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Topic: For Orange, Faith, mir (UPDATED)
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Rosalind
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posted December 18, 2015 09:26 AM
  
Hi gals, long time no talk. I came back for a short while to give you some update about my situation with the guy I liked.A few weeks ago I got the courage and told him I love him. He rejected me.He told me he doesnt love me back BUT he also added that even if he did he wouldn't mix things ( love with work). That made think he lied about his true feelings because his behaviour betrays him. He says he has nothing for me but he acts and proves that he does. Now we treat each other like we did before. Indifferent and cold. We barely speak and I want to put an end to the situation because it hurts me like hell. I just want to move one and find my peace. I wish to thank you for all your astrological insight but unfortunately for me, nothing came true. I am not surprised. I should be already used to disappointments. IP: Logged |
Orange
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From: Georgia
Registered: May 2009
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posted December 18, 2015 09:43 AM
Hey, hun, sorry to hear that.I don't think I ever told you that you two had a chance. I did, however, tell you that your progressions show love coming into your life a few years later, maybe like 4-5 years later, and you said you couldn't wait that long for a love to come.
So, it's coming to you, even thou not exactly when you want it... IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 18, 2015 09:56 AM
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Originally posted by Orange:
Hey, hun, sorry to hear that.I don't think I ever told you that you two had a chance. I did, however, tell you that your progressions show love coming into your life a few years later, maybe like 4-5 years later, and you said you couldn't wait that long for a love to come.
So, it's coming to you, even thou not exactly when you want it...
Thank you Orange but I dont want or need it anymore. I have other more important things to do. I also gave up to my dream to have children and a family of my own. I want to work hard to build up my career and to make a lot of money. mir told me we could have had a chance, not you. Sorry for the confusion. IP: Logged |
Faith
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From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 18, 2015 10:40 AM
Sorry it didn't work out, Rosalind.I don't remember the charts exactly, but I thought the Venus-Saturn conjunction both ways would create a strong pull towards each other. It must be hard having to work with him. It's hard watching someone say they are giving up their dreams, but you really never know, your dreams might come true anyway. Best wishes moving on and finding your peace.  IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 18, 2015 10:55 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Sorry it didn't work out, Rosalind.I don't remember the charts exactly, but I thought the Venus-Saturn conjunction both ways would create a strong pull towards each other. It must be hard having to work with him. It's hard watching someone say they are giving up their dreams, but you really never know, your dreams might come true anyway. Best wishes moving on and finding your peace.
Venus-Saturn means nothing. Not in my case. I know he loves me like I love him but he doesnt want to do anything to do with me. Why? Hell knows. I dont want to know it either. What really bothers me is that he lied and his behaviour. He says he doesnt love me but he looks after me and doesnt leave me alone. I have started to feel very confused about his intentions.
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Faith
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From: Bella's Hair Salon
Registered: Jul 2011
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posted December 18, 2015 11:17 AM
Well if you know he loves you maybe that is connected to the Venus-Saturn. We don't know. I think a lot of Sag men really balk at the idea of being in a relationship. So even if they love you that doesn't mean they want to be in a relationship. The responsibility of it is daunting to them. They love their freedom so much. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 18, 2015 11:28 AM
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Originally posted by Faith:
Well if you know he loves you maybe that is connected to the Venus-Saturn. We don't know. I think a lot of Sag men really balk at the idea of being in a relationship. So even if they love you that doesn't mean they want to be in a relationship. The responsibility of it is daunting to them. They love their freedom so much.
That its his problem not my mine. I wont sit and wait for him. We hurt each other too much and I realised we are not made for each other. Love is not enough when fate and time is against you. When something was not meant to be neither Venus-Saturn can beat this. I am tired of suffering, of this pain and tears. I just want to be left alone. Hurts too much.
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mir
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posted December 18, 2015 09:20 PM
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Love is not enough when fate and time is against you
Exactly ^ But I'm glad you finally declared your love!
There was simply no way out of that with all the bubbling feelings around. It's something you build up over time which finally have to have its outlet towards the object of ones passion. It's purely natural. Nothing wrong with that. You can go on now, better than before. The older we get the more we learn to not spoil our time on matters of love that aren't worth waiting/fighting for. In fact, life itself is difficult and complex enough to experience our love on a dead Island. Even when we find a mutual-love it's fighting to keep our heads above water but at least then we fight together for a better life or against the world. Choosing for yourself and your OWN life is way more potent for finding that what simply and naturally fits. Which doesn't include such a painful ride through the emotional jungle of yes/no/yes/no. IP: Logged |
Rosalind
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posted December 19, 2015 02:57 AM
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Originally posted by mir:
Exactly ^But I'm glad you finally declared your love!
There was simply no way out of that with all the bubbling feelings around. It's something you build up over time which finally have to have its outlet towards the object of ones passion. It's purely natural. Nothing wrong with that. You can go on now, better than before. The older we get the more we learn to not spoil our time on matters of love that aren't worth waiting/fighting for. In fact, life itself is difficult and complex enough to experience our love on a dead Island. Even when we find a mutual-love it's fighting to keep our heads above water but at least then we fight together for a better life or against the world. Choosing for yourself and your OWN life is way more potent for finding that what simply and naturally fits. Which doesn't include such a painful ride through the emotional jungle of yes/no/yes/no.
Yeah, thank you mir. IP: Logged |
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