posted December 19, 2015 10:56 AM            

So for a few months I have been speaking to a guy from Japan online. It's got to the point where we speak on skype almost every day, and we have sent each other packages of things (him from things from Japan, me with things from Scotland..). It's been so exciting for me as I've always loved Japan but never managed to meet any Japanese people !!

So it's all seemingly well, and he's ended up booking a ticket to come visit me in March. I managed to get his birth time and looked at our report on astro.com.. What wasnt there when I had no birth time suddenly appeared " Neptune Opposition Ascendant ".

"Neptune Opposition Ascendant

This aspect can have a number of effects, most of which are quite difficult to deal with. First of all, it implies that something is preventing this from being a true relationship between equals. It is very often the case that one of you has entered the relationship with the idea of sacrificing yourself in order to "help" the other. But there is a very subtle kind of egotism operating here under the disguise of self-sacrifice.

Sometimes this symbolism takes the form of one of the persons being an alcoholic or having some other type of psychological disorder which requires much attention and so-called sacrifice from the other.

At other times the effect of this aspect is simply to make a relationship very unrealistic. Instead of dealing with your real personalities, you impose this image on each other.

It may also be that you are quite realistic about each other, but not terribly realistic as a couple about others outside of your relationship whom you must deal with. This is particularly so with people you consult for advice, such as lawyers, doctors, or counselors. Be quite careful when working with such people, and do not take their advice uncritically."

I am panicing ?? I am scared that when he comes for 3 weeks it's going to be a let down for him because he's thought of me unrealiticly and me of him ?? I am literally ruining what could be a really beautiful thing out of fear when I don't know properly how to read birth charts or look at what else is going on..

Can someone PLEASE put my mind at ease.. Or.. Something.. Tell me what else is going on between us >____<

Does Neptune Opposition Ascendent mean we are doomed if we meet in real life ??? He's already bought the ticket.. I am ruining all this with my panic.. I shouldn't have looked up the report.. I can't get it out of my head now.. Can someone help :/

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Him:

posted December 20, 2015 09:18 AM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
Neither one of you has Neptune opposite ascendant. His Neptune trines your ascendant in synastry, however. Which is very nice.

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