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Topic: thoughts on this synastry!
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alyssa27
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posted October 19, 2015 04:41 PM
  
i'm in love with this guy..i have lost my mind..he says he is in love with me too..i have to change all my life so i can be with him..our connection is so intense and weird and i'm afraid to live it(i know it's silly  )..i'm about to end a really good relationship for him..please tell me what you think about our synastry  ..really need an astrological opinion i'm on the outside
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comdoc
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posted October 19, 2015 05:10 PM
Hi Alyssa. I can see why you're attracted. Overall synergy is just a bit above average. Opposed ASCs attract, and challenge to meet in the middle. Your Leo Sun and his Cancer Moon are not a resonant pairing; you shower him with love and affection (Jup--Moon conj), but your Chiron can hurt his feelings. Your Cap Saturn conj his generational Uranus Neptune limits his freedom, but provides longevity and commitment. Is this what he wants? Jupiter--Valentine and Juno--Union are sweet. Are you both satisfied in your present relationship? quote:
Originally posted by alyssa27:
i'm in love with this guy..i have lost my mind..he says he is in love with me too..i have to change all my life so i can be with him..our connection is so intense and weird and i'm afraid to live it(i know it's silly )..i'm about to end a really good relationship for him..please tell me what you think about our synastry ..really need an astrological opinion i'm on the outside
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alyssa27
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posted October 19, 2015 05:41 PM
hi comdoc..we are not satisfied ..he is waiting for me to end my current relationship..i'm trying to find the appropriate time to end it i don't want to hurt the feelings of my current boyfriend..what i should say to my bf that i met a guy and my life changed completely?we're about to end it he sees that i'm unhappy ..yes i read about saturn conjunct neptune heavy stuff i know  ..he has his desc ruler moon in opposition with uranus/neptune and i have my moon(asc ruler) square uranus/neptune..i guess i fit his pattern hahaaa ..but yes i'm serious about him he seems pretty serious about it too..btw sr for my english a IP: Logged |
alyssa27
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posted October 20, 2015 10:27 AM
anyone else??IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted October 20, 2015 10:32 AM
Composite?IP: Logged |
alyssa27
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posted October 20, 2015 10:47 AM
i'm on my phone..i will post it later i don't know if the synastry shows it but i haven't felt this way for anyone before..there's no venus-mars or venus/mars-pluto but feels like i meant to be with this guy.. with my current boyfriend i have venus conjunct mars in our synastry
with an ex we had sun/moon conjunction,venus-mars doublewhammy,venus-pluto doublewhammy,mars-pluto and a lot of others and for none of them i felt the way i feel for this guy..
i guess the angles are highly important .. IP: Logged |
alyssa27
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posted October 20, 2015 04:57 PM
composite
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theunknown
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posted October 20, 2015 05:25 PM
Well, your composite is very karmic. Venus square pluto indicates deep, obsessive love. Mercury conjunction Chiron and Venus tightly means your communications and love have healing effects on each other. Yet this conjunction also brings on responsibility, obligations and structure (opposing Saturn).
Stellium in 4th means you two want to build a home together or if you are together, you tend to stay at home. Not a placement that yields public partnership.
5th and 7th overlays look good in stnastry. You two match up with your ideal types for romance and partnership.
Something I find troublesome is composite Mars making no positive aspects. I personally see Mars as the drivers to get us complete projects/tasks every day. So you are in for someone who it's not easy to work with on the daily basis
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alyssa27
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posted October 20, 2015 06:04 PM
theunknown-thank u very much ..yes the mars in composite worries me too and is also the asc ruler in our composite ..also his mars in synastry makes just a sextile to my mercury and an inconjunction to my saturn but is parallel with my venus and my venus is exact antiscia on his mars,i guess is something..it puzzles me that we don't have many sexual and erotic aspects in our synastry while we are so physically attracted to each other..i didn't pay much attention on house overlays and on house rulers and angles,i thought the aspects were more important but i had the most sexual/erotic aspects and it didn't feel that way ..
