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VestasLight
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posted February 28, 2016 01:24 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hoping to hear from anyone who's had hard aspects between Eros and Saturn.

My beau's Eros/Venus conjuncts my Saturn exact and I am seriously wondering if that is having an effect on our sex-life. Of course planets are the first thing to look at. But this seems like my Saturn is choking the life out of his Eros.

(His Eros/Venus is also conjunct my Juno/Alma by one degree)

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comdoc
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posted February 28, 2016 03:32 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for comdoc     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I have this with former sister-in-law. My Eros conjunct her Saturn. We always stayed in her home when we visited former extended family. She was always gracious and accepting to her foreign brother-in-law, despite cross cultural differences. She was wife's favorite sister.

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SunAscendant
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posted February 28, 2016 05:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for SunAscendant     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
An Eros-Saturn conjunction could denote a love/hate situation. His Eros might feel like your Saturn refuses to accept all of the love he has. He feels you might be too closed off about it, but nonetheless still adores your stability and maturity you bring to the relationship. He sees your dominating and authoritative ways sexy.

His Eros right on your Juno is beautiful. Juno not only represents marriage, but also sex. Eros is obviously erotic love/sex; when these two are conjunct in synastry I think it makes for beautiful sex, rather than wham bam thank you ma'am five minute quickie sex lol !

https://starscopestoday.wordpress.com/tag/eros-saturn-synastry/

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VestasLight
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posted February 28, 2016 05:47 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
quote:
Originally posted by SunAscendant:
An Eros-Saturn conjunction could denote a love/hate situation. His Eros might feel like your Saturn refuses to accept all of the love he has. He feels you might be too closed off about it, but nonetheless still adores your stability and maturity you bring to the relationship. He sees your dominating and authoritative ways sexy.

His Eros right on your Juno is beautiful. Juno not only represents marriage, but also sex. Eros is obviously erotic love/sex; when these two are conjunct in synastry I think it makes for beautiful sex, rather than wham bam thank you ma'am five minute quickie sex lol !

https://starscopestoday.wordpress.com/tag/eros-saturn-synastry/


Thank you SunAscendant.

Sadly, I'm not experiencing the Juno/Eros in the way you describe. Maybe it just needs more time to show itself. I think it was IQ who states that these two conjunct are a soul-mate aspect.

I appreciate the alternative view to the Eros/Saturn. That dynamic is playing out, but in reverse.I am the one who is more openly loving and he is dominant, lol.

Something is just off in the sex department and I have a niggling feeling this conjunction has something to do with it.

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VestasLight
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posted February 28, 2016 05:54 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for VestasLight     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I did find this about Eros/Saturn posted by IQ. http://www.linda-goodman.com/ubb/Forum28/HTML/003475.html

It's eerily accurate except for the sex part.

quote:

The conjunction is evidence of a Karmic Soulmate: A Soulmate with whom you have developed so much karmic debt that you have to marry or live together for a few years to pay off the debts. Once the debts are paid, either he will transform into an even more loving person [and enhance the beauty of the relationship] or he will suddenly separate, allowing a better Soulmate into your life.

When Saturn is in aspect to Eros, the opportunity to transform lead to gold may come though the medium of erotic love. This can mix one of the most agonizing experiences with the most exquisite making pain hard to distinguish from the pleasure. When Saturn and Eros meet we come to know the depths of our flaw, usually appearing before the eyes, in full Technicolor, in the form of the beloved other.

Eros conjunct Saturn can suggest difficulty discerning between an experience of erotic attraction and an experience of abject fear. As Eros awakens, so does Saturn and the initial response can range from wise caution to absolute panic. The alarming thing is that Saturn seems to increase, not destroy, our sense of allure to the other. A kind of fascination develops that spirals around a catch 22 that says the closer we get, the more we fear, the stronger the compulsion for closeness. The magnet attunes to captivate someone with a similar flaw and commensurate fears. This alone can produce tremendous pain, and also tremendous growth and understanding.

Eros linked to Saturn by aspect is like the bond between Beauty and her Beast/Prince. At first, she is terrified of the monster in prince’s clothing, yet to save her father, also a symbol of Saturn, she offers herself to the creature. She willingly places herself in the Beast’s powerful domain, determined to protect her father in spite of her overwhelming fears. The conjunct, trine and sextile aspects may highlight this willingness to enter the realm of Saturn through the medium of erotic love. In this story, it is not long before the young maiden sees beauty where others only see retched ugliness.


Anyone personally experience this aspect? Please post. I'd love to hear it!

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ana_bee
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posted October 06, 2020 06:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for ana_bee     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I found something on Wordpress

Eros/Saturn — Saturn teaches Eros about restriction. Eros sees Saturn as a mentor or guardian. The natives both learn to evolve from simple minded desires and they seek new ways to grow and love. This connection involves patience and respect. Both parties transform in a more powerful way than the Pluto connection because it will take many years for the bond to break. The residue follows them even after it all ends.

https://www.google.de/amp/s/cosmicsocialite.wordpress.com/2019/02/01/eros-in-synastry/amp/


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lilithbabe
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posted November 19, 2021 05:29 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for lilithbabe     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
What about the opposition?

Saturn opposite Eros.

Anyone?

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Blue Crystal Storm
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posted January 06, 2024 07:08 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Blue Crystal Storm     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
I am experiencing the opposition right now. Do you have any insight?

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