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posted October 28, 2015 08:10 AM            

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So, what I gathered this rship would be more like a friendship from the boy's side (blue in syn) and love/heavy crush from me (red)? Or because there are lots of saturn, nodes, pluto, chiron aspecting his planets he would feel creeped out and would rather shutdown/fight? I think the sun/moon/asc/venus/mars aspects are not that strong.

All I know (and feeling too) is that I must be as easy going as possible if I want anything.

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posted October 28, 2015 08:25 AM            

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Here's the other way our synastry.

I read yesterday both our personal horoscope forecast on astro.com, there are indications in both forecasts about each other...

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forecast is just a thing if he's not there in mind or spirit yet or never will.
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Neptune conjunction my Moon and says "With this influence there is the danger of being confused by your emotions, believing that you feel one way when your real feelings are quite different. This is particularly difficult in a love relationship in which you are romantically fascinated by someone who is completely inappropriate for you." My feelings/instincts are spot on about him and can't believe i can be totally wrong here.

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posted October 28, 2015 07:40 PM            

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I'm going to be very simplistic here but...
your Venus is conjunct his Lilith!
This has happened to me but I was Lilith.

I could swear I loved the man despite all the squares and a big Saturn overdose.

I went there...I ignored the karmic indications and I suffered so much. It wasn't love at all. I felt I couldn't possibly be wrong.

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posted October 29, 2015 09:01 AM            

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I believe i get what you're saying.

This, kinda past-present-future feeling of him simultaneously is very tempting but illusive? Thanks neptune and lilith... :/

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posted October 29, 2015 10:11 AM            

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Neptune? Oh, I had it exact to the MINUTE conj my ASC when I met him LOL
I could swear we were going to be together forever...

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posted October 30, 2015 04:11 AM            

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Since we met nep conj moon and square my asc. Im very frustrated and idealistic i guess. Would you say looking at the charts to skip this one and rather move on than go into something hard?

How karmic does the synastry seem?

(Sorry if my questions are childish)

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posted October 30, 2015 06:38 AM            

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The Moon on his North Node is pretty karmic, it would be worse if it was the South Node though. What you have might mean he feels at ease with you.

It's just the Saturn squares I don't like.

Just see how it goes...you can always jump out of the boat.
Not everyone reacts to aspects the same way.

And your Saturn is stronger, maybe you can handle it.
Your Mars/Venus conjunction square his Mars gives the strong attraction but a square also means you two have diferente needs and ways to do things...

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posted December 02, 2015 08:53 AM            

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how should i handle if my saturn and pluto square his moon and mercury?

i find it alarming that my saturn/pluto/chiron/mc aspects his sun/moon/merc and 100 other planets and points except venus or mars. too one sided, right? i don't wanna be a bunny boiler to him

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