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ikja
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From: The Valley of Restoration
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posted December 21, 2015 06:37 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've been speaking to someone online for a while now. He is older than me by about 5 years and things are going ok - I just don't feel the spark/excitement just yet. Why is it that I only seem to get excited by relationships which feature a number of hard aspects? Well actually, I know why... Natally, I am Mars dominant. It's my chart ruler and the most aspected planet in my chart :-/

Below is a synastry chart between me and X (I'm blue). There are sooooo many trines/sextiles, but I feel abit 'meh' towards the whole thing. True, we haven't met in real life - yet... But I don't know... Just feels abit flat.

With that said, I see a number of "good" aspects here AND I love the fact that he has a fire moon! I need a guy who has passion and fire in his belly SOMEWHERE.

Yay for:
Saturn conjunct Jupiter
Saturn conjunct Sun (maybe)
Moon trine Mars
Mars sextile Venus
Pluto trine Mars
Pluto trine Venus

But, my sun is unaspected! Maybe that's why I'm not really feeling it - even at this early stage lol.

The composite looks abit mean though
(all of those Mars squares!)

Thoughts?


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Ceridwen
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posted December 21, 2015 07:27 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Ceridwen     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
"good" aspects are usually detrimental for sparks (you need several good aspects of course, but you also need the "mars-factor")

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ikja
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posted December 21, 2015 07:52 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ikja     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I agree with you Ceri!

I definitely don't feel MOVED by this one, but then in past relationships I've been in... The Mars/Pluto activity has been too much lol.

Back to the drawing board!

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