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Isa
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posted February 16, 2016 09:31 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I like him a lot.
Would it last? I would appreciate any insight.

Thanks!

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Randall
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posted February 17, 2016 01:13 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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roseelima16
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posted February 17, 2016 04:35 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for roseelima16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Isa:
[B]I like him a lot.
Would it last? I would appreciate any insight.

Thanks!



Hi, Isa!

You both have several angle connections, also Saturn and Pluto contacts which create a binding effect. So considering those features, the relationship definitely has potential to be long lasting and provide growth for both of you.

SYNASTRY
1) Significant aspects:
*Your AC conjunct his Mars: strong sexual attraction specially from his side. He may be very straightforward and go really hard on you (his Mars in Aries). As you are Pisces Ascendant, your gentle nature sometimes can feel his approach as very insistent and raw;
*Your AC conjunct his IC: sense of comfort and security between you. The way you present yourself sounds familiar to him, making him naturally trust you and feel safe with you;
*Your Sun-Mars-DC conjunct his MC: your ideal of how a partner should be matches his public persona. Maybe you admire him for his career, professional life or the way he portrays publicly as a male. You can encourage and help him to accomplish goals and together you can reach a higher social position. Again, lots of attraction going on since his public persona fits what you find attractive in a man (Mars). The attraction is even bigger because your Sun-Mars opposite his Mars (really hot combo for physical attraction and sex). The issue here is that, as a female, you're projecting a lot of your masculine energy (Sun-Mars) onto him (MC); that can create some sort of competition between you;
*Your MC conjunct his Uranus-Saturn: he feels very attracted to the way you portray publicly as well. His Uranus-Saturn combo gives him courage and perseverance to pursue you and also he can be a major force for you to make structured changes in your career. The conjunction happens in Sagittarius so, maybe he'd encourage you to improve your studies or expand your knowledge. Saturn also brings restrictions so he could try to demand impose his belief system onto you (Sagittarius trait);
*Your Mercury-Moon-DC square his Uranus-Saturn: also a binding configuration since his Saturn is linked to your Moon-DC. You seek a partner who you can connect on an emotional and intellectual level. However, the square aspect creates tension between those mutable energies: your combo is in Virgo and his is in Sagittarius, so you could try to look for perfection in the way you relate to him mentally and emotionally, and he probably won't do anything he doesn't really believe in. Sagittarius is philosophical and expansive and Virgo is practical and picky; you can shut down his idealism and optimism and try to bring him to reality and he definitely can refuse to be put inside a box by you. That can create arguments regarding you not feeling appreciated for what you're doing and he can take that as a form of criticism. He could jump off (Uranus) and become self-protective/emotionally distant (Saturn);
*Your Neptune conjunct his AC: there's an aura of enchantment and seduction between you. You get each other on an intuitive level.
*Your Jupiter conjunct his DC: this is very favorable aspect for a committed relationship. He'll probably feel he's blessed and lucky to have you as a partner and in this case those feelings are magnified cause the conjunction happens in Cancer (sign in which Jupiter is exalted).
*Your Pluto sextile his Venus: another binding aspect that speaks for emotional intensity, passionate sex and transformation through the relationship. You'll feel connected to each other on a very profound level. Since you have a Venus-Pluto conjunction in your natal and Pluto is in domicile, it adds more fuel to the fire.
*Your Saturn trine his Venus: this is excellent for durable commitments. I had this in a long term relationship and it was really really binding! Saturn brings structure and stability to Venus and Venus smooth Saturn seriousness. If both planets are in good conditions in the natal charts, this connection creates honesty, trust and durability to the relationship.
*Your Saturn sextile his Pluto: another powerful combination for serious, strong and durable bond in a relationship. If correctly handled you both can accomplish a lot together.

2) Significant house overlays:
*His Mars in your 1st house: you drive him crazy (in a good way!) and he makes you feel very desired;
*His Sun-Mercury in your 7th house: strong compatibility for a natural, supportive, cooperative long term relationship. You probably see him as an ideal mate, lol! Strong physical attraction, very easy communication and intellectual connection between you;
*His Pluto in your 8th house (conjunct your Pluto): high potential for a transformative interaction. Fears, secrets, things you've both been refusing to face will be disclosed little by little through the relationship. Deep, passionate and spiritual sex are associated to this overlay.

3) Significant rulership connections:
*Your 1st house ruler (Neptune) conjunct his AC. This connection links your Ascendant to his (you impact one another on a physical level, strong attraction)
*Your 5th house ruler (Moon) and your 7th house ruler (Mercury) square his Saturn (his 1st house ruler) and Uranus. Your house of love and romance and house of committed partnerships are linked to his planets of courage and commitment (you like each other and there's a mutual desire for a committed relationship based on feelings). This also explains a lot of his attitude towards you: the square aspect creates tension and the energy is directed to action;
*His 1st house ruler (Saturn) conjunct your MC: again admiration and strong identification and desire for commitment from his side;
*His 4th house ruler (Mars) conjunct your AC: besides the strong attraction, you make him feel at home and safe;
*His 5th house ruler (Venus) trine your Saturn and sextile your Pluto: it seems you also want to commit (Saturn) but there's some sort of fear (Pluto). Potential for a very transformative long term relationship. The intensity can be overwhelming for you because your Pluto is really powerful (Pluto in Scorpio in the 8th house).

