for help to restructure and I seem to want to listen to him to readily, he seems wise and I feel like a lil kid around him! Lol IP: Logged |
IntuitiveJ
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posted October 05, 2015 01:58 PM
I share Saturn conjunct SN AND Venus with my boyfriend of a year. I am saturn.I find myself to be more the adult/grown up, however he is outwardly more bossy and "alpha" than I am. Its glue.... IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted October 05, 2015 01:58 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Gabby:
Who are you in the relationship?
Me....I'm the old dog, the SN! I'm very up for help to restructure and I seem to want to listen to him to readily, he seems wise and I feel like a lil kid around him! Lol
I'm both the SN and Saturn. We have a DW. IP: Logged |
Gabby
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posted October 05, 2015 05:58 PM
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Originally posted by charlie:
I'm both the SN and Saturn. We have a DW.
Oh wow!! That sounds good and bad, but no matter what very bonding! You must give each other alot of balancing and growth.
We have his Saturn on my SN and his Venus on my NN exact and very possibly his Moon is on my NN to. My Sun/Merc is square his NN and my Amor is on his NN... IP: Logged |
EmGem
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posted October 06, 2015 05:21 AM
Oh boy, I'm only just starting to realise how much glue SN conjunct Saturn is. I'm Saturn and I'm trying my very best not to be his 'therapist'. It also doesn't help that I'm training in the therapy area either lol
Anyway both our moons are there on his SN as well as my Saturn and Mars. We keep getting pulled back into one another's lives and it seems to happen with strange coincidences too.
Someone made a comment here that when they met them they knew they'd be in each other's lives forever. Well, that's how I feel about this guy. It's a forever kinda thing and that glue is so sticky. It's just a feeling that you know. You just can't shake it. IP: Logged |
Taineberry
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posted October 07, 2015 11:16 AM
About the Saturn conjunct South Node DW "glue" with my husband - just thought I would mention we have been married for nearly 32 years now... not all smooth sailing, but there is definitely "something" that keeps us together no matter what!IP: Logged |
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