is it strange that i feel he is the one?based on our synastry?because i don't see much in our synastry but i feel differently..IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted October 20, 2015 07:22 PM
As I said, stnastry is pretty good, though he does bring you a sense of restriction and you bring him a sense of chaos (Sturb on asc, Uranus on desc).That said, the composite Mars is not something you two am change. It's the combination of both of your energy and it means you two just don't work well together. But that's my personal preferences. I find that to be close to some one, at least you must feel like your sense of drive can push you to an end goal. IP: Logged |
alyssa27
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posted October 21, 2015 05:28 PM
theunknown-i hope we can overcome the composite mars situation ..this connection between us is special..i have come to believe that he might be my twinflame(and i was not a fan of twinflame concept before)..thank u very much again IP: Logged |
todd
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posted October 21, 2015 06:31 PM
what bothers me is that you are going to end a "really good relationship" for this one.
my concern is that you searching for a dream.
the attractive aspects in they midpoint composite are all very idealistic .
the eros/psyche midpoint is square to the moon, so you are totally infatuated with him. but these are ethereal feelings. second cupid is on the ascendant, again you a reaching for an idealistic ethereal love.
the moon/sun midpoint is conjunct ovenus so clearly the relationship has a strong element of love at it's base. but what kind of love and remember love and hate are flip sides of the same coin.
here pluto is square to the venus/moon/sun aspect. my experiences with pluto square venus in composites is that these are very limiting. in the long run any love that exist at the outset diminishes sometimes completely. Venus/pluto squares are very carnal oriented, especially by the guy.in a true love connection sexuality brings the lovers together. but pluto sex does not do this as the selfishness describe only serves self gratification.so the love with not grow to great emotional intimacy but rather sex becomes only a physical orgasm.and the chiron/satrun/pluto tsquare is probably the most cold and dominating aspect one can have as all these symbols embody great selfishness when in hard aspect as they are. then midpoint it of the mars/Venus square is opposed to Uranus, a most unstable configuration even though it dads to the unbearable infatuation and electricity you feel for him. this pattern does not show commitment.
when a relationship has such a electric aspect as the Uranus opposition to the moon/mars midpoint and a cold and domineering aspect such as the satrun/chiron/pluto T square, what you end up with is a relationship of extremes. it is either heaven or it is hell but there is never a stable emotional middle ground to grow together around. relationships take compromises to the routines that make up life together.
nodal axis transited the composite psyche/union opposition in late june and july 2015. if so then this is when you felt this is the love of your life. you have a really good relationship but you seem to want the"perfect" relationship.
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alyssa27
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posted October 21, 2015 07:05 PM
hi todd..thank u for taking the time to look at our composite ..i know that our composite isn't the best and what should i do?should i continue be with my bf and thinking of the other guy and being in love with someone else?is it fair for my bf who was always so good and supportive at me?
and what about the other guy what i should tell him?that i'm in love with him but i'm afraid to be with him because our composite is awful?
anyway i know that i can end up being hurt(everyone can) but what i should do?not be with someone i'm in love with? i had the perfect composite with an ex and our relationship was the worst agai thank u i appreciate what you wrote IP: Logged |
theunknown
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posted October 21, 2015 07:11 PM
I think you need to take some time to think for yourself how you define love. You might simply be infatuated with the other guy. What about your current guy that you are unsatisfied with? Can you please irk out on these issues first? You don't know the other guy long enough. Hard Pluto aspects can bring abuse/violence to a relationship. Plus that impotent Mars. Any way, maybe you need to talk to your current by. Maybe you need some time to be alone, for awhile and figure out exactly what you want in a statement relationship. And then proceed with the one you want. If a person loves you, he would agree to wait for you. IP: Logged |
alyssa27
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posted October 21, 2015 07:40 PM
theunknown-i was happy in my relationship until i met this guy..we didn't have serious issues with my bf..we were quite happy at thevtime i met this other guy..and i tried to stop it with the other guy believe me and i got sick i couldn't eat,i was in pain and he came to see me and said to me that he can't be away from me and i was okay again..two months he is waiting for me ..i know that someone who wants u waits for you ..thanks for ur advices IP: Logged |
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