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posted January 14, 2013 04:07 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
yes, let`s not forget, before Uranus was being discovered, Aquarius was ruled by Saturn. It is certainly different than Capricorn, but maybe some of that still sticks to them. They can be pretty set in their ways.

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posted January 14, 2013 06:37 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hikoro:
googled antiscion. learned something new.
by the way, is there something astrological going on between aquarius and cancer? i see that these signs often attract each other.

i wonder if the reason aquas seem more approachable for water signs is because of this theory that this astrologer told me, about how all of the signs have more than one element.
i think he mentioned that aqua was air and water...
scorpio was water and fire...
and i dont remember what else. has anyone heard of this?

most people who meet me think im a fire sign.


I have read online about cancer and aquas saying themselves that there is something special there, but only seen it being said friendship-wise. I have definitely had intense (platonic) connections with aquas. Three of the five best friends I've had in my life have been aquas, and I've had several other random intense short-lasting friendships with aquas as well. For me, it is similar to the reason why cancer is drawn to leo. The moon reflects light from the sun, and thats why cancer becomes happy in leo's sunshine.. so they say. But the reality is leo and aqua are both extroverted jovial signs who are assertive, friendly, and accepting and lead the way for cancer with that same sunshine. Libra is too passive, and sag and gemini are jovial as well but as mutable signs can also be too passive to lead and they all three definitely have frequent angry or sour moods. Scorpio, yes, I agree, seems to have certain firey qualities (being mars ruled, i guess) but is not usually a "happy-go-lucky" person or at least feels moody and sad frequently like cancer. I feel like leos and aquas are the only two signs who are happy ALL the time. When i think of those two signs, for the girls at least, i think of a disney princess, being really childlike and happy and accepting all of the time. And i feel that cancer really really needs that kind of stable happiness.

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posted January 14, 2013 09:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for sand     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Rassy wanna take a peek at this? it's just for fun..
http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/005591.html

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posted January 16, 2013 04:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Evolved1     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have that with my Man..Sun, Mercury and Venus in Aqua in the 2nd house. And yes this has to be the most loving relationship I have ever been in..True love and my soul mate..

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posted January 26, 2013 01:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hikoro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
first, venus square saturn in composite...i think this happens to be the suckiest aspect we have. it is one of the aspects to avoid. yoko ono and lennon had it. and, apparently, obama and his wife may have it.
so, it cannot be that bad. i know that one single hard aspect doesnt kill the composite but, how can you actually know if an aspect is a big problem vs. not a big deal?
i mean, i was freaking out about it, and now, i can see that it is very relative, and not DOOM.
but, we shall see. this is just the beginning dating phase.
now, we do come from different backgrounds, social status, etc. his mom will make things difficult. i dont know if this is venus square saturn in play already.

now, onto the next one...
i will call this topic: your love's parents...and the stellium.

so, my dear gem is sexy, amazing. as we all recall, we have the love stellium in the sixth house.
now, the first time i saw pictures of his dad, i thought....mmmm....so cute and, 'had i been around in your father's time...i would have jumped him'
sadness...his dad passed away when my love was very young, just a kid. and, worse, in one of those 'stupid' accidents that makes you go, 'what a waste, cant believe he died like that, are you serious?'

i dont know why....but last night i got curious and did a composite of his dad and i.
here it is....

we also have the love stellium and...in the sixth house! just like mr. gem and i.

so yes, i agree. one can feel the love stellium with someone. now, i wonder how many of us have checked the love stellium with the mother/father in law, etc.
and, if you have noticed any patterns.

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posted January 29, 2013 11:42 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for hikoro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
bumping...
just curious if anybody has found similar patterns with the parents of your boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/wife...

now, it may be just coincidence since usually, there are astrological patterns within parents and children, and that may explain the coincidence with mother/father in law.

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posted January 29, 2013 03:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i haven't :/

but maybe someone else has?

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posted January 29, 2013 11:50 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Got Gemini??     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hikoro:
bumping...
just curious if anybody has found similar patterns with the parents of your boyfriend/husband/girlfriend/wife...

now, it may be just coincidence since usually, there are astrological patterns within parents and children, and that may explain the coincidence with mother/father in law.


