posted March 08, 2016 02:37 PM            

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
Is it me or are you getting more and more extreme with the DOBs? I don't think you really want to be with a 20-year-old. Not if you want a serious, lasting connection.

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posted March 08, 2016 05:45 PM            

Obviously she has to be attracted to a more mature romantic partner. Otherwise the Law of Attraction is not going to bring us together, as a match. And yes, Saturn IS angular in this composite. I like Father Time longevity benefits.

What you call hypothetical, I call intentional focus and sharing my dream with others. And it's definitely not for entertainment purposes; consider it social networking. The more people who see these birthdates, the more likely a real world connection will manifest.

Of course I'm considering natals and synastry overlays. I posted this composite chart only after hours of research scanning synastry connections over some 50 years of time. Ceri began a wonderful thread that helped me to reconsider midpoint composites related to synastry.

Intuitively I sensed that Moon/Venus and Venus/Mars composite conjunctions correlated with what I'm personally searching for in a lifemate partnership.

This particular candidate appeared with Libra Moon--Venus in my 2nd House.

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:
It's not about the number. It's about what kind of person an average 20-year-old woman is nowadays. I'm assuming you're as mature as a man your age should be. I don't expect people to be conventional, mind you. I said what I said because I think going for someone so young would harm you in the end and likely both of you. Sorry if this offends you but you seem to be a little out of touch with reality. Also, if you insist on sharing your highly hypothetical research (which is most likely futile but hey, you're free to entertain yourself how you want it), natals are the first thing to go to, particularly in your case. If you want someone in her 20s, she better is highly Saturnian.

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posted March 09, 2016 09:27 AM            

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Obviously she has to be attracted to a more mature romantic partner. Otherwise the Law of Attraction is not going to bring us together, as a match.

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And yes, Saturn IS angular in this composite. I like Father Time longevity benefits.

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Of course I'm considering natals and synastry overlays. I posted this composite chart only after hours of research scanning synastry connections over some 50 years of time.

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What you call hypothetical, I call intentional focus and sharing my dream with others. And it's definitely not for entertainment purposes; consider it social networking. The more people who see these birthdates, the more likely a real world connection will manifest.

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Intuitively I sensed that Moon/Venus and Venus/Mars composite conjunctions correlated with what I'm personally searching for in a lifemate partnership.

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This particular candidate appeared with Libra Moon--Venus in my 2nd House.

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posted March 09, 2016 10:42 AM            

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Originally posted by Aunt Anomalia:

"Well, she'd have to not only be attracted to much older men but also be emotionally mature, way more than her peers, if this is supposed to work."

Yes, although I've been in relationships with older women who proved to be emotionally immature.

"Unless you're so desperate for love you're willing to put up with lots of nonsense, then I guess it doesn't matter."

I'm not. In fact, have not much tolerance for relationship games, and am VERY selective. Witness the short list of powerfully resonant candidates that I've posted.

"And let's not forget that after a couple of years she could be a very different person from the one you got involved with, especially if she's more emotion than logic driven. Most people in their early 20s are still confused about who they are and what they want. Also, the reason why she's attracted to older men wouldn't be necessarily healthy. For example, it could be daddy issues. If you ever get to pursue someone this young, I advise you to keep your eyes wide open."

Sound advice. BTW I've already been in a longterm large age gap romantic relationship (former fiance)--so have seen the pitfalls up close and personal.

"As I said, natals first. Is HER Saturn prominent or does she have anything personal in Cap?"

She has Capricorn Uranus+Pluto and Pisces Saturn, both powerfully aspected--and sextile each other. Saturn and Uranus co-rule my Aqua 7th House.

"You may have a seemingly great synastry and composite with someone but if your natal energies are very different, the experience probably wouldn't be as great as you'd expect it to be. You should fulfill her romantic partner profile at least."

I have 3 Gemini planets grouped around her 5H cusp. And my Leo stellium in her 7H.

"This is no dating site but good luck. Just try not to stalk women with "your soulmate charts" "

I understand, and thanks. Large dating sites have no way to post charts--and most would not comprehend them, anyway.

[QUOTE]Intuitively I sensed that Moon/Venus and Venus/Mars composite conjunctions correlated with what I'm personally searching for in a lifemate partnership.

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"These are nice aspects but try to avoid tunnel vision."

Tell me about it! The more I learn about relationship astrology, the more I recognize that individual placements alone do not tell the whole story.

"If you have something personal in Aries, a Libra Moon would be a nice placement to have in a partner."

My Sun and Mercury are in Aries. Libra and Leo Moon are my favorites. Incidentally the two greatest loves of my life have Libra and Leo Moon!

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