posted June 27, 2016 06:54 PM            

though as I have said before, the vertex aspects do not always integrate into the chart as one would assume.so even though this strikes me as a commitment sign, it might not necessary function like that.

anything with the vertex can bring a sense of karma or unworldly connections.

venus on the desc and sextile to the node and amore certainly brings a stable emotional affection for each other. I some ways this is a excellent aspect for venus as it shows constancy in the emotional connection and not a up and down....usually.

but that said venus square to pluto can be problematic because the emotional attraction is subject to unconscious influences which usually detract from the conscious affection.

as a sexual aspect it can be initially intense but most often the sexual tension wanes because the unconscious nature of Pluto does not reciprocate the emotional bonding that hopefully occurs after extended sexual intimacy.

the isis/Osiris midpoint is conjunct to Neptune with Neptune sextile to pluto. this shows a stable sensitivity with a distinctly healing affect. oiris and isis imply deep emotion wounds that could be ameliorated by the relationship .

with the mars/venus midpoint conjunct valentine and the cupid/amore conjunction with the node, there is a very romantic and loving ambience overall to the relationship in spite of the pluto/venus "void".

with the Jupiter/juno midpoint conjunct to mars it really seems like he acts as if he wants to commit though he doth protest to much.

it seems a major obstacle to the commitment issues revolves around the chiron/juno conjunction opposed to pluto snd square to venus. first chiron square to venus can be overly concerned with the feelings of the other, always analyzing and second guessing. with love this is just a impulse to know the other as deeply and accurately as possible to help with any emotional issues not understood. but if the affection sours the this aspect shows that the deep insights into each others psyche can lead to
deep destructive and painful insults and criticism.
the sun/Saturn and moon/Saturn midpoints are square to the venus/Neptune midpoint which can weaken the bonds of devotion as the emotional bonding is weakened by lack of emotional transparency either by design of by basic uncertainty of true feelings. this pattern can also be a bit emotional cruel .
this last pattern was transited by the node recently as all these midpoints are on the 18th degree of the cardnal cross which the node went through in the first week of this month.

posted June 17, 2017 06:12 PM            

He has sun conjunct mercury and venus in the 7H and you know what I told you about stelliums in the 7H making the native feel very overwhelmed in relationships causing them to end relationships out of nowhere and you add to the mix that his stellium squares Uranus further reinforcing this theme and that Saturn rules his 7H which makes relationship feel extra heavy in light of everything I just said!

Why do you insist in believing this has to do with you and your connection? Its so obvious is him and the issues he has!

posted June 18, 2017 12:01 AM            

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Originally posted by StelliumH6:
Right now I can't get past the hurt and rejection. I need to analyze to cope so I can move on. I'll get there! This was a 2 1/2 year relationship. Plus he has been in heart since I was 15 years old, that's 30+ years. My friends and family have told me the same things you have, hypatia. I thank you for replying.

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posted June 20, 2017 01:37 AM            

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Originally posted by StelliumH6:
hypatia, can you explain this one? He ended it with me this past week, then there was a woman at his house for the entire weekend. If relationships overwhelm him why did he distance himself from me and go into another one?

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Spending a weekend with someone is not a commitment, is only a matter of time bf he starts feeling overwhelmed with her bc that is part of his cycle...