posted January 13, 2016 11:37 AM            

Also, what would a Saturn conjunct ASC bring (with Mars in the 1st house)?

Me and this person have a packed 12th house together as well. Saturn, Uranus, Neptune and NN (Saturn is close to the ASC though.)

We also have Pluto conjunct MC and Sun and merc in the 8th house

posted January 15, 2016 01:36 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Sounds like you are meant to be in relationship for a while bc of vertex in the 7th and moon on the DC but it will probably end in heart break bc of chiron in the DC and Saturn in the AC. Chiron on the DC or 7th in my personal experience is about the healing that must ultimately happen from the karmic pain of not been together and getting to that place of acceptance and peace.
Saturn in the AC could indicate age difference or delays in being togther or outside factors preventing you to be together or symbolize how you are committed to each other for a while but with chiron on the DC opposing Saturn it to me further confirms that theme of ultimate heartbreak and not being able to be together.

You definitely have karma with this person.

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Thanks for the response! Its funny because we talked about healing, and resolving our afflictions with one another. In other words, we both expressed that we felt that we "met" each other to help heal and inspire one another. Our relationship is also very sexual for some reason.

She told me I inspired her to break up from her boyfriend of 6 years (it was a bad relationship) and she considered me being her romantic partner. But I have abandonment issues, and she has issues with expressing her emotions so even though the feelings are there, its hard for me to verbalize. When we're in public, we don't really show affection for one another. But when we are alone its a completely different story.

posted January 15, 2016 10:51 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
hi
you need to consider the complete composite not just bits and pieces.
todd

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posted January 16, 2016 12:36 AM            

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Thanks for the response! Its funny because we talked about healing, and resolving our afflictions with one another. In other words, we both expressed that we felt that we "met" each other to help heal and inspire one another. Our relationship is also very sexual for some reason.

She told me I inspired her to break up from her boyfriend of 6 years (it was a bad relationship) and she considered me being her romantic partner. But I have abandonment issues, and she has issues with expressing her emotions so even though the feelings are there, its hard for me to verbalize. When we're in public, we don't really show affection for one another. But when we are alone its a completely different story.

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awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww that is a beautiful way for it to manifest (healing together is the ideal way this can manifest), thanks for sharing how it has been so far for you two.

posted January 16, 2016 02:17 AM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
awwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwwww that is a beautiful way for it to manifest (healing together is the ideal way this can manifest), thanks for sharing how it has been so far for you two.

Sounds sooo sweet and romantic! I am rooting for you two .

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posted January 16, 2016 04:07 PM            

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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
^^^ yes its early Aquarius

My asc is 9 degree Aquarius, and hers is 24 degree Capricorn. We both have the same ruling planets touching it. Her Saturn in Aqua touches my ASC exact, and my Saturn in Cap touches her ASC exact as well. We hit it off IMMEDIATELY when we met. Also my ASC is in her 1st house which is also pretty binding.

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posted January 16, 2016 04:12 PM            

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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Yes it could mean the realationship will last a long time, saturn definitely glues. But it could also mean age difference, delays in relationship taking off or the denial of the relationship all together. Saturn is great for commitment but Saturn also limits and restrics...in his case she was in a six year relationship when they met which means delays and they will probably take their time to commit but once they do they will fight for the relationship and stick together.

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This is true. She told me that out of all of her friends I was the one who finally "convinced" her to break up with him. But she said I convinced her because I seemed to be the most genuine, or "eye-opening". Funny thing, I wasn't even trying to convince her. I was just being honest. We only knew each other for a few weeks at that time and already we were getting personal. We admire each other highly, she caught feelings for me before I did. Now I'm considering taking it to the next level with her. But after that bad break-up, I'm going to just take things slow with her and continue building on trust.

posted January 16, 2016 04:28 PM            

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This is true. She told me that out of all of her friends I was the one who finally "convinced" her to break up with him. But she said I convinced her because I seemed to be the most genuine, or "eye-opening". Funny thing, I wasn't even trying to convince her. I was just being honest. We only knew each other for a few weeks at that time and already we were getting personal. We admire each other highly, she caught feelings for me before I did. Now I'm considering taking it to the next level with her. But after that bad break-up, I'm going to just take things slow with her and continue building on trust.

I recognize that this is something karmic. The Moon and Chrion on DSC is showing me this. And we both realized this even before I even bothered looking at the composite.

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posted January 16, 2016 04:30 PM            

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Originally posted by fiola:
Totally do keep things slow, after the break-up of a 6 yo relationship, no matter how bad it was will take her time to be ready for a new relationship. Now as for fate, i'd take the packed 12th house (strong karma here) over the moon on the descendant as in the composite it's how you two relate to the other people around you as a couple.

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posted January 16, 2016 06:18 PM            

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Originally posted by NYCdodger:
This is true. She told me that out of all of her friends I was the one who finally "convinced" her to break up with him. But she said I convinced her because I seemed to be the most genuine, or "eye-opening". Funny thing, I wasn't even trying to convince her. I was just being honest. We only knew each other for a few weeks at that time and already we were getting personal. We admire each other highly, she caught feelings for me before I did. Now I'm considering taking it to the next level with her. But after that bad break-up, I'm going to just take things slow with her and continue building on trust.

I recognize that this is something karmic and nothing more. The Moon and Chrion on DSC is showing me that healing needs to take place. Our 12th house cluster shows us this as well as the Sun in the 8th. And we both realized this even before I even bothered looking at the composite to begin with. I feel a sense of "letting go" though. We spoke about how we felt with one another and I expressed that maybe she needs to just focus on what makes her happy and at ease with herself. Being single has its perks lol

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You are very honest you always speak from your heart, carefully thought out observations and your instincts, I could see why you had an impact.

posted January 17, 2016 01:55 AM            

There is something scarier than been abandoned and that is losing your ability to love and that is something you have control over, nobody can take away that ability but yourself so chose love over fear every time but take your time and go at your pace, that is understandable.

I think you should feel truly great about the fact that you are trying hard and pushing your comfort zones as that is all anyone can ask from you. Some people don't try at all, you are trying so keep trying and you will get there. I know the universe has a special girl in store for you.

posted January 17, 2016 11:51 AM            

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^^You are deserving of love and young, you will come across that girl that won't leave you and stick by you no matter what; your best friend and partner in crime. She is out there, maybe you found her already, maybe not. All I know is that you won't find her if you don't take risks, have faith and bounce back from every disillusionment.

There is something scarier than been abandoned and that is losing your ability to love and that is something you have control over, nobody can take away that ability but yourself so chose love over fear every time but take your time and go at your pace, that is understandable.

I think you should feel truly great about the fact that you are trying hard and pushing your comfort zones as that is all anyone can ask from you. Some people don't try at all, you are trying so keep trying and you will get there. I know the universe has a special girl in store for you.

I think you said if I remember correctly that you have Venus in Cancer or was it something else? I think that perhaps that is were the fear of abandonment comes from, your cancer placement which has a strong need to feel safe in order to open up. What do you have in saturn? I also wonder if you have any sidereal to tropic conjunctions...It would be nice if you post your chart but understand if you can't or don't want to.

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That is so inspiring Hypatia, thank you for posting that, it touched me.