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Einfühlung
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From: Lily of The Valley
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posted March 27, 2016 10:38 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Einfühlung     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hello LL, it's been awhile (Or not. Feels like years to me, lol) Still busy will college but found some time and purpose to post something on here.

Below is a synastry chart of me and my colleague. I need some clarification of why I feel like this man is my twinflame or something very karmic. I have never felt this connection with someone before. I'm noticing a grand trine and mystic rectangle. As I recall, those are soul mate patterns right? And does he feel the same about me?

Here's a little story about why I feel he might be my twinflame:
So, I met him in fall 2014. I knew from first meeting a weird warm feeling formed inside me, and that it must have meant something, but I didn't think much about because I wanted to concentrate on school. We didn't communicate at all in the beginning, but it felt like we already knew each other so no words needed to be said. Gradually we started to communicate more, and it became more apparent that our meeting together meant something significant in our lives. We're so in sync-- we say things at the same time, yawn at the same time, move at the same time, most of the time we get each other. It's kind of scary. And now I like him, a lot. All preconceived notions about me never forgetting about my ex is long gone. My head is filled with thoughts about this person. It was only after working together as a team on a project for a month and then finishing it and not seeing each other again for a week was when I started to miss him really bad, and realized that I really like him.

I really like being around him, but now that I know I like him I get nervous and sometimes don't know what to say to him. At the end of 2016 we'll be graduating, I feel we will part ways after that. So I am just enjoying this for now and see where this goes. Starting tomorrow we'll be teaming up again for a project, I'm really looking forward to it.

I'm outside and he's inside:

He's top and I'm left:


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Randall
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posted March 28, 2016 02:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Randall     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
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Faith
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posted March 29, 2016 03:31 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Faith     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Hi, I remember you

I read this and thought you two may have Mars conjunct Mars:

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We're so in sync-- we say things at the same time, yawn at the same time, move at the same time, most of the time we get each other. It's kind of scary.

And you do!

I'm no Twin Flame expert, but here's another bump in case TF detectives want to take a look.

I do like the Grand Trine and Mystic Rectangle in the synastry.

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Einfühlung
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From: Lily of The Valley
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posted April 02, 2016 05:45 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for Einfühlung     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Anybody here a twinflame expert or can tell me more about this synastry?

Hey Faith, thanks for the reply! You've helped me through my tough time. I'm really thankful for that.
Yeah Mars conjunct mars makes sense with us doing the same things at the same time, even with it being a wide aspect. But I don't really know his birth time so the aspect might be closer. Hopefully he'll know when I ask him.

*edit* I played around with his birth time and the aspect stayed the same. It's crazy how wide this aspect has a strong effect on us.

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margym0o
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posted April 05, 2016 10:24 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for margym0o     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
In my opinion, the Mars conj. Mars may be a tad too wide to REALLY feel it that strongly. What I think is the culprit is the Moon/Neptune DW you share. This aspect is notoriously known for eerie synchronicities and psychic feelings between people.

I'm no expert but what jumps out at me right away is there are holes here. Your Sun, Venus and Mars (if you don't count the wide conj.) are not majorly aspected and neither is his Mars or Saturn/Uranus. Your Moon is getting a lot of good vibes here - from his Neptune, Venus and Mercury with the intensity of Pluto thrown in AND sits on his ASC so it is no wonder he is stirring something strong deep within you.

I'm not sure if the holes would show themselves over time or if there are other factors to compensate for this. The patterns are nice to have however they don't always spell a fulfilling long-term romantic relationship.

I share these patterns (and more) with a man who is and always will be a very important person who has helped me in my life journey, but we were not meant to be romantically together. It took me a while to come to terms with what these feelings meant because I could not rationalize why I felt this way about a MAN in a such a strong yet 'platonic' sense but I now understand that sometimes a soul will come along (in a male or female body) that is put on your path for a reason, whatever that reason may be.

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athenegoddess
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posted April 05, 2016 01:30 PM     Click Here to See the Profile for athenegoddess     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
You don't just 'think' you met your twin flame.You will know you met them if you are ready to ascend to higher levels. If not you haven't met and aren't ready to meet them yet.

Twin Flame relationships are not to be taken lightly and aren't simply based on friendship and commonalities.

But one synastry marker for twin flames is Venus/Pluto DW.

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Einfühlung
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From: Lily of The Valley
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posted April 07, 2016 02:19 AM     Click Here to See the Profile for Einfühlung     Edit/Delete Message   Reply w/Quote
Thank you, margym0o and athenegoddess for your answers. Margym0o I'm glad you shared what you experienced. I've been feeling pretty bummed because it feels like he and I won't be anything more, and you pretty much clarified it for me. I shouldn't be hoping but I can't fight my feelings for him. I still want him in my life so I'm okay with being platonic friends... I think.... Well, sadly, probably not. The Moon opposition Pluto synastry I'm wary of and can feel its effects, and it's true when you break up you can't go back to the way things were. I've had this aspect with my ex too, so it's like history repeating itself.

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