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Yanmorg
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posted February 15, 2016 05:34 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I've always had issues in my personal relationships. I'm always left feeling unloved, unsatisfied, etc.

I just want to hear some opinioms based off my natal chart, on what type of partner I might be most compativle with. Aspects, specific placements, etc would be nice. I'm just curious to see what you guys come up with after seeing someone make a similar post. Thank you in advance.

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posted February 15, 2016 06:02 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Since mars rules your DC and falls in your 7th conjuncting your DC, you partner will need to be expressive and show you through actions and words she/he likes you, no playing games or guessing. The outdoorsy type is your ideal, someone confident who takes initiative, perhaps someone who is somewhat of a tomboy or a handy manly man (e.g. a builder, creator, risk taker) an equal in all matters, not shy. Hope you find him soon! Good luck!

If you are a guy this girl would also have a very feminine side to her but not be afraid to get dirty and be outdoorsy.

If you are a girl this guy will also need to be intense but easy going at the same time.

Last, since Mercury rules your 5th house you will also need someone intellectually stimulating to even get your attention in the first place. You also want someone fit.

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posted February 15, 2016 06:11 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote

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Yanmorg
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posted February 15, 2016 07:09 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Originally posted by hypatia238:
Since mars rules your DC and falls in your 7th conjuncting your DC, you partner will need to be expressive and show you through actions and words she/he likes you, no playing games or guessing. The outdoorsy type is your ideal, someone confident who takes initiative, perhaps someone who is somewhat of a tomboy or a handy manly man (e.g. a builder, creator, risk taker) an equal in all matters, not shy. Hope you find him soon! Good luck!

If you are a guy this girl would also have a very feminine side to her but not be afraid to get dirty and be outdoorsy.

If you are a girl this guy will also need to be intense but easy going at the same time.

Last, since Mercury rules your 5th house you will also need someone intellectually stimulating to even get your attention in the first place. You also want someone fit.


Thanks for your response, hypatia238.

You hit it right on the head as far as my ideal type. The only thing that was surprising was you didn't mention a need for him (I am a female) to be Saturnian considering my 6th house stellium coupled with Saturn squaring my mars, Sun, Ascendant & trining my moon and Venus.

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posted February 15, 2016 07:22 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Well Saturn rules your 9th and falls in your 10th, I feel that means you will pursue a degree and career abroad and will have to work very hard to succeed but will ultimately achieve your goals. I just don't feel you will necessarily marry a saturnian but that is just my opinion. If your duads for sun, moon or mars or AC or DC are in capricorn or cancer you would feel very drawn to caps.

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posted February 15, 2016 07:53 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for hypatia238     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Your Mars Dwad is in Aries
Your AC Duad is Aries, AC Dwad Pisces
Your Northnode Duad is Capricorn
Your Southnode Duad is Cancer
Your Moon Duad is Cancer
Your Sun Duad is Gemini, Sun Dwad Scorpio
Your Venus Duad is Sag, Venus Dwad Taurus
Your Mercury Duad is Aqua, Merc Dwad Cancer

So conjunctions and oppositions to your Duad/Dwads is what you are drawn to.

Since Mars rules your DC and you have some Duads and Dwads in Aries I feel you will feel very drawn to Aries placements. There is also a lot of action with the cancer-capricorn axis.

So your ideal type could be a a mix of aries-libra axis placements with some capricorn-cancer axis placements in there too.

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posted February 15, 2016 08:46 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenaia     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have a half baked theory.. I was thinking that because the entirety of your stellium is almost exclusively in Libra/Scorpio, you'd do well with a dual elemental blend. You're Water/Air, so the other Water/Air combination could be someone with a Gemini/Cancer stellium, falling into your 1st/2nd houses.. however Gemini is also the sign of your south node, and if you're very NN orientated, that wouldn't feel like perfection.

The other one could be someone with a Pisces/Aquarius stellium, but you have Saturn in Aqua.. depending how good you are with Saturnine energy, that could be a mess.
Since the trines aren't that great, we could move onto sextiles

Earth would sextile your Water, Fire would sextile your Libra.. but the Taurus/Aries axis falls into a good majority of your 12th house. You could find this frustrating.

However, if you dated someone with a Sagittarius/Capricorn stellium.. that could be perfect. They're falling into your 7th/8th/9th house. You have a Sag Mars/NN/Psyche plus Venus conjunct Jupiter, so Sag energy may be what you need to play off your Libran intellectualism. Whereas the stoic, still-waters-that-run-deep Capricorn falling into your 8th house could be a really stimulating effect for your giant Scorpio stellium.

