posted March 24, 2016 02:09 AM            

We were comfortable immediately. Able to talk, relate, read, and understand each other effortlessly. So of course, I had to ask him if he knew his birth info. Surprisingly, he knew that he was a Libra on the cusp of Scorpio.

So much Karma though!
His MC square my Asc and conjunct my NN

His Sun on my SN (this is a first for me and boy do I feel it!)

I really, really like him and he seems to enjoy me as well.

What do you think? Match made in heaven? By the way, yes he is technically my boss, but only because he is training me to do what he does.

posted March 24, 2016 08:00 AM            

And business associates! We were teamed up by the big boss of our company to fix the location we were both relocated to. He is also training me in my new position then going to be training me to be his replacement when he moves on.

I feel like we can tackle the world together, though! I'll be sad when he leaves, for sure.

That being said, I was reading that Sun/SN connections could indicate an imbalance in power in a previous encounter. How fitting we be placed as partners to balance that karma out this time around.

And his MC conjunct my NN, him pursuing his path of success helps me either realize my own or at least starts me down the right path.

Add the Sun/Venus Moon/Venus for shared appreciation and ease with each other. The Moon-Moon sextile probably gives that some extra oomph too.

posted March 24, 2016 07:55 PM            

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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
Whoa, I'm a Libra Scorpio cusp (born 1987), named Ben too. My current romantic interest is named Katie as well. Weird...

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That's a very strange coincidence, indeed! I don't think I'm a romantic interest, though

I've barely known him a week so I can't judge that. Plus, I'm married.

posted March 24, 2016 09:19 PM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
That's a very strange coincidence, indeed! I don't think I'm a romantic interest, though

I've barely known him a week so I can't judge that. Plus, I'm married.

If I wasn't, I can't say I wouldn't pusrsue something with him, though. We do get along beautifully.

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Ah ok, gotcha, haha.

posted March 26, 2016 04:19 AM            

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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Moon trine Venus, and Sun conjunct POF look good. I remember reading that the POF represents material prosperity and how we attain it, so it would work good in a business connection. Your Sun is conjunct his POF so your influence would benefit him in some way, which he is likely to appreciate.

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Thanks for looking Lotis!

My influence makes it so he can have a day off Im sure he does appreciate that!

posted March 26, 2016 08:41 AM            

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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
Ah ok, gotcha, haha.

I usually get along with Pisces women, so I'm not surprised!

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Good to know!

I think I may be wrong, too, about not being a romantic interest. I may have to set some firm ground rules. Like no touching

I'm a very loyal person by nature so cheating is not an option or a possibility, but there is definitely physical chemistry between us. Apparently even our employees noticed before I did.. *face palm* I can be a bit oblivious when I'm desperately trying to ignore something.

On another note, I checked a few asteroids, Karma in particular was my focus because of how prominent our past connections are. Annnnnnd his Karma is on my IC. Forming a YOD with my Sun/Moon with his Karma at the apex.

Who is this man!?!? I wish I could remember past lives, I feel like he's been around for a while.

The first day we worked together tKARMA was opposite tJUNO less than one degree.

posted March 28, 2016 11:01 PM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
I'm so screwed.

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posted March 29, 2016 06:57 AM            

I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place :/

posted March 29, 2016 02:40 PM            

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Originally posted by LionFish:
I think my responses on yungang's "Figuring out Juno" post and my one in Soul Unions sum it up pretty well..

I'm stuck between a rock and a hard place :/

If your Katie feels even slightly the way I've started to feel for my Ben, you have nothing to worry about.

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Ah, I see. I'm sorry you're feeling conflicted.

I would be careful here. Being a Libra Sun, he's naturally romantic/flirty/charming. Add in his Pisces moon, and he can be also very empathetic and gentle. I'm not necessarily saying he's being insincere, but that combination seems like he knows the right things to say and can be a good "shoulder-to-cry-on". I'm surprised he's been so upfront about his feelings, not typical of Virgo Venus usually (even with the Aries Mars).

I'm seeing a lot of squares and a couple oppositions (red lines), which can really pack a punch and have umph in the beginning, but can get volatile after time.