I did this with synastry a few years ago between my mom and miss scorpio's mom and compared all four charts and there were some really interesting connections. I never tried with composites though. I'll try tomorrow and post up some of the connections.

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posted February 17, 2013 09:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for calliope23     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I just taught myself about composite charts, and the one person in my life I am most protective of and who I have ever truly felt myself and totally comfortable around has been my sister. Surprise, surprise: We have a Sun-Mars-Mercury stellium, all of which are opposite Venus (the sun opposing Venus being the same as conjunct according to RAS's Google search..but I think the fact that the stellium opposes Venus is also incredibly telling and somewhat eerie!).

I think there is definitely something to this combination and the sort of relationship it produces! I have yet to find anyone else significant in my life with a Sun-Venus-Mercury aspect, so unfortunately I can only attest to my relationship with my sister (although both my last boyfriends and I had Sun-Mercury conjunct...a meeting of the minds in both cases and both people I wholeheartedly cared for and wanted to protect, but both lacking in a deep-seated passion on my part for them as things developed). I wonder if having Mars thrown into the stellium also makes the relationship as deep as it is between my sister and me in some way? Obviously there is nothing weirdly sexual going on, but I think it could be interpreted as a motivation/drive/similar passions characteristic adding harmony and understanding to our relationship...it seems like Mars in the composite mix would also be beneficial for a romantic relationship for, err...exactly the aspect I don't share with my sister haha.

Something else that is sort of weird is that all of these aspects have happened in the composite's tenth house, and both of my ex-boyfriends' and my composites have Libra ruling MC (they were both Leos though, so maybe that's just the midpoint between our signs). My sister and my's composite is also aspected in MC, but in Aquarius. Not sure if that is significant or not, but thought I'd throw it in.

So cool, thanks so much for pointing this out to me!

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posted February 17, 2013 09:56 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Wow so cool i have this with my boyfriend.

I also have it with my daughter and mother. The 4 of us are geminis and the stellium is in gemini!!!


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@ RunAroundScreaming I would love for you to read my post and help me with some clairfaction or offer some guideance or onterpation. My post is titled: Am I seeing this correctly? Composite Sun Conjunct Venus

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posted February 18, 2013 08:21 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hikoro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by dyedye08:
@ RunAroundScreaming I would love for you to read my post and help me with some clairfaction or offer some guideance or onterpation. My post is titled: Am I seeing this correctly? Composite Sun Conjunct Venus

i think it would be better if you post the composite chart here.
this is the all-around thread of the love stellium. a nice database.

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posted February 18, 2013 08:27 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for suireen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ughhh.. Ours is so close. If only Venus wasn't in the 10th house!

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posted February 18, 2013 09:37 PM           Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@ hikoro Thanks!
Here is our Composite

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From my own observation
I did notice the Venus-Sun-Mercurcy stellium. I think because his Moon Square my Mars is where the strong physical and sexual attraction between us came into play. We had our intense moments, I mean when he came around me I would become real fidgety, couldn't keep my legs still and I noticed that when i came around him. He would do the same thing he couldn't control the need to tap his feet, he became fidgety and nervous. We were never imitate and I thought sense we felt it yet never gave into those urges then this is where the tendency to frustrate each other and rouse each other's wrath came into play. Although the attraction between us was powerful, because we wasn't acting on it I noticed that the tendency to argue and nag each other came into play as well. Due to his his Moon Conjunct my Uranus I noticed our feelings towards each other would change quickly and we often reacted to each other rather impulsively. When the mood was right, we found each other sexually irresistible, but at other times we could get on each other's nerves. Mutual friends would say that we fell in and out of love on a monthly basis! Due to this aspect alone Sun Conjunct Venus whatever friction, dissonance, or ill will that developed between us, there was an urge to harmonize, reconcile, and ease our differences, and to create cooperation.I felt that it would take a lot for the two of us to ever turn against each other entirely. I just pray that this is even more true now than ever before. Past reading often told me that he felt confused about his feelings toward me I felt that this aspect Moon Sesquiquadrate Mercury was at work causing him to feel confused. I often thought this aspect is Moon Sextile Neptune is often why i dreamed of him so much. Can anyone please elaborate on this aspect Moon Trine Pluto. I blame Sun Conjunct Mercury for his sudden detachment to me or maybe I have this wrong.

