posted November 01, 2015 03:48 PM            

But obviously I'm not blaming the sole composite for that, the synastry is also essential (and there were definitely things in the synastry that made it unworkable).

I am however inclined to think that hard Uranus aspects in the composite make it pretty hard - if not impossible - for the people to have a solid, stable relationship...

Hopefully others will chime in.

posted October 18, 2017 12:58 AM            

Yes, there are potential good features of Sun square Uranus in synastry or composite. Problems come in as soon as the person viewing the astrology of a relationship is hoping that it will pre-secure the outcome of the relationship. Not even a good synastry or composite can do that. The relationship is between two human beings (hopefully awake, aware, loving ones) not between planets or charts.

Sun square Uranus can keep things fresh, even if surprising, keep things from getting stagnant, bring in spontaneity. But it may involve an off/on, together/apart dynamic.
The issues with such a factor generally relate to individuality and freedom (or at least togetherness and distance). The two people may have different ideas about that in practice (regardless what they say or think beforehand). Sometimes this effect falls along gender stereotypes or roles. The adventurous athlete rambles around the world playing while wife-who-always-wanted-family stays home and takes care of children alone, etc ...

The thing about a relationship, especially marriage, is that it does not play out all at once in one day. It plays out over time. So one person may be in a particular role for years and later switch up. Mate A may be primary leading parent, for example, only to re-enter workforce to reactive their career as Mate B takes over at home.

The key is always trust and refusing to blame. If good communication is practiced and 'fair fighting', then room is left for understanding.

posted October 18, 2017 01:59 PM            

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Originally posted by EmGem:
Kannon, have you seen couples who have been together a long time with this aspect? I'm talking over at least 2 years.

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I can't think of a particular example other than the one brought up by beenylove of the Beckhams. Admittedly, their composite Sun opposition Uranus is wide, but Mercury and Venus are in even tighter opposition to Uranus. They've been married since 1999 -- 18 years.

But look at how they've got 4 planets in stable, persistent Taurus. They've also got Sun parallel Mercury (12° North) and Mercury parallel Venus for good communication. Very important.

It's about the whole picture not one aspect or planet.

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I guess it points to the non traditional type of relationship. Lotttts of space is required and allowances for one another's impulses.

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Maybe so. But for the relationship to last the people involved need to handle the Uranian/Solar energies well and see them as fitting into the relationship without it going to extremes. If a dynamic of directing energies away from each other continues without coming back to home/each other emotionally, then it isn't a matter of modern vs traditional as much as an imbalance of conscious efforts or emotional patterning.

posted October 30, 2017 01:58 PM            

Here is my parent's chart, married for 32 years. Birth times are pretty accurate:

Here is my fiance's parents' chart, married for 43 years! Birth times are unknown, could be a Sag moon...

posted November 20, 2017 07:38 PM            

I have found when I've encountered Uranus in opposition in a composite that it is manageable although does produce hot/cold feelings and sometimes confusion but I can deal with that.

I have also encountered Uranus squares, even though I have very strong Uranus in my natal chart (especially in regards to relationships) those relationships didn't last long.

I know you cited David and Victoria Beckham as examples of it being able to work and another great example would be Susan Sarandon and Tim Robbins. They were together 21 years and their composite Uranus squared the Sun, Merc, Saturn and Neptune (they also had Saturn conjunct Sun squaring Uranus and the Moon).

Kelly Ripa and Mark Consuelos have been together 26 years with Sun, Merc, Venus, square Uranus with Saturn squaring the moon and opposing Mars.

I hope that helps

posted November 28, 2017 05:59 PM            

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Originally posted by Orange:
Prince Harry and Meghan have a 0' square of Sun and Uranus in their Composite

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