Also, the ruler of your 7th house is in the 6th - meaning you're likely to meet a partner at work, *or* that someone with Virgo qualities is something you enjoy. Given that your 5th house cusp is Virgo, there's a big possibility that would work for you. The only downside is that your Chiron is in Virgo. I personally feel repelled by people that have a prominent sign in the sign of my Chiron.. depends on if Chironic energy is more healing than painful for you, based on your experiences. It'll also sextile your Scorpio stellium. You also have Mercury conjunct Venus, so mental stimulating is big for you in order for you to feel captivated, swept off your feet in a partnership. Add the Jupiter conjunction and you have a craving to delve into philosophy/other academic subjects with your S/O.

You have Saturn trine Moon.. you need someone that has a very professional, mature outlook on life naturally, or it could manifest in the classic way it often does - someone older. But they can't be a manchild. They very much should be a "citizen of the world"

Juno in Libra pretty close to the Moon - you want a partnership of equality. No power plays, no manipulation, fairness across the board, equal distribution of input/power. However, at the end of the day, you also want to feel distinctly *feminine* and adored (this coupled with your Taurus Rising), but (again, Moon/Saturn), by someone who checks you and who you can't manipulate in your favor. You have to be able to respect your partner and his virtues (Jupiter), as well as his mental capabilities (Mercury), because you (chart ruler: Venus) also offer these same things.

Natal Mars conjunct NN - you always have a good sense about what is *right* in your life. When other people have a perspective, you don't have to listen to it. You don't need other people's advice the way most people would. You have very good intuition and are a trailblazer in your decision making, especially in relation to friends/enemies/romantic partners. The only time this can trip you up is if someone aspects your SN.. I think Gemini energy wouldn't be good for you. It throws you off your path in life. Definitely go for the other Mercurial sign - Virgo.

Just my 2c

Not a huge fan of oppositions in synastry personally, they're magnetic but crash and burn SO FAST. You have a lot of fixed energy in your chart too (I have a fixed Sun/fixed Moon) so you'll probably find oppositions infuriating. Plus they'll be in your 12th house.. no fun if you don't like that energy.

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posted February 16, 2016 01:15 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Lotis White     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Just chiming in to say that you like Saturnian energy because Pluto, which co-rules your Dsc along with Mars, tightly squares Saturn.

The Mars/Saturn square is waaaay to wide to really be effective (8 degrees). The Pluto/Saturn square though is the culprit (only 2 degrees apart).

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posted March 22, 2016 07:45 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Yanmorg     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you for all the great replies.

I apologize for the late response.

Everything you all said rings true. I have mars conjunct NN at 1 degree so yes, I'm NN oriented. It's funny you mentioned the NN-SN because I am currently dating someone whose SN conjuncts my IC (Sun) and although we're still dating and I don't see us splitting any time soon, there's always this nagging feeling that something's missing or I shouldn't settle right here even though everything is set up just right for it. We have soulmate aspects, we're heavily involved, etc but I still feel like something is missing, but that could just be based on this Uranus transit in my 12th opposite my moon i'm experiencing currently. He's a double Pisces with Mercury and Venus in Aries retrograde and he's not the brightest one in the bunch so I guess this is where most of my frustration stems from. Intellect equals power in my eyes and any man who I don't view as powerful, is weak. I can't respect a weak man.. but my question is, am I being too shallow in all of this?

Where do you draw the line between shallow and just having standards? He's all the man I need except when it comes to his BRAIN. He operates as if he's a child, but he doesn't totally deserve the label "manchild" either. He's a very enigmatic soul. I've ALWAYS been attracted to Sagittarius men or men with Sagittarius placements. I love their larger than life attitude. Their zest for life feels me up with so much excitement and happiness but my Scorpio stellium cuts all that short when jealousy rears its ugly head. I have so much admiration for Capricorn men. They are extremely sexy to me, but they're TOO ambitious in my eyes. I understand they'll be the men you can count on financially, but money isn't everything. I understand taking life seriously and being responsible, but sometimes it's okay to splurge or go broke for awhile if that means spending money on memories and other sentimental moments/ gifts. Air signs are attractive intellectually, but that's as far as it goes when it comes to my level of attraction. Air Signs just don't have enough depth in my opinion, even the ones wity water moons. They will never be able to relate on such an intense and passionate level emotionally and I need that at all times. I'm a bunch of difference elements all the way down to my Uranus aspecting almost all of my personal planets. I have a little bit of something for "everybody" haha. Air, fire, earth, and water.

What do you guys think of my Sun/ Mars-Saturn squares getting in the way?

Uranus square Moon?

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