posted December 06, 2015 05:46 PM            

Thanks so much for what you have done so far. In a previous post you said to post midpoint composites...I'm doing that. Is there anything that pops out at you. I will say I noticed that there seems to be a WHOLE lot of energy that connects to his chart. For instance I believe the Composite Moon/Venus/NN fall in his 1st And the Composite Sun/Asc/Mer/Eros are all Conjunct his own Natal Moon. And the only thing that Conjuncts my own chart is Chiron Conjunct my Sun and Asc.

I'm also wondering about the Composite Sun. I've heard the 12th house is horrible...but it's also Conjunct the Asc. How does that change things. We also have Pluto Opp Pluto...I've heard that is horrible. Both of us are pretty Plutonian, so I don't know if that changes things. Also I've noticed the Mars is barely aspected. We have so many Mars contacts (including DW Mars/Venus...My Mars Opp his Venus, his Mars Trine my Venus) in synastry so I find it strange that it isn't connected in the Composite. Anyway thanks so much!!!! Also I'm including what I wrote in a previous post.

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Originally posted by todd:
the moon with the node shows a subconscious emotional compatibility. here mercury is sextile to the node and pluto is trine to thenode opposed to mercury. this pattern shows a very favorable mental connection between you. conversations flow and you both have well thought out ideas. the conversations tend toward deep subjects and are not flippant.
the venus/mars midpoint is conjunct to lilth showing a spontaneous affection that emerges from deep inside you.
this is quite a combination as there is a amazingly mature mental connection and a spontaneous and easy flowing emotional/physical attraction. the sun/moon midpoint is also conjunct lilth and mars/venus which really makes this a relationship based on the deepest emotional attraction one can imagine and gives feeling of a soulmate.on top of this mars is conjunct to eris and opposed to t the vertex as well as with psyche square to mars/eris/vertex. this shows you can't keep your hands off each other . this is extremely sexual and affectionate,romantic and idealistic, really quite an attractive force between you.

but there is a major difficulty. satrun id quintile to the moon/node which means that you sometimes are a cross ends of things. this is an aspect friction. and the satrun/moon midpoint is opposed to orcus and square to pluto and mercury. this unfortunately shows there are real problems with intimacy in that there are deep emotional issues that are not talked about. so in spite of the amazing chemistry, there seems to be emotional periods when everything seems cold and distant yet for no reason. with the moon square to juno and pholous, there are feeling of commitment but there may be cultural or religious difference that hinder this.

todd

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Originally posted by GrlyGirl200:

Thanks so much!!! You're amazing!!

Everything you said is so true. We do experience some occasional blocks and someone going a little cold/withdrawing. But I chucked that up to us both being very Saturn/Cap like, along with Saturn being aspected by both of us. It's strange he gets very distant if I say something that expresses "mushy" like appreciation. Responsive, but distant. He also gets distant when I talk about other men (I have a feeling that is the Taurus side). I will admit that I have admitted how I feel about him, but I also admitted that I don't think we are a good fit. The sad part is I kinda do feel like we might be a good fit, there is (I guess) fear is the only way to describe it.

You are scarily right about there being some cultural and/or religious issues. He's actually a different race than I. I see he has a 7th house Jupiter, which might make him attracted to other races, and while I'm not the first Latina he has "hung out" with, I am the first black Latina. So there is that. I actually have been thinking that I want to keep him as a friend and not pursue anything. I can't help but shake the idea that he really doesn't want to be just my friend. It's a shame because I do care for him, but it's hard being friends when you can't talk about certain things. For instance he gets distant and unresponsive everytime I talk about being interested in or meeting someone or when I asked him to set me up. He also refuses to even talk about other girls, or if there is one. In fact right now he hasn't texted me back when we were talking about 5k marathon training. That was shortly before Thanksgiving, I in passing (because we are just friends) had mentioned a man I was flirting with at the gym and haven't heard from him since. I do care for him I want him to be happy. I just am starting to realize that perhaps this is someone that being friends with isn't an option. He's an Aquarius with a stellium in the 11th Conjunct Uranus...this should be something he can do.

I'm including the midpoint Composite chart. Given all that you have seen is he feeling things like I am? It's a struggle because I almost feel like if we end up together it would be something serious, but I don't know if he feels the same. I did the overlays of each chart and on first glance they touch very superficial houses. But his 3rd house ruler (that co rules his 7th, Mercury) houses my Venus, his 5th house ruler (the moon) is the same sign as my Venus and NN, and form a few nice spots. I'm a bit worried about his 7th house ruler. His Mercury (and Sun) only is only Conjunct to my Jupiter, Square my Venus, and Square my Sat. I was also interested in the eighth house because he has a few things in mine. I noticed that his 8th house ruler is Venus, and his Venus is Conjunct my Moon, Opp my Mars, and Sun. Anyway sorry about the rambling. Thanks so much!!!

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