Lindaland
  Interpersonal Astrology
  Neptune Conjunct ASC in Composite =.... Platonic?

Post New Topic  Post A Reply
profile | register | preferences | faq

UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! next newest topic | next oldest topic
Author Topic:   Neptune Conjunct ASC in Composite =.... Platonic?
Cappi112
Knowflake

Posts: 395
From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: May 2015

posted October 21, 2015 12:23 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cappi112     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Found this description today as I was hunting around.

Have you found Neptune on the ASC in your composites to point to eventually just a platonic relationship?

This made me scratch my head a little. But that's also partially because I find spirituality to be one of the most important factors in a longterm relationship - I would WANT that feeling of their being a higher power in control. I would want good positive Neptune in my marriage with someone; imagining a life with a man I couldn't talk about woowoo things (like astrology :-p and meditation, and prayer, and God, and the Universe, and religion, and so on) with is a really depressing/ empty thought to me.

Just wondering what peoples' take on this is.

IP: Logged

Cappi112
Knowflake

Posts: 395
From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: May 2015

posted October 22, 2015 04:28 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cappi112     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
anyone?

IP: Logged

Aunt Anomalia
Knowflake

Posts: 1624
From: Pandora's box
Registered: Mar 2015

posted October 22, 2015 05:47 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aunt Anomalia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I don't have experience with this aspect but I can relate to your desire. I hope you find the man.

------------------
Anomaling around since 1911.

IP: Logged

Cappi112
Knowflake

Posts: 395
From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: May 2015

posted October 22, 2015 06:26 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cappi112     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
I don't have experience with this aspect but I can relate to your desire. I hope you find the man.


I do have him! That was partly why I asked ha We have a vERY NON-platonic relationship; even attempting to be friends throughout the years we both had strong feelings.

He and I are both extremely spiritual people, so I'm thinking maybe it is that? We also have both described the relationship as 'fated' to each other. So it could be that maybe, but I find it interesting so many interpretations say the relationship can never be 'realized'.

Ours is an almost exact Neptune-ASC conjunction in composite. Tres interesting.

IP: Logged

Aunt Anomalia
Knowflake

Posts: 1624
From: Pandora's box
Registered: Mar 2015

posted October 22, 2015 07:10 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aunt Anomalia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
That's great you have him. It's hard for me to see it as a strictly platonic aspect but hey, I have a Pisces DSC. I need a Neptune shot whether I like it or not. Is your Neptune prominent? Does it rule the 5th/7th/8th?

------------------
Anomaling around since 1911.

IP: Logged

Cappi112
Knowflake

Posts: 395
From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: May 2015

posted October 22, 2015 07:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cappi112     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
That's great you have him. It's hard for me to see it as a strictly platonic aspect but hey, I have a Pisces DSC. I need a Neptune shot whether I like it or not. Is your Neptune prominent? Does it rule the 5th/7th/8th?


I am very heavy Neptune in my natal, and when he and I met I was going through tneptune conjunct Venus, so I actually think that's a big reason he and I have so much Neptune in composite.

It's happy-aspected. I just noticed how prominent that is.

I am contemplating converting to his religion after 2 years dating him, (but for personal reasons - not really for him). And I do wonder if that's going to be a big theme for us, regardless of our future.

IP: Logged

Aunt Anomalia
Knowflake

Posts: 1624
From: Pandora's box
Registered: Mar 2015

posted October 22, 2015 10:12 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aunt Anomalia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ha. Enjoy this conjunction then, it's there for a reason I'm non-religious, I'd just love to be with a fellow occultist (if I can call myself so) or at least someone open to this stuff. What's the religion if I may ask?

------------------
Anomaling around since 1911.

IP: Logged

Cappi112
Knowflake

Posts: 395
From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: May 2015

posted October 22, 2015 12:00 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cappi112     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
Ha. Enjoy this conjunction then, it's there for a reason I'm non-religious, I'd just love to be with a fellow occultist (if I can call myself so) or at least someone open to this stuff. What's the religion if I may ask?