I got curious to see if you have any Vertex connections cause they create strong electrical attractions. But you didn't add it to your charts, so...

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roseelima16
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posted February 17, 2016 04:39 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for roseelima16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
COMPOSITE

- North Node in Pisces in the 1st house and trine Pluto: the relationship sounds fated and karmic to me. The 1st house ruler (Uranus) is placed in the 11th and conjunct Saturn (the relationship seems to be structured on friendship and Saturn reinforces the idea of a karmic connection);
-Sun in Libra in the 8th house conjunct Venus and Mercury: the relationship is profound and there's a transformation purpose in it. You definitely like each other, are intellectually compatible and tend to cooperate and get along well;
- Moon in Scorpio in the 9th house conjunct Pluto: emotional depth and strong attachment and intimacy are the keywords. The emotional core of the relationship is based on sharing beliefs and discussing ideas. As the Moon is in fall and conjunct Pluto, jealousy and possessiveness based on fears of loss/betrayal can happen if one feels or finds out the other is lying or hiding something. Moon-Pluto sextile Neptune shows psychic link so if there's something wrong, it will be easily felt. Moon sextile Mars-Saturn shows that the emotions you feel can be easily expressed through passionate sex and commitment demonstrativeness from one to another. Moon sextile Uranus shows that you will able to go through difficult times without getting destroyed. If necessary you'll reinvent and restructure the relationship on a new basis. Mars rules the 3rd and is exalted in the 11th house: you can achieve your goals and solve your problems through communication;
- Mercury (R) in Libra the 8th conjunct Sun and Venus: retrograde Mercury can create a lot of misunderstandings and communication problems. Mercury opposite Neptune, Mars-Saturn and Uranus, so unclear, blocked or even disruptive communication are possibilities. But Mercury is in Libra and conjunct Venus (its ruler), and Venus is in domicile so those tendencies are smothered a lot. Venus gives Mercury softness, diplomacy and openness in terms of communication. Also Mercury in the 8th helps a couple to detach emotionally from things they need to discuss, so conversations are deep and tend to go to the core of the matter.
- Venus in Libra in the 9th house opposite Neptune: Venus is powerful in its own sign and placed in the house of Jupiter, you'll probably love philosophical discussions and traveling together. However, Venus opposite Neptune can make one of you see the other as unrealistic sometimes. Misunderstandings and hypersensitivity can be reinforced with this placement, so open communication is crucial to avoid that the fog and unnecessary hurt feelings affect the relationship.
- Jupiter in Gemini in the 5th house trine Sun-Venus: you may like having a lot of fun together and pursuing different hobbies. But too much can create problems for a committed relationship that requires some boundaries. Jupiter opposite Saturn can create a tug of war between entertainment and commitment. Jupiter trine the 7th house ruler (Sun) so infidelity may not be a central issue in this relationship. I'd say the problem would be more related to define when to expand and when to shut down to take things seriously.

Honestly, considering all the connections I saw and that you like him, I'd tell you to give him and yourself a chance!

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todd
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posted February 17, 2016 04:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for todd     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
hi isa

the mars/Saturn conjunction , conjunct the midpoint of Uranus and Neptune is very unstable for a serious relationship. this marks him as one with bright ideas that don't come to fruition. and with mars/Saturn, Uranus's influne3ce would make himtoo independent for commitment. then mercury is square to Neptune, which can show,his words and action may not be the same.

the venus/sun conjunction does show attraction between you, but whether this attraction will overcome his independnet life style is open to question.


there just seem to be too many unknowns and his secretive nature to have a serious relationship.

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Isa
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posted February 18, 2016 12:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Isa     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Rose, I am seriously impressed by your interpretation. Everything rings true. Thank you for taking the time to type all of this. Are you a professional astrologer? THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!

It felt like a roller coaster ride reading Rose and then Todd hahaha

Todd, thanks for your input. I'm going to give him a chance but i'll control my emotions virgo moon style.

You guys are awesome!

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roseelima16
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posted February 18, 2016 01:56 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for roseelima16     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by Isa:
Rose, I am seriously impressed by your interpretation. Everything rings true. Thank you for taking the time to type all of this. Are you a professional astrologer? THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!

It felt like a roller coaster ride reading Rose and then Todd hahaha

Todd, thanks for your input. I'm going to give him a chance but i'll control my emotions virgo moon style.

You guys are awesome!


Hi, Isa! Nope,, I'm not a professional, maybe one day, but for now, Astrology is only a hobby and like many in this forum, I'm learning a lot here. I saw that Todd uses midpoints. I don't cause I'm just starting to study them in a more detailed way. Remember that there's no perfect relationship, there will always be things to be worked out, and love, respect and true commitment to make things work are the real ingredients that make a relationship last in a healthy way. Wish you good luck with your guy and, if possible, it's always good to give us an update. This help us to review mistakes and accurate the readings.

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