I'm not telling you what to do, but if it was me in this situation, I would be careful and not be quick to jump to any decisions. Infatuations can be confusingly deceptive.

posted April 24, 2016 11:49 PM            

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Originally posted by CosmiqPhuz:
Ah, I see. I'm sorry you're feeling conflicted.

I would be careful here. Being a Libra Sun, he's naturally romantic/flirty/charming. Add in his Pisces moon, and he can be also very empathetic and gentle. I'm not necessarily saying he's being insincere, but that combination seems like he knows the right things to say and can be a good "shoulder-to-cry-on". I'm surprised he's been so upfront about his feelings, not typical of Virgo Venus usually (even with the Aries Mars).

I'm seeing a lot of squares and a couple oppositions (red lines), which can really pack a punch and have umph in the beginning, but can get volatile after time.

I'm not telling you what to do, but if it was me in this situation, I would be careful and not be quick to jump to any decisions. Infatuations can be confusingly deceptive.

As for me, I hope you're right, haha! Although, we've got some heavy karmic aspects going on though, including my Venus square her Saturn closely...

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Thank you for your concern

I have been being very careful as far as letting the relationship develop. I tried to not let it happen at all. And yes, he has that dang natural Libra charm. Combined with that Pisces Moon and his Aries Mars, he is just the right amount of charm, drive, and compassion.

And yes he has these things for everyone, not just me. The amount of attention he showers on me is the difference. And he can't help himself. All he wants, every day, is to see me smile because it breaks his heart to see me upset.

I agree that it's a bit odd for Virgo Venus to be so upfront with their feelings, but i think that is overridden by my Sun/his Moon in each other's 8th houses. It created such an urgent need for intimacy and since it can't be physical intimacy, it turned into emotional intimacy. He can't walk by me without brushing against me or flipping my ponytail and telling me either how wonderful he thinks I am or tease me into chasing him down for revenge for whatever he may have said.

Yes, we have a squares and opposiitions, but we also have some really beautiful conjunctions Sun/Moon (5 degrees), Venus/Mars (wide but I count it because it's part of a DW), His Sun on my SN amd his mC on my NN.

Along with quite possibly my favorite aspect I've ever experienced, Moon trine Venus. His Venus my Moon. It's so nice to have someone actually care about my feelings with so much tenderness and attentiveness. My happiness makes him happy and my dark moods make him fret and worry. I don't think I've ever had someone put me first the way he does. Like, ever.

I understand the Karma thing.
His MC/IC axis squares my ASC/DSC almost exact. And his Sun squares it from his IC. My NN/SN on his MC/IC, his NN square my vertex exact. His Karma forms the apex of a YOD with my Sun/Moon with his Karma on my IC.

And how lovely that 2 signs supposed to be quincunx form a biquintile aspect instead? We were working side by side one day and just giving each other play crap like we do and one of our employees overheard. He told us we needed to learn to get along. I, still being feisty, said "NEVER gonna happen" He, taking his feelings ever so seriously for me, said "I think the problem is that we get along TOO well so there's no hesitation to say exactly what's going through our heads. At least me anyway." And did this adorable little shrug thing and went back to working.

We each complete each other's t-squares. My Sun/Mars to his Venus, his Venus/Moon to my Mars. Hows that for Yin/Yang? Lol I love it. I love the affinity between our Suns and Moons. Venus/Neptune ruled for both of us, but him the masculine Venus ruled Sun in Libra with my feminine Venus ruled Moon in Taurus..

We took a drive the other day just to get him away from work for a bit and to grab me different shoes. Even taken out of our regular environment, he is completely enraptured by me. I don't know why lol he tells me everything. And I love it. Even the things that some people might see as mundane make me happy to learn about him.

When he was taking me home last night after work, I mentioned that I have the most amazing best friends ever and he interjected with "Like me?" And man I swear if I had said anything but yes (it would have been a lie first off lol) it would have totally crushed him. I could hear it. I told him, Yes, like you. He smiled and touched my cheek then went back to driving. My skin was on fire where he touched me. I couldn't talk after that. He loves it when he can do things like that, that leave me speechless or swooning.

I don't know what it is, if anything, but I have no intention ignoring it. Especially after having asked for a divorce.