posted March 23, 2016 04:16 AM            

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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
What orbs should you use in Venus/Pluto?

I have a Pluto/Venus right now with someone at 7 orb--he's Venus. Does he feel this? (He has Pluto conjunct Venus natally)...

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posted March 23, 2016 07:03 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
It's possible, some people like to use up to 10° for hard aspects. Do you have any other Pluto aspects in synastry or composite/Davison?

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Hi--we do.

Pluto conjunct Moon at 4-5 (don't know his birth time)
..and a few aspects with the outside planets.

Composite:
Pluto conjunct Venus 5 orb
Pluto Square Mars 5 orb

These eclipses have put a real strain on us!

posted March 23, 2016 07:06 PM            

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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
Hi--we do.

Pluto conjunct Moon at 4-5 (don't know his birth time)
..and a few aspects with the outside planets.

Composite:
Pluto conjunct Venus 5 orb
Pluto Square Mars 5 orb

Composite Davidson Corrected:
Pluto Square Moon 9 orb
...and some with the outer planets

These eclipses have put a real strain on us!

Are these being felt? Or too wide?

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posted March 26, 2016 04:14 PM            

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Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
[QUOTE]Originally posted by ScorpieScorp:
[b] Hi--we do.

Pluto conjunct Moon at 4-5 (don't know his birth time)
..and a few aspects with the outside planets.

Composite:
Pluto conjunct Venus 5 orb
Pluto Square Mars 5 orb

Composite Davidson Corrected:
Pluto Square Moon 9 orb
...and some with the outer planets

These eclipses have put a real strain on us!

Are these being felt? Or too wide?

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posted March 26, 2016 08:24 PM            

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Originally posted by LaceyLeigh:
What do you mean by "out weigh"? Which one is stronger? I'd say the opposition would be stronger, but I guess it could play out like the trine in the composite. I believe the composite is said to be how other people see your relationship, so while the Venus/Pluto opposition could possibly be tumultuous/passionate and a bit consuming to the individuals involved, you might play it out so others view it as a flowing, relaxed, slow and simmering type of passion.

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posted May 13, 2016 01:14 PM            

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Originally posted by lhanze:
i had my moon-pluto opposed by someone's venus and his pluto square my venus. no such composite aspects though.

it was the most tormental relationship full of quarells and dissatisfaction. with these aspects should be very careful i think. otherwise this big love that you feel from the beginning turns into hate and mutual humiliation and manipulation..ah

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posted May 13, 2016 02:22 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Venus Pluto opposition can be really challenging because it's heightening certain aspects of your psyche and can blow things out of proportion and make them seem worse than they are or more devious. I recently experienced transiting Venus opposition my Pluto so I was in touch with that energy and it really threw me for a loop for a few days... I can sorta say based on that that I don't particularly favour this particular opposition although I'm sure it could work out differently given different surrounding factors (there was other stuff at play for me as well but this transit was the one I identified as causing my over the top reactions...)

Of course it can also be very attractive magnetic etc etc etc. But I'd be careful with this one.

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posted May 13, 2016 02:26 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
So how do you think the opposition will play out between two people in synastry?

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Exactly what I said: Venus Pluto opposition can be really challenging because it's heightening certain aspects of your psyche and can blow things out of proportion and make them seem worse than they are or more devious.

posted May 13, 2016 02:31 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Exactly what I said: Venus Pluto opposition can be really challenging because it's heightening certain aspects of your psyche and can blow things out of proportion and make them seem worse than they are or more devious.

It can create obsession, and a lack of perspective. There may be a great desire for a person but it is often frustrated or confused by the intensity of the emotion and desire to relate at all costs, which can have the additional effect of clouding rational thought... We might hope for a lot of logical, clear-headed, grounding influences in a synastry which featured this aspect to counteract the unsettling, unbalancing effect of it...

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posted May 13, 2016 04:10 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
I don't know who will feel what or how they'll feel it honestly. It's going to be depending a lot on their charts and what their Venus and Pluto are all about. Pluto is the more likely of the two to feel overwhelmed by the interaction whereas Venus is more like feeling the fatal attraction kinda deal. My guess. But both could feel each of these things. There could be a good deal of repulsion mixed in with the attraction, especially on Pluto's part.

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posted May 13, 2016 04:16 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Nothing is solely sexual... you do need to do other stuff for 99% of the day, and these aspects will still be at play in other areas. If in my Mars square Pluto relationship it had been nothing but sex all would have been fine and dandy. (Unfortunately we also would have killed each other from over exertion). Thing is that kind of energy, while potentially very sexy, also has other consequences and manifestations, and not all of them have anything at all to do with sex...

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posted May 13, 2016 04:17 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Yes I think that it might help some. I mean it isn't inherently bad just overwhelming, the opposition, I think. As one poster said above--consuming. A good word for it. So you need aspects which will give perspective. Something else. The trine will enable the flow of energy between Venus and Pluto in an easier way and make for more harmony and loving vibes but it still carries the Venus Pluto vibration of intensity forward.

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posted May 13, 2016 04:22 PM            

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Originally posted by ChildofVenus:
Ok I just thought there were some aspects that were strictly sexually related.

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posted May 13, 2016 06:22 PM            

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Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
No... they're all multidimensional although lots of things about human nature will boil down to sexuality especially if you're so inclined... especially in a natal chart with libidinous aspects you can be forgiven for thinking so

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