posted December 11, 2015 05:42 PM            

What do you guys think? Should I go and try to find a guy with this exact birth time, birthday and birth location LOLOL? I also put his birth location as a city that is a hot spot for me in terms of astrocartography; this means that this specific area (Hawaii) is a place where love is likely to find me. It's REALLY odd because my dad was born and raised in Hawaii and my parents met there, plus I have family from there.

GOOD ASPECTS:
*My Sun trine his Jupiter
*Our Jupiters trine each other
*My Moon tr his Jupiter
*My tr his Moon
*My Moon tr his Asc
*His Jupiter conj my Sun
*His Moon tr my Sun
*Our Asc sextile each other
*His Saturn tr my Asc
*His Asc tr my Sun
*My Mercury tr his Psyche, sextile my name Asteroid & sextile his Vertex
*His Jupiter conjunct my NN exact
*His Mars tr my Juno
*His Venus conj my name Asteroid
*His Venus sextile my Tyche (luck)
*Looks like a Grand Earth trine has formed

POTENTIALLY BAD ASPECTS:
*My Sun opp his Pluto (This makes me think of people who kill their spouses >.< )
*His Sun opp my Mars
*His Moon sq my Mercury
*His Venus sq my Moon
*Our Saturns square each other

** I'm on the outer circle.**

posted December 11, 2015 10:32 PM            

I've been doing this for years, and just recently finally settled on the best synastry and composite combination within my chosen age range.

How will you actually search? Hawaii has over 1.4 million residents. At least you have a specific area to search within.

Best of luck to you in finding your optimum mate.

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
So I spent the past two days pouring over as much info as I could to try and find a possible birthday for someone who would be close to 100% compatible with me, and lo and behold I actually think I did. There's a site called astrowin.org that calculates a synastry score between you and your partner and our score was 117 when the average is 0-30.

What do you guys think? Should I go and try to find a guy with this exact birth time, birthday and birth location LOLOL? I also put his birth location as a city that is a hot spot for me in terms of astrocartography; this means that this specific area (Hawaii) is a place where love is likely to find me. It's REALLY odd because my dad was born and raised in Hawaii and my parents met there, plus I have family from there.

GOOD ASPECTS:
*My Sun trine his Jupiter
*Our Jupiters trine each other
*My Moon tr his Jupiter
*My tr his Moon
*My Moon tr his Asc
*His Jupiter conj my Sun
*His Moon tr my Sun
*Our Asc sextile each other
*His Saturn tr my Asc
*His Asc tr my Sun
*My Mercury tr his Psyche, sextile my name Asteroid & sextile his Vertex
*His Jupiter conjunct my NN exact
*His Mars tr my Juno
*His Venus conj my name Asteroid
*His Venus sextile my Tyche (luck)
*Looks like a Grand Earth trine has formed

POTENTIALLY BAD ASPECTS:
*My Sun opp his Pluto (This makes me think of people who kill their spouses >.< )
*His Sun opp my Mars
*His Moon sq my Mercury
*His Venus sq my Moon
*Our Saturns square each other

** I'm on the outer circle.**

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posted December 11, 2015 11:02 PM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Synastry is way above average; scalar synergy value is 525 (about 85% compatible). I especially like the sextile ASC's, Jupiter--NN, Sun-Mercury-Jupiter Grand Trine. Before you actually begin searching for him, why don't you try to refine optimum match for you? My sense is that you could do better. Two days and one source does not account for all possible factors.

I've been doing this for years, and just recently finally settled on the best synastry and composite combination within my chosen age range.

How will you actually search? Hawaii has over 1.4 million residents. At least you have a specific area to search within.

Best of luck to you in finding your optimum mate.

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posted December 11, 2015 11:54 PM            

You could try scanning for favorable North Node dates; http://www.cafeastrology.com/northnodetables.html

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Originally posted by SunAscendant:
Hahaha I'm glad I actually did it right! It would be difficult finding this exact person (if this person is even alive or lives there now haha). It'd be much easier to find someone in SoCal near me (the natal chart for Los Angeles says that it became a city on September 4th just like my "soulmate" hhahaha), but I'm not sure if I'd be able to find that person either. How do I narrow the age gap? This perfect person is 8 years older which is older than the 2-7 years I normally go for, but 1984 is compatible with 1992 in Chinese astrology hahah.

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posted December 12, 2015 12:50 AM            

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Originally posted by athenegoddess:
I don't think that synastry is lover synastry. There is a huge lack of romantic aspects which is probably why you scored so high. Looks more like friends.

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posted December 12, 2015 12:52 AM            

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Originally posted by comdoc:
Too narrow an age range limits your possibilities. I began with 40 years scan...then eventually narrowed it down to 1986--1995. My ideal year is 1992, Chinese Black Water Monkey. Your best matches include Brown Earth Dragon(1988) and Green Wood Rat(1984) Years. What is your Lucky Element? See: http://www.chinesefortunecalendar.com/NewYearDays.htm

You could try scanning for favorable North Node dates; http://www.cafeastrology.com/northnodetables.html

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posted December 12, 2015 10:16 AM            

I agree with Athenegoddess on this one. this looks like good solid friends synastry. Possibly with a rather deep soul-connection or feeling of closeness (due to the Moons).

For lover`s synastry there is not enough of a spark though.

But there might be basic harmony with a few livid discussions (and sometimes disagreements, but I guess those could be settled due to the Sun-Moon-harmony).

The red person wouldn´t be in love though, not with unaspected Venus AND Mars, and probably not feel that attached either (unaspected Saturn); all the more since Saturn is the DESC-ruler.

In fact I think this might have the ingredients of an unrequited love or one person wanting a love relationship (most probably the blue one) and the other rather want a friendship, if at all (the red person)

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Some activation of the red person`s Venus and Mars and Saturn through progressed synastry might make it possible to get it off the ground, however I think unless those two have a perpetual progression, it will fizzle out, and at best become a platonic friendship again.

posted December 12, 2015 04:21 PM            

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Originally posted by Ceridwen:
Ah the cosmodynes, a good solid theory, just I haven`t seen it work with real life couples, or at least not well enough to convince me.

I agree with Athenegoddess on this one. this looks like good solid friends synastry. Possibly with a rather deep soul-connection or feeling of closeness (due to the Moons).

For lover`s synastry there is not enough of a spark though.

But there might be basic harmony with a few livid discussions (and sometimes disagreements, but I guess those could be settled due to the Sun-Moon-harmony).

The red person wouldn´t be in love though, not with unaspected Venus AND Mars, and probably not feel that attached either (unaspected Saturn); all the more since Saturn is the DESC-ruler.

In fact I think this might have the ingredients of an unrequited love or one person wanting a love relationship (most probably the blue one) and the other rather want a friendship, if at all (the red person)

EDIT
Some activation of the red person`s Venus and Mars and Saturn through progressed synastry might make it possible to get it off the ground, however I think unless those two have a perpetual progression, it will fizzle out, and at best become a platonic friendship again.

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Possibly there are some parallels/ contraparallels involving the unaspected Venus and Mars, if that is the case, I withdraw my statement.

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I did a different chart for one day earlier and in LA instead of Hawaii. The dual cosmodyne score is 102.41. I feel like the negativity of my Moon square his Mercury is helped out by my Mercury sextiling his Ascendant.