posted June 10, 2014 09:23 AM            

I have a south node conjunct Venus double whammy with a man I've been trying to get close to at work. He and I also have Venus opposite Saturn double whammy.

I was attracted to him from the get go, when I first saw him. But I never spoke to him, despite being wildly outgoing - with men I'm really more the pursued than the pursuer. It took me about three weeks to even acknowledge his existence. I WANTED to be around him all the time, I found everything about him beautiful, even though everyone else hates him at work lol.

But once I had the opportunity to speak to him one on one in a more relaxed environment, I enjoyed his company so much. A two hour conversation on just random everything. All of the sudden he starts showing me pics of his apartment and how he's decorated it and I held his hand while he held his phone and there was no flinching, no discomfort, nothing. (I tell you that part because I really am a shy type when it comes to men...)

Everything with him feels natural. I have no fear, and my normal shy self that doesn't want to approach men WANTS to approach him. He and I meet eyes all the time and he looks away, he seems untrusting of people, private, he seems to lack confidence.

I can sense that he feels this tension too, but if he's not inclined to the metaphysical, would he be the type to feel anything?

I owe him something. This is the feeling I get from him. I owe him something. I'm always offering to help him, and feel like I need to support him. But he takes it as though I'm trying to step on his toes at work. But I feel this overwhelming urge inside of myself to help him in some way. Has anyone else noticed anything like this with the South Node/Venus aspect?

posted June 10, 2014 06:50 PM            

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Originally posted by ariestaurus:
My Ex and I have My Venus on his SN. His Venus is conjunct my Venus, and he has Venus conj SN natally.

We were together for 4 years, and we met so suddenly and unexpectedly. I saw him across a crowded room and we stared at each other for hours until he finally came over. I felt that I'd known him for years. His Saturn/Pluto/Mars was also square my Venus. It was not meant to be- too many problems (different religions/cultural backgrounds). It was soo hard to break up with him, but I'm glad I did. As the Venus person, I felt so incredibly drained by him! I was sooo nice, giving, and generous towards him. I have read the descriptions of this aspect online, and it is so true. I definitely think he did something nice for me in the past, and it was time for me to pay him back. And boy, did I ever pay him back. I was so drained by the end of the relationship that I just had to let him go, even though it was hard. Still think about him. He is married now but stalks me sometimes.

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most unexpected-ending-to-a-story ive seen in ages...i hope everything is ok with you

posted October 26, 2015 07:53 PM            

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Originally posted by astrolog:
It might be off topic here but since we are on nodes, what are you guy's take on South Node conjunct Vertex? Is it all gloomy and the person will outgrow one another blah blah too?

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My bf's south node is conjunct my vertex exactly and ever since our first date we've spent every single day together since. We've been together three years btw and live together.

I was the Venus to someone's SN... their Venus was conjunct my NN. I felt I could "see through" them so easily, whereas they were a total enigma to everyone else. They admitted to a "love at first sight" pull once I walked through the door. There is an incredible chemistry there and I have an inclination towards past lives.. I am sure we were together at one point in one. His Uranus is also on my SN - instantaneous and unexpected attraction. Our synastry is all kinds of f*cked up; any terrible aspect you can think of and we have it. Maybe in another life.

Honestly though... I think positively on the south node. In fact, I think the SN to be more of a glue in comparison to the NN. Afterall, in vedic astrology, the SN is akin to Saturn and the NN akin to Jupiter - something "time-tested" versus "good luck/chance".

posted October 26, 2015 08:36 PM            

my Venus was on my baby's father's South Node--and i just found out my Venus also conjuncts my good friend's SN... makes sense, their birthdays aren't all that far apart..