posted November 12, 2015 07:47 PM            

i'll tell right off the bat, this relationship is not what would call healthy.
that said we are complex creatures with complex histories so this relationship may reflect the necessary dynamics of your lifes experiences.

Saturn/pluto/vertex stellium opposed to psyche shows this is a BDSM relationship. with psyche involved ,it implies childhood experiences of this same nature.
with the sun/mercury conjunction opposed to lilth, there is a inherent openness between you but with the moon square Saturn et.al., there is no emotional compassion other that the infliction of pain and distress.
venus is at midheaven opposed to the moon so there is a attractive emotional connection, but any form of love turns quickly in to domination/submission. The sun
moon midpoint is also conjunct the Saturn/pluto/vertex stellium which reinforces this is totally unhealthy,. I do not believe there are any redeeming qualities here because there is no respect or sustained love other than inflicting pain.
the mars/pluto midpoint is square to mercury , so again all I can see his thoughts of pain or violence.
actually pire, this is a dangerous composite you have posted.
with the Neptune/pluto midpoint conjunct o juiter, I feel that you are drawn not for emotional attraction but for drugs. your partner seems to be a man with social/economic power-older but not interested in your welfare. with amore conjunct Uranus and sextile to mars, his interest is in your youth and not in you essence.

posted November 12, 2015 09:33 PM            

I will reply a long post tomorrow, right now i am at work.

posted November 13, 2015 01:21 AM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Todd, in a composite analysis, would you consider Pluto opposite psyche a bdsm aspect on it's own? I'm curious...

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I know I'm not Todd, but that's a no, in my experience. All its own? No. PSYCHE doesn't tend to be involved in BDSM patterns, unless it's already 'predisposed'. PLUTO will always be representative of control, of course. How it's positioned in a natal, though, is far more indicative of how it's going to be behave synastrically.

For a 'list' of aspects that are regularly involved in relationship with BDSM dynamics, however, I would gladly start a new thread.

Any particular reason why you were thinking this aspect denotes BDSM in a dynamic?

Nevermind. I've now just seen that it's Todd that said it. Makes more sense now. Okay.

posted November 13, 2015 05:01 PM            

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Originally posted by llewsacm:
Todd, in a composite analysis, would you consider Pluto opposite psyche a bdsm aspect on it's own? I'm curious...

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no it is never a piecemeal thng. the certainty here is because of the Saturn/pluto/vertex stellium opposed to psyche. without the vertex I would not have been so certain.also if the node had replace the vertex I would have said the same thing

todd

posted November 14, 2015 03:39 PM            

it took me awhile to take in you excellent feedback.
my peripheral insights were very inaccurate. I should of considered the eros/Uranus sextile mars as an aspect of similar young(relative) ages.
I did want to read your reply again as your astrological comments were quite pithy.
but as I remember this is not a romantic relationship but one that you are interested in finding out if there is an sexual attraction in addition to the feelings of friendship.
as you have deleted your reply, I will just allude to the fact that i do not think it would be wise to press this matter any further.
I do stand by my basis analysis which is this would not be a healthy relationship as there are too many hard unconscious factors involved.
I also wonder if you have been interested in someone who was not of your predilection before this.
one never knows unless they ask but I don't feel this is a person to ask as you might endanger he friendship you already have.