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Topic: Moon in 4th house synastry: Living together?
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ikindalikecookies Newflake Posts: 4 From: Registered: Oct 2015
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posted October 05, 2015 08:55 AM
I have this overlay with someone with their moon falling in my 4th, is this a strong indicator of living together in the same house (ignoring moon aspects)?Or did you guys have this in the past but never lived together? IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 4551 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 05, 2015 09:21 AM
Hello ikindalikecookies! Welcome to LL  ------------------ "There ain't no revolution, only evolution, but every time I'm in Georgia I 'eat a peach' for peace." Duane Allman IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 4551 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 05, 2015 09:25 AM
Hello ikindalikecookies! Welcome to LL  ------------------ "There ain't no revolution, only evolution, but every time I'm in Georgia I 'eat a peach' for peace." Duane Allman IP: Logged |
lalalinda Moderator Posts: 4551 From: nevada Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 05, 2015 09:25 AM
Hello ikindalikecookies! Welcome to LL  ------------------ "There ain't no revolution, only evolution, but every time I'm in Georgia I 'eat a peach' for peace." Duane Allman IP: Logged |
Sylven Knowflake Posts: 194 From: Netherlands Registered: Nov 2014
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posted October 05, 2015 11:17 AM
Oh yes indeed!! My husbands moon is in my 4th house. I remember when we didn't yet have a relationship I rang his doorbell and he opened the door I was feeling:" I am home!" It was not about his house but about him. Still, even if we have a lot of arguments and the like, after 12 years we like to come home because it just feels ... "home". IP: Logged |
Faith Knowflake Posts: 13349 From: Bella's Hair Salon Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 05, 2015 12:10 PM
ikindalikecookies,ikindaloveyourname! Sorry I can't comment on the topic...never had this, not that I know of. IP: Logged |
Cappi112 Knowflake Posts: 100 From: New York, New York, USA Registered: May 2015
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posted October 05, 2015 12:34 PM
I would expect this to be more that the moon person FEELS at home with the house person, in terms of synastry.If it were composite moon in the 4th, then I would definitely say there is potential to move in or have family together, or that the union FEELS like home, kinda deal. (Composite Sun would be a stronger direction of this I think tho). But I do think if the moon is well aspected, and the ruler of the house is also well aspected, this should be a positive placement in the synastry. In my current relationship, my Venus and Mars are in his 4th house (conjunct his jupiter and mars in his 4th). As a result of this, he has said from day 1 that he feels home when he is with me, and wants to have children with me. He was a massive commitment phobe, but couldn't deny that he felt like he wanted a direction with me, a family, a home, etc. I, being the planet person, took a little longer to feel those things but am now 100% on board, which is a huge thing for me. So I do think 4th house positive energy can be reallyyyy helpful to a couple. I have not yet lived with him, but do want to some day. IP: Logged |
Randall Webmaster Posts: 57807 From: Saturn next to Charmaine Registered: Apr 2009
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posted October 05, 2015 12:50 PM
Welcome! Moving to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |
ikindalikecookies Newflake Posts: 4 From: Registered: Oct 2015
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posted October 06, 2015 08:10 AM
Thanks for the welcome everybody! @Faith thank you  @Sylven thanks for sharing!  @Cappi112 I think you're right that it's more of a feeling. But I'm confused if I really do feel that way/vice-versa. Sometimes I feel uneasy, like whenever the other's not around I want to get together but when we do it feels funny. I do feel at home but there's something else idk. Their moon in my 4th squares my neptune, which conjuncts their uranus. Also in our composite, the 4th house consists of uranus, venus, and mars. I think uranus is the culprit here.  IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus Knowflake Posts: 57 From: Customer Service Rep. Registered: Apr 2015
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posted October 06, 2015 10:13 AM
I think I have this with someone even though I don't know the persons correct birth time. I've changed his birth time several times. But it still says his moon is in my 4th house. I do feel safe when I'm with him. IP: Logged |
Cappi112 Knowflake Posts: 100 From: New York, New York, USA Registered: May 2015
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posted October 06, 2015 10:49 AM
quote: Originally posted by ikindalikecookies: Thanks for the welcome everybody! @Faith thank you  @Sylven thanks for sharing!  @Cappi112 I think you're right that it's more of a feeling. But I'm confused if I really do feel that way/vice-versa. Sometimes I feel uneasy, like whenever the other's not around I want to get together but when we do it feels funny. I do feel at home but there's something else idk. Their moon in my 4th squares my neptune, which conjuncts their uranus. Also in our composite, the 4th house consists of uranus, venus, and mars. I think uranus is the culprit here. 
I would attribute the weirdness more to the neptune square (depending on the strength of the orb) than to Uranus, actually. I have a lot of Neptune in my relationship - both in Synastry and composite. We met while I was going through (and am still going through) Neotune conjunct Venus transit, so the entire thing has been both the biggest love of my life so far, and also a LOTTTT of worrying about what it is, etc. Neptune can be very spiritually binding and also extremely confusing at times, and having any kind of moon/ neptune square,in my opinion, could totally make for a "what? What is this feeling?" thing. It can be handled, but I definitely am familiar with that. IP: Logged |