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Topic: What kind of relationship between these two charts?
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Sikanda
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posted October 25, 2015 10:27 AM
  
What kind of relationship (possibly love) is to be expected by looking at our chart?
Edit: I'm sorry that I have to change it all, but I see that his ascendant is different from what I thought, so I'll post the composite and synastry charts again, in case you would like to add some new insight.
Thanks.Composite chart.
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Randall
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posted October 26, 2015 01:25 PM
Moving this to Interpersonal Astrology.IP: Logged |
Sikanda
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posted October 27, 2015 11:22 AM
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Soltze
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posted October 27, 2015 06:19 PM
Ruler of the 7th in the 11th points to friendship.
Mars conj NN means you can do common projects together or share some goals. Chiron near the ASC and opposite Uranus isn't the best placement. Uranus in the 7th squaring the Moon, this can represent an on-off dynamic.
It can be unstable.The synastry could show better how compatible you are if you would like to post. IP: Logged |
Sikanda
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posted October 27, 2015 06:25 PM
Ok thanks for the reply.
I'll post it as soon as I can.
I'm curious as to why Chiron conjunct asc and opposite Uranus is not a good placement. Does it mean that we might hurt each other? Or maybe that we may have an identity crisis whenever we are together?I feel that all that you said holds true. The on and off vibe is there whenever we are together. It is a gut feeling, more similar to hatred than to love. However I feel that we somehow are similar in what we want to achieve in life and I admire him for that, for his persistance in achieving his goals. IP: Logged |
Sikanda
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posted October 28, 2015 03:23 PM
Edit: Since I changed his time of birth, I also changed the synastry chart:  IP: Logged |
Soltze
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posted October 28, 2015 07:31 PM
Yeah Chiron on the ASC has some karmic taste to it.
I find it pretty bizarre that both the Venuses are unaspected.Sun square Sun can make him seem interesting but there might be conflict later. I'm a Gemini and my mother is a Virgo...the common Mercury influence is nice but Geminis don't like details while Virgos are so organized and focused lol Your Moon being squared by his Neptune and his Mercury...this can mean confusion, him saying things that wound you. Moon square Mars can be hot in the beggining it gives attraction but when the Moon person starts falling in love...the Mars person won't be so emotionally connected and delicate. Beware of bad temper. I have a cancer Mars too. It will be mostly a verbal thing for him (Mercury) but still...
Pluto is big for you in relationships and the fact his Mars/Mercury are trine probably is pulling you towards him. I wonder. His Moon being squared by your Saturn...I don't like it very much. Emotional restriction, maybe he won't be able to express his feelings he will be afraid of your opinion. The synastry isn't terribly bad. I see why the attraction is there. But I feel if something happens it's going to be intense and temporary. If you go that road, protect your heart. IP: Logged |
Sikanda
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posted October 29, 2015 08:14 PM
Thank you Solzte.
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minabot
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posted October 30, 2015 03:18 AM
For composite I see him holding you together through ups and downs. If his choice is to do so. He's in stronger position and you are well to follow his lead to be in a romance. He should be pulling weight but if not then doesn't look well. You relate and speak well intellectually, from friendly views. There is see-saw emotional pattern. You have much energy together but worries are for where it is directed. If not putting your energies into relationship then a relationship will not be. Maybe one is scared or not sure they want to be mated to the other. I see each person almost as one foot in and one foot out.IP: Logged |
Sikanda
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posted November 02, 2015 06:20 PM
You know, the reason that I was so very infatuated with this Gemini I cannot explain. It's beyond any reason or logic. It just happened.
But when I met him I know I was acting very much unlike myself and not thinking as clearly as I should, so I say maybe during that time my Libra Moon and Libra Venus (which is conjunct my Pluto in Scorpio) became much more significant in my chart than my Virgo Sun & Mercury.
In fact, I went from no particular interest in socialising, so typical of my Virgo self, to the urgent NEED to have people around so as to feel complete, happy and safe. And he, with his 'I honestly care for you' vibe, easily made me feel the safest person as long as he was around. I never felt my needs so sensed by anyone. It really felt karmic; sometimes even like a father who cares for a daughter -as unromantic and weird as this sounds, as he was a year younger than I was, but I often acted childish I don't know exactly why while he embodied the common sense and reason. I still feel it should have been the other way around.IP: Logged |
Sikanda
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posted November 02, 2015 06:40 PM
And Soltze you were right that sometimes we wound each other even if we intend our best not to.
And also that, even if we are honest around each other, he still holds things back from me because he is afraid of my opinion (we have the most irreconcilable points of view about many things), or because he doesn't want to make me angry or sad (which was cute at the beginning; later, not so much). I know the exact gesture he does whenever this happens.
He's still cute for me, but we love each other in a sort of love first relationship while overlooking the rest of the details as we love each other so much.
Sometimes I feel like this is a relationship I'd have with a brother or someone of the kind.IP: Logged |
Sikanda
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posted November 02, 2015 07:10 PM
Bump.
Any more insights you would like to share?IP: Logged |
todd
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posted November 02, 2015 07:19 PM
with mars conjunct the node and trine to the venus/mercury conjunction there seems to be a charmed nature to the relationship. this pattern shows affection and attraction and a very laughter filled and optimistic out look in general.
with the moon square to Uranus, there will betimes of emotional separation as this can show extreme differences in opinions.it can bring a psychic connection but little differences can sometimes be blown out of proportions.
the troubling aspects are Neptune square to Jupiter. this implies that there are secrets or that not everything I up front in the relationship. as Jupiter shows the potential for serous commitment ,this aspect inclines to unspoken hesitation to a serious relationship.with Neptune opposed to lilth, these uncertainties are deeply rooted and may not have a specific conscious correlation.this is an aspect of emotional uncertainty. with the moon/Jupiter midpoint square to the Uranus/Neptune, there is another aspect of uncertainty as to what to do to consolidate the relationship.
though the mars/node venus trine is very loving and emotionally fulfilling ,with pluto square to venus and mercury, there can be selfish under tones to this affection. This can imply that the sexual nature of the relationship is more important than the emotional intimacy that sexuality can bring. so often this can show silence when one expressed feelings of love.
with the pluto/mercury and pluto/Venus midpoints conjunct to the moon and square to Uranus, any differences that appear will be difficult to remedy because there is a silence surrounding the causes. if you don't know what you did"wrong", it is impossible to improve on the relationship. this aspect can also show sudden breakups will little forewarning if it comes to that.
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Sikanda
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posted November 08, 2015 06:30 PM
Should I post decans and dwads of both natal charts? Or progressed composite or natals?IP: Logged |
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