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28degrees
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posted November 11, 2015 09:20 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for 28degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My friend introduced her colleague to me in March. The first impression was very good. I found him very gentleman, humorous and easygoing. Couldn't wait to see him again because we lived in different countries.

Last month, I had a somewhat erotic dream just few days before seeing him again We met twice recently, but both times with the presence of other people. Not yet have chance to talk to him in private. Now I can't stop thinking about him. Haven't felt this way about someone for years!!(But I don't think he feels the same way about me... )

An interpretation of the chart might help me figure out what do I project onto him. Thank you!

SORRY, I didn't get his birth time. My guess is Cancer rising…


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Aubyanne
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posted November 11, 2015 02:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Lord, have mercy -- and welcome to LL!

He's an astrotwin of my ex-producing partner. Now, the MOON does make a lot of difference, but certain patterns in the natal that don't involve the MOON are going to be present when there's less than 3 days difference.

Does he seem aloof? Charismatic but stand-offish? Sarcastic and constantly making jokes? Can seem really friendly, but won't get too deep? Compliments are backhanded, and he can't quite be accountable for his own actions?

Or do you not know him well enough to say? Sorry -- I'm very curious!

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Aubyanne
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posted November 11, 2015 02:28 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Aubyanne     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Can you upload the composite, too?

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Randall
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posted November 11, 2015 02:43 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Welcome!

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28degrees
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posted November 11, 2015 09:52 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for 28degrees     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi Aubyanne!

Thanks for your curiosity, lol!
What can we get from a composite chart if one of the person's birth time is unknown? Hope I upload the right charts: a Composite Chart, Midpoint-method and a Davison Relation Chart, corrected.

Does he seem aloof? Charismatic but stand-offish?
He did seem a bit withdrawn. Last month, I invited him to go out with me and two other mutual friends during weekend. He said he need to check his schedule first. When we met, I asked again and he declined politely. My friend told me he seldom join them for meal after work. I guess what she's trying to say is, be grateful already! At least he's having this dinner with us! Anyway, this movie title pops up in my mind … He's Just Not That Into You.
Last week, my friend organized a BBQ (I wonder if she did that for me!) He seemed very sociable among friends but when we discussed about where to go after BBQ, he's the first one who said wanna go home. More than half of the people left though… But yeah, he isn't the clinging type.

Sarcastic and constantly making jokes?
Yep and so funny xDDD

Can seem really friendly, but won't get too deep?
Yep

Compliments are backhanded,
Maybe, if for jokes.
I think he is good at compliment because he really sounds like he means it, lol.

and he can't quite be accountable for his own actions?
Not really. He seems responsible and reliable. My friend said so too.

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Some Other Trivia

1. He went through a breakup earlier this year. Me too, with my first boyfriend.

2. During the dinner in last month, he kept teasing and making fun of a girl from their office. I think I saw his eyes shining with excitement, like he found something cute and fluffy. Heartbreak!!!! Luckily it didn't happen again during last week BBQ.

3. On the other hand, he thinks I'm a serious person.
"Let me guess. Are you Type A?"
"How do you know?!"
"'Coz you looks serious."
Obviously, Serious = Boring & Ordinary, and doesn't sound like something that would turn on a Saggi man!
…stupid japanese blood type personality theory!!
However, after last week's bbq he constantly check out my FB, or maybe I have lost my mind.

4. My girl friend who introduced this Saggi to me shared a same birthday with my Ex. Birth time is only 1.5 hour different. I knew them separately within two months. Both of them have Cancer ASC, and their 28 degrees Aries Sun sextile my moon.

5. I know two other guys from highschool whose birthdays are very close to his.

The first one is Dec 21, 84
He fits your description. Not very reliable. Will suddenly cancel a schedule or no show. Playboy, not good looking but wealthy and know how to sweet talk.
Married.

The second one is Dec 19, 84.
Not charismatic and humorous, but he is handsome. Married too.
He was interested in me during 2009, just like the way I'm interested in this guy now. I could sense him and he always stare at me but my mind was all about going home after graduation lol

So the chart doesn't show which person is more attracted to the other person, right?


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