I'm posting his progressed chart. Hoping someone can explain his sudden reason to detach himself from me.


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posted February 18, 2013 10:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I replied

And explained quite a bit about the est kind of composite chart and what mars means when it is conjunct a composite planet

Here is the link to the thread. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/005950.html

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@ Running and Screaming I read your reply posted on other forum and I most definetley appreciated your insight. I wanted to post our progressed composite and see what insights you see.

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posted February 19, 2013 03:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Don't know about progressed charts sorry

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posted February 21, 2013 12:10 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@runaroundscreaming
What do you think about this composite? The "love stellium" is squared by mars but it is very tight. Does mars dampen the love stellium's energy? How does pluto factor into the mix? Is moon conjunct neptune important? His birth time is a guess so I wouldn't take stock in the houses.

Our synastry is a mixed bag but has some very strong sun and moon contacts and a grand trine (his sun aspects my moon and asc, which aspect each other). We also have a venus-pluto conjunction and a mars-pluto trine. Majorly unfortunate aspect: mars square saturn, but I'm the mars person (in pisces) and I deal with a ton of saturn in my natal chart so it's hard for me to imagine anyone restricting me more than I restrict myself. Not a whole lot of DW aspects.

I also noticed that my dad and I have the love stellium (super sweet!) so I'm fascinated by this concept. Where did you first hear about it?

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posted February 21, 2013 01:16 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Ironically, I just explained those questions. Haha. Because it's a common composite. Since mars and pluto give stronger feelings to a love stellium. In fact i have pluto and mars hard aspect to a love stellium in composite with my boyfriend. Shows you how common it is in passionate relationships. You can see if u count two post above this one the limk where I explained it. Here, I'll just copy n paste it: http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum11/HTML/005950.html


No mars in hard aspect to a love stellium is not bad. It gives greater energy impetus and ambition. Sometimes it can make for slight tension since it's mars we're talking about after all but it is almost a good kind of tension...it's decisive, goal oriented, and sexual too. Ive never had any problems witha love stellium hard aspect mars. And ive had it several times.

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posted February 21, 2013 01:19 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for RunAroundScreaming     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Where'd I first hear about the love stellium. At te wisdom forum at astrologyhoroscopes.com the astrologer there does free readings for people by reading just their composite. I noticed when there was sun conjunct venus and mercury he kept saying it was "a very nice relationship, possibly one of the most loving of your life." He never called it a love stellium. But I took the hint that I should start to.

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posted February 21, 2013 01:40 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Twitterbird05     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
@runaroundscreaming
Oh thanks! Sorry to make you repeat yourself - this thread is out of control. I'll probably purchase one of your ebay readings to get more detail.

Super fascinating. I think it's cool when people connect the dots and give something a name.

Thanks again!!

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Reading this topic has made me feel absolutely miserable and depressed. Why? Because I have made countless efforts to ruin my own relationship with a woman, to the point ive made it. It is most likely irreversible now. By then I feared I was making a terrible mistake by leaving the love of my life (but did that nonetheless), and reading this has brought my fear into reality: Our composite chart has nothing less than a Venus, Mercury, Sun, Pluto and Saturn tight orb stellium at 9th house, all in Scorpio. All of them sextiled by Jupiter and Neptune in Capricorn, and squared by a Leo Moon in 6th, which was likely the cause of our departure.

Something like this is probably never going to be matched once again, and its all my fault. I have spent weeks in despair, and by now, I sometimes wish my own death for this...

have a look at it:

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posted March 01, 2013 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hikoro     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
i cant see the chart.
try to fix it.

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posted March 01, 2013 06:05 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for KarkaQueen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
My boyfriend and I have sun conjunct venus in eighth house composite if that counts lol

or is it 7th

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