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Topic: Could I turn him bi?
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Aunt Anomalia
Knowflake Posts: 1413
From: Pandora's box
Registered: Mar 2015
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posted October 18, 2015 10:10 AM
  
This is stupid but I can't help myself.Recently I came across a song of someone I was already familiar with (and I liked it a lot) and I felt some kind of pull towards him and then I remembered that the guy is interested in astrology to some extent (he mentioned his big 3 once) so I had to check his chart. What I found was rather impressive. He's gay and claims to be bi-curious. Do you think I could turn him bi?  (not only sexually) 
 my Venus parallel his Uranus 15 min
his Mars p my Pluto 46 min
his IC p my Sun 3 min
Vertex cp Verex 4 min
his Priapus p my Mars 10 min
his Eros cp my Lilith (apogee) 21 min
Fun fact: the guy shares the Sun-Moon combo (and they even both have a sextile under 1) and an air ASC with my favorite actor.
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Lunar Pisces
Knowflake Posts: 58
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Registered: Sep 2015
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posted October 18, 2015 02:34 PM
Uuuuum, no. LOL.I have been attracted to several gay men over the years. This is just something you have to accept. I have known I'm hetero since I was five and experienced my first puppy love and kiss. Can I be attracted to genderqueer people and non-traditionally feminine women? Yeah, I can be. But this is what it comes down to for me: when I see myself spending the rest of my life with someone, that someone I imagine is always a man. That means that any attraction to anyone who isn't distinctly male is honestly shallow and maybe a bit fetishy. It's not an attraction that is rooted in an authentic, deep expression of my sexuality, which is hetero. That's the catch. You cannot change someone's authentic self. They can be open to different relationships, and if you can accept that such relationships can only go so far for them, then great. But at the end of the day, they are what they are. IP: Logged |
Aunt Anomalia
Knowflake Posts: 1413
From: Pandora's box
Registered: Mar 2015
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posted October 18, 2015 03:12 PM
Waaait. I have no intention of trying to change anyone's sexual orientation. I simply assumed there's a small chance bisexuality may reveal itself, even if it's one instance, later in life. They say sexuality is fluid, don't they? If I haven't known about his bi-curiosity I most likely wouldn't have even asked about it. I was curious if the energies between us could trigger such a change within him without any effort on my part (apart from showing how awesome I am  ). I think he's handsome but my attraction to him is unspecified and I don't even know the guy so let's try to keep this thread light like it was supposed to be. ------------------
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hypatia238
Moderator Posts: 2285
From: AC-Neptune Quintile AMOR
Registered: Sep 2014
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posted October 18, 2015 03:29 PM
NO you can't turn him bi, he sounds like he is queer, meaning he would only be able to have romantic feelings for the same sex but is open to sexual experiences with opposite sex.IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 13552
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 18, 2015 08:12 PM
LOL I know who this is My (female) Cappy friend loves him, too, and has made me watch videos of him. Yeah SO unfair that he's gay, he's so frickin masculine (even with makeup) it must drive the girls insane. Please do try and turn him bi. I think the charts are promising. IP: Logged |
Aunt Anomalia
Knowflake Posts: 1413
From: Pandora's box
Registered: Mar 2015
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posted October 19, 2015 10:25 AM
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LaceyLeigh
Knowflake Posts: 393
From: New Jersey
Registered: Jul 2014
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posted October 19, 2015 12:28 PM
Ok, spill, who is it? I want to gush, too. IP: Logged |
Aunt Anomalia
Knowflake Posts: 1413
From: Pandora's box
Registered: Mar 2015
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posted October 19, 2015 02:17 PM
^Maybe tomorrow Faith, aren't you afraid of his Aries caveman Moon? (which along with his Mars on the ASC is very visible in his eye area imo). ------------------
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Faith
Knowflake Posts: 13552
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 19, 2015 07:29 PM
 I see the appeal and respect his fan base but I guess he's just too...yeah, caveman...for me. ETA: He is hot though.  IP: Logged |
FmVenusWLove
Knowflake Posts: 274
From: It's cold here
Registered: Jan 2015
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posted October 19, 2015 08:44 PM
Sorry to butt in here with no real contribution. I have no idea who this is, but I just want to say: Aries caveman moon = melts my icy Virgo heart *swoonTake me now, oh gruff one Edit: Again, not really related to your OP, but I notice he has a Libra Mars. I can't say that this is fact or anything, but I notice that men with a Libra Mars seem to attract women very easily (and I imagine gay men as well). Especially on his AC like that - I imagine he's quite good-looking and a hit with the ladies. IP: Logged |
Faith
Knowflake Posts: 13552
From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted October 19, 2015 09:40 PM
Yeah that's a great Mars. My son and Elvis both have that Mars (in the 12-15 degree range.) I talk about Elvis too much but here, it was a bit mandatory. If you see the pics, you will understand. My first boyfriend was an Aries moon  No trouble with him and in fact I've often told people I could have married him (as we planned) and been happy. It just didn't work out. And since then I have just gotten a little frightened by a few Aries moons who stomped past me with cheetah skin togas and clubs, grunting at me...you know, it's nothing against the whole race of them.
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FmVenusWLove
Knowflake Posts: 274
From: It's cold here
Registered: Jan 2015
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posted October 20, 2015 02:52 AM
Haha no worries Faith - I am also quite an Elvis fan so I'm happy to see him mentioned IP: Logged |
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