|
Author
|
Topic: Venus square uranus synastry question
|
madelineleo23
Knowflake Posts: 207
From:
Registered: Jun 2015
|
posted March 29, 2016 12:03 AM
  
-IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 3014
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
|
posted March 29, 2016 05:07 AM
I wouldn't feel so secure that he is not going anywhere if I was you:P He is the one with venus opposite his natal uranus, this is a huge red flag that a guy is flighty in a relationship and wants his freedom. He will probably always be like this, so either you learn to relax in such a relationship or it's not gonna work out.... believe me, I have so much experience in this area!!You seem to have some good aspects together, but I would have to see his full chart to say something really intelligent about him as a person... (or you) And yes, you can have the trine and opposition at the same time. I had the sextile and square with my ex-boyfriend, and he had the square as well in his natal. This often means that you have an original and very flighty relationship at the same time. The relationship could never stand being "normal" or "traditional" in any way. It can also means that you're gonna be a lot away from eachother physically (because one has to travel or work or etc) or it can be mentally (you disappear on each other or you're not feeling the same at the same time) It's one of the worst aspects to have, apart from venus square saturn, because it's about distance, instability and all these things you normally cant handle in an intimate relationship. It works GREAT in romance and its always the first meeting thats gonna stand out. Believe me, the first "in love" periode is going to be the best, the rest is going to be cr** just saying... I've been there, so I'm a bit pessimistic these days !!!
IP: Logged |
madelineleo23
Knowflake Posts: 207
From:
Registered: Jun 2015
|
posted March 29, 2016 08:21 AM
-IP: Logged |
Spongebob
unregistered
|
posted March 29, 2016 10:44 AM
If youre both Uranian itll be fine cuz this dynamic is what you need anyways, so lets putnthe doomsday scenarios to bed right NOW. Thanks.IP: Logged |
missblyss
Knowflake Posts: 897
From:
Registered: May 2016
|
posted March 29, 2016 11:24 AM
I have to reply to this, please don't give up on this just because someone told you that he may run. I have a venus sq uranus in my natal chart and I really do well when there are venus/uranus aspects in the relationship. I NEED that. I tend to be "the man" in relationships, with the dudes I'm with getting too clingy and attached so when I find a man that isn't like that it is wonderful. I was married to a man and with him continuously for four years and we had venus/uranus in our synastry.IP: Logged |
next to neptune
Knowflake Posts: 3014
From: The Moon
Registered: Aug 2013
|
posted March 29, 2016 11:56 AM
quote:
Originally posted by madelineleo23:
Wow....this is really sad to hear  I guess I should just give up completely. May I ask who decided to end things/what was the final icing on the cake?
I think your chart looks great together though, and you have an aquarius moon so this would probably make you much more comfortable in a flighty/distant relationship... My ex was the one who ended things with me, I think emotionally he stepped out of the relationship a long time before he actually broke up... IP: Logged |
madelineleo23
Knowflake Posts: 207
From:
Registered: Jun 2015
|
posted March 29, 2016 03:41 PM
Yeah I've always read that this aspect is doomed...it's extremely discouraging. I can't help but think of this aspect whenever we go through these "breaks". I'm trying to be positive though...because freedom is important to me (moon in aqua, sag rising). I can be extremely flighty so I understand. IP: Logged |
ChildofVenus
Knowflake Posts: 1387
From: Customer Service Rep.
Registered: Apr 2015
|
posted March 29, 2016 07:53 PM
I have Venus square Uranus and Venus quincunx uranus in synastry with someone. He's the Venus person in the square to Uranus and I'm the Venus in the quincunx. But I have Venus square Uranus in my natal chart. So does that mean I would be able to handle the quincunx aspect in synastry? He has Venus sextile Saturn in his natal I've read that aspect makes a person more committed when it comes to relationships. Well that they hang in there for the long haul. madelineleo23 I have both Venus square Uranus and Venus square Saturn in my natal chart. And I was in a relationship with someone for nine years. However I did like having my space I'm just saying this just to say that just because he has this aspect doesn't mean he will just up and leave. You should look at his other placements as well. I have Venus in Pisces so even though I have those hard aspects to my Venus when I really care about someone It's hard for me just to up and leave them. IP: Logged |
madelineleo23
Knowflake Posts: 207
From:
Registered: Jun 2015
|
posted March 29, 2016 09:27 PM
I have venus square saturn in my natal chart too. How might this help the venus square uranus in synastry? Thank you for your positive words. He has venus in cancer so he is sensitive and nurturing. I don't know if his venus placement would make it hard for him to up and leave though. IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
Knowflake Posts: 4113
From: love lives forever
Registered: Mar 2014
|
posted March 29, 2016 09:29 PM
quote:
Originally posted by Spongebob:
If youre both Uranian itll be fine cuz this dynamic is what you need anyways, so lets putnthe doomsday scenarios to bed right NOW. Thanks.
IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
Knowflake Posts: 4113
From: love lives forever
Registered: Mar 2014
|
posted March 29, 2016 09:32 PM
quote:
Originally posted by madelineleo23:
Yeah I've always read that this aspect is doomed...it's extremely discouraging. I can't help but think of this aspect whenever we go through these "breaks". I'm trying to be positive though...because freedom is important to me (moon in aqua, sag rising). I can be extremely flighty so I understand.
Dooooon't be discouraged!!! Yes this aspect exemplified periods of hot and cold and YES you will feel uncertain at times but you've described the wuintessential requirements for this type of thing working perfectly in your OP. You two are the right candidates for exactly the kind of relationship you have. You need your freedom; so does he. You know he'll always be there as long as you let him go. That's the trick with Uranus. Live and love in the moment; that's all you'll ever have. I mean sure some people have commitment and know their partner will be home at 4:46 pm but do you want that? Really truly Uranus seems to teach us the lesson of being here now. Be here now, always. Keep on relating positively when you can. Don't try to force it to be what it's not. Accept it for the beautiful unique thing that it is. Of course your friends don't get it! It's hard to understand the beauty of a Uranian relationship. They don't run the normal course and weren't meant to. Can you post the composite maybe? If you feel like it..
IP: Logged |
madelineleo23
Knowflake Posts: 207
From:
Registered: Jun 2015
|
posted March 29, 2016 09:58 PM
This made me feel better. Thank you. Honestly no I don't want to know that my partner will be home at 4:46 every day. Because I'm not that type of person. I'm unpredictable. Here is our composite report: Jupiter Sextile Pluto orb: 0 °
Jupiter Square North Node orb: 1 °
Uranus Conjunction Neptune orb: 1 °
Venus Conjunction Chiron orb: 1 °
Saturn Trine Ascendant orb: 1 °
Neptune Sextile Pluto orb: 2 °
Mercury Sextile Chiron orb: 2 °
Jupiter Trine Neptune orb: 2 °
North Node Sextile Ascendant orb: 3 °
Uranus Sextile Pluto orb: 3 °
Mercury Sextile Venus orb: 3 °
Saturn Square Pluto orb: 3 °
Jupiter Trine Uranus orb: 3 °
Venus Trine North Node orb: 3 °
Saturn Sextile North Node orb: 4 °
Neptune Square Ascendant orb: 4 °
Venus Square Pluto orb: 4 °
Moon Opposition Mars orb: 4 °
Sun Conjunction Mars orb: 4 °
North Node Trine Chiron orb: 4 °
Uranus Square Ascendant orb: 5 °
Venus Sextile Ascendant orb: 6 °
Mercury Square Jupiter orb: 7 °
Venus Opposition Saturn orb: