posted October 26, 2015 08:01 AM            

I have noticed that I usually do. I also have Uranus in my 5th house, so I think I am just drawn to that.

posted October 26, 2015 12:52 PM            

And uh, it wasn't too good in my case. There was always some issue revolving around how much space is too much space and emotional unavailability (sometimes physical).

I think it's a trademark for people who are either uncomfortable with, incapable of, or uninterested in strong intimate bonds.

posted October 26, 2015 07:39 PM            

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Originally posted by Koniucha:
Who else tends to have a prominent Uranus in synastry with partners? How do you feel about it?

I have noticed that I usually do. I also have Uranus in my 5th house, so I think I am just drawn to that.

I'm not crazy about it, but it is what it is I suppose.

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^^ Me, either. It's so at odds with conventional ideas about romance and relationships. It's almost like you need to be flexible enough to accomodate several kinds of relationships, within one relationship, because things change and move around so much. Which, frankly, gets exhausting. But I'm rigged to crave this nonetheless...

I have an Aqua DSC.
Venus semisextile Uranus, 0.00 orb.
NN on the Venus-Uranus midpoint.

The transiting sun is applying to a conjunction with my Uranus today, actually. And because I have strong Uranus synastry with my husband, I'm seeing this more vividly than usual.

As I was saying, there's a lot of shifting around, and if one or the other person isn't paying attention (Uranus being the higher octave of Mercury, so thinking on one's feet is essential..) then a split in awareness can happen very fast, and widen just as fast, creating a potential tension zone. But if both people are focused together it can be incredible, just a few moments later.

There's just a fast turnover rate of emotions sometimes, or the energy together seems to demand that....

posted October 28, 2015 03:47 AM            

I'm polyamorous. It took me awhile to discover this is an orientation rather than a lifestyle. To that end, I'm a polyamorous asexual; my sexual interest, libido, desire, or purpose for such relationships runs to the extremes of passionate, deep psychological need to total abstinence and periods of sudden celibacy.

My husband's 7R is URANUS conjunct my SUN, 0°.
My boyfriend's VENUS is square my URANUS, 0°. We also have URANUS conjunct our composite ASC, 0°.

posted October 28, 2015 06:01 AM            

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Originally posted by Koniucha:
Who else tends to have a prominent Uranus in synastry with partners? How do you feel about it?

I have noticed that I usually do. I also have Uranus in my 5th house, so I think I am just drawn to that.

I'm not crazy about it, but it is what it is I suppose.

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You know, it really depends on your own chart, and how Uranus energy plays out for you/ what you are comfortable with.

So listen. I have Uranus as my chart ruler - it plays an important role in my life, whether I like it or not. As a result, I do think I can handle the unknown in my relationships a little better than someone who is, say, ruled by Saturn. In fact, I appreciate the unexpected here and there because, frankly, I get itchy and restless if everything stays exactly the same.

But, it totally depends on how it is focused.

In one relationship, the theme of our entire time together (almost 4 years in total) was basically "how to navigate the roller coaster". We had major Uranus squares. Big ones, DWs to our Venuses, Sun square Uranus, and (worst for me) Moon square Uranus. As a result, I didn't know from one day to the next what page we were on... or even why. We broke up suddenly (like, things were good early in the week... we were over by Friday kinda suddenly), each time.

But, that was my experience with it, and it makes total sense. Uranus is in my chart to keep me from staying rooted in something that no longer works for me. That's how it has gone time and time again. But it was simply too much energy between the two of us for us to work.