I'd rather not say here, mostly because it's extremely personal at this point in time to me and I'm not entirely sure if I will do it (and my SO is not asking me to - it's just my own thing I'm discovering). I don't want to put it 'out there' for people to then have an opinion about that part of things haha.

IP: Logged

Aunt Anomalia
Knowflake

Posts: 1624
From: Pandora's box
Registered: Mar 2015

posted October 22, 2015 12:55 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aunt Anomalia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I get it. Good luck.

------------------
Anomaling around since 1911.

IP: Logged

Aqua27
Newflake

Posts: 3
From: ocean of light
Registered: May 2015

posted October 23, 2015 12:59 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aqua27     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yes, I personally have found (in a hard way) that Neptune conjunct AC in composite can be a mark of platonic relationship.
The relationship may start with a feeling that you already know each other, it might feel heavenly, blissful to the extent you have never known before, feeling warm and uplifted, encouring spiritual growth, but that doesn' t make it easier. It might not get physical, or at least my experience has been that.
I' m heavily Neptunian myself, as N makes aspects to all the other planets except Mars, eight aspects.

IP: Logged

thegrinning_cat
Knowflake

Posts: 90
From:
Registered: Jun 2015

posted October 24, 2015 04:12 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for thegrinning_cat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have Neptune conjunct ASC in Composite - and it's definetly NOT a platonic relationship, but that could be because it's also conjunct Mars.

But as the ASC expresses the daily drive of your relationship - I find it actually beautiful.
Think it really depends on the other aspects in Composite, too.
And it's personal.
For some people this energy could play out as illusion, addiction and something very unreachable.
But I think if you are already very Neptunian and have a sense and need for spirituality - it's beautiful!

In my composite, this Neptune/Mars Conj. squares my Venus - that makes me really unsure
But it also trines the Moon in the 8th House, which I totally love.

IP: Logged

malicefey
Knowflake

Posts: 305
From: New York City, NY
Registered: Sep 2011

posted December 02, 2015 10:01 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for malicefey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, I have a neptune conj. ASC in composite with my bf. I also realize that this can also be a more telepathic/psychic aspect. Have you ever thought about that person and shortly after, they will send a message/text/call/email? Something like that? Cuz that happens alot in my relationship! Would that be the Neptune conj. ASC aspect of our composite? Also, not to mention, saying the same things at the same time. Randomly. I'm not talking about discussing a topic and you kinda know what the other will say...I'm talking about saying random stuff that happen at the same time. I mean, what if I worded it differently? What if I said green instead of saying red? Anyone?

It pops up randomly sometimes too -- Someone says something / I see something and everything ties back to him. Almost like the universe is trying to drop obvious signs everywhere.

IP: Logged

thegrinning_cat
Knowflake

Posts: 90
From:
Registered: Jun 2015

posted December 02, 2015 07:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for thegrinning_cat     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Yeah, I definetivly have that with him!

The finishing sentence thing and the "I miss him, I think of him…..ooops, there's a message on my phone" <3

IP: Logged

Cappi112
Knowflake

Posts: 395
From: New York, New York, USA
Registered: May 2015

posted December 02, 2015 08:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Cappi112     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by malicefey:
Hi, I have a neptune conj. ASC in composite with my bf. I also realize that this can also be a more telepathic/psychic aspect. Have you ever thought about that person and shortly after, they will send a message/text/call/email? Something like that? Cuz that happens alot in my relationship! Would that be the Neptune conj. ASC aspect of our composite? Also, not to mention, saying the same things at the same time. Randomly. I'm not talking about discussing a topic and you kinda know what the other will say...I'm talking about saying random stuff that happen at the same time. I mean, what if I worded it differently? What if I said green instead of saying red? Anyone?

It pops up randomly sometimes too -- Someone says something / I see something and everything ties back to him. Almost like the universe is trying to drop obvious signs everywhere.


THIS!

I am growing to love this aspect more and more about my relationship with him.. with JUST one caveat: We have E.T/Elliot syndrome.

In the movie, E.T., the alien gets drunk in the kitchen at home... Elliot feels drunk in his classroom at school. E.T. gets sick and almost dies.. and so does Elliot. They are connected.

Thissss happenssss all the time with my bf and me.

We had a really wonderful Thanksgiving, with lots of amazing friendship times and family and just overall realizing how tight our bond is after so much time... and then I was away from him with my family one day and was suddenly overwhelmed by a feeling of love while riding in the car. So strong, I smiled out the window and just thought about the things that had happened and felt insanely thankful.. and he texted me at that moment after saying he couldn't stop thinking about how amazing things were and that he loved me. This isn't the first time.

BUT, days I am stressed, sick, pushed to my limits. etc. he feels it. He also notices the instant I have a mood shift in our conversations. If he says something and it throws me off... he feels it deeply. He gets nervous about that bc he concerns himself (too much) with if I am happy with him. I do too, Lol. This is where the neptune/ASC thing drives me nutsss. Just let me get a little privacy to be overlysensitive WITHOUT vocalizing it....

It is hard to explain.

And yes when we're together we are constantly making the same jokes at the same times and finishing sentences, green vs. red, oh I am with you.

IP: Logged

malicefey
Knowflake

Posts: 305
From: New York City, NY
Registered: Sep 2011

posted December 02, 2015 11:06 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for malicefey     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Cappi112:
THIS!

I am growing to love this aspect more and more about my relationship with him.. with JUST one caveat: We have E.T/Elliot syndrome.

In the movie, E.T., the alien gets drunk in the kitchen at home... Elliot feels drunk in his classroom at school. E.T. gets sick and almost dies.. and so does Elliot. They are connected.

Thissss happenssss all the time with my bf and me.

We had a really wonderful Thanksgiving, with lots of amazing friendship times and family and just overall realizing how tight our bond is after so much time... and then I was away from him with my family one day and was suddenly overwhelmed by a feeling of love while riding in the car. So strong, I smiled out the window and just thought about the things that had happened and felt insanely thankful.. and he texted me at that moment after saying he couldn't stop thinking about how amazing things were and that he loved me. This isn't the first time.

BUT, days I am stressed, sick, pushed to my limits. etc. he feels it. He also notices the instant I have a mood shift in our conversations. If he says something and it throws me off... he feels it deeply. He gets nervous about that bc he concerns himself (too much) with if I am happy with him. I do too, Lol. This is where the neptune/ASC thing drives me nutsss. Just let me get a little privacy to be overlysensitive WITHOUT vocalizing it....

It is hard to explain.

And yes when we're together we are constantly making the same jokes at the same times and finishing sentences, green vs. red, oh I am with you.


I remember you from a couple of threads. Always wanted to ask you what your natal placements were because I felt like we have something similar going on. Also, I've noticed that you put your hometown as New York, NY. I am from NYC too

As for me. I'm a Libra Sun Moon Mars with Scorpio ASC and a Scorp Stellium in the 1st house Venus/Merc/Pluto.

My bf is a Scorpio Sun, with a Saturn conjunct it. Cap venus/mars. Aqua ASC. Leo Moon and a T Square with Pluto/Mars/Moon. Pluto in the 8th, Mars 12th, Moon 6th house.

We have the Composite ASC in Neptune too. Everything you just described -- been there.

Not to mention, we were gonna meet up one night and the same second I sent him a text saying "Let me know when you're downstairs" He sends one on the DOT saying "I'm here".

Both of our minds were blown.

I get you. I really do

IP: Logged

All times are Eastern Standard Time

next newest topic | next oldest topic

Administrative Options: Close Topic | Archive/Move | Delete Topic
Post New Topic  Post A Reply
Hop to:

Contact Us | Linda-Goodman.com

Copyright 2000-2015

Powered by Infopop www.infopop.com © 2000
Ultimate Bulletin Board 5.46a