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Topic: Why is she so sensitive?!
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polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 371 From: Washington, DC Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 11, 2015 03:04 PM
This is my mom's birth chart. Do you see anything that makes her prone to sensitivity? She's super sensitive, takes things personally, and tends to blow things way out of proportion - ugh, it drives me crazy sometimes! IP: Logged |
LeeLoo2014 Knowflake Posts: 16518 From: Venus cornering Neptune Registered: Mar 2014
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posted October 11, 2015 03:29 PM
She has peregrine Moon and Venus, her emotional response is very personal and unusual. Plus a strong Cancer vibe with Venus in Cancer and Moon in the 4th With Jupiter, Uranus and Sag, things can blow out of proportion, if we consider the sign, the sesquis and the wide trine. ------------------ I seem to have loved you in numberless forms... AstroMandala New Profiles IP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 373 From: New Jersey Registered: Jul 2014
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posted October 11, 2015 03:32 PM
Because she's a mother. My mom is the same exact way - always butthurt. :PIP: Logged |
LaceyLeigh Knowflake Posts: 373 From: New Jersey Registered: Jul 2014
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posted October 11, 2015 03:33 PM
Is her TOB correct? If so, your Aries placements might fall into her 8th house.Also, unaspected Sagittarius moon in the 4th and an unaspected Cancer Venus. Bad aspects to Mars seem to bring out the hypersensitivity in others. IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 371 From: Washington, DC Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 11, 2015 04:43 PM
Ah, moon in 4th. I didn't even notice! I was also unaware of the compilations of an unaspected moon and Venus. She isn't just only sensitive with me- it's with everyone. She told me once that her coworker (who is also my friend) said to her that I sent her a picture of my boyfriend and I, and she asked her if she had seen the picture as well. My mom took that as the girl trying to one-up her and thought it was rude of her. Tonight, she is mad at me because she said I cancelled on lunch plans with her. When actually, I suggested we have lunch at 2pm because I had a ten mile race in the morning and anything earlier wouldn't work. When she found out I had a run, she said for us not to go anymore, because 2pm is too late for her. So I went to my parent's house this afternoon around 2, and she was mad at me for "cancelling". Ugh. IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 371 From: Washington, DC Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 11, 2015 04:47 PM
The birth times are correct! Here is our synastry chart. I have no idea how to read it as mother-daughter. Don't get me wrong, I love my mom very much. We are very close friends. She is an amazing woman who will do anything for anyone, no questions asked. But her sensitivity is really something else!! IP: Logged |
Soltze Knowflake Posts: 800 From: Registered: Mar 2015
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posted October 11, 2015 06:25 PM
You're Uranus on her moon is one of the issues... She might want more emotional closeness and here way of comunicating that might be acting overly sensitive.IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 371 From: Washington, DC Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 12, 2015 10:32 AM
quote: Originally posted by Soltze: You're Uranus on her moon is one of the issues... She might want more emotional closeness and here way of comunicating that might be acting overly sensitive.
Ahhh!! Interesting!! I can see that definitely. IP: Logged |
Nine Moderator Posts: 2465 From: The Cusp of Love Registered: May 2009
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posted October 13, 2015 08:05 PM
The Full Moon, they say, bring out the crazies. Emotions run high. Your mom was born under such an influence so she's emotionally open and impressionable by default. Every whisper/glance/intonation registers. I'm also a Gemini-Sagittarius w/ Virgo Asc. I remember complaining about age 20 how sensitive I was, even when I didn't want to care the emotion won't let go until I processed it. I don't complain anymore or try to explain myself because its filtered through that I'm either silly or petty. Which delivers more crap to process. No. I get cold and distant "out of the blue." IP: Logged |
theunknown Knowflake Posts: 2443 From: Registered: Dec 2010
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posted October 13, 2015 10:55 PM
Moon in 4th Jupiter/Pluto in 12th Mars trine Neptune IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 371 From: Washington, DC Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 14, 2015 06:53 AM
Thank you all so much for your responses!IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 371 From: Washington, DC Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 14, 2015 07:34 AM
quote: Originally posted by theunknown: Moon in 4th Jupiter/Pluto in 12th Mars trine Neptune
Does the moon in the 4th take on Cancer moon qualities? IP: Logged |
polkadotstars Knowflake Posts: 371 From: Washington, DC Registered: Feb 2015
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posted October 14, 2015 07:35 AM
quote: Originally posted by Nine:
Your mom was born under such an influence so she's emotionally open and impressionable by default. Every whisper/glance/intonation registers.I'm also a Gemini-Sagittarius w/ Virgo Asc. I get cold and distant "out of the blue."
Yes, that's my mom! She is super outgoing, everyone loves her, and she is a super-extrovert. But then someone looks at her "wrong" and she thinks they hate her. I have to tell her she is just being sensitive and the look meant nothing. *sigh* IP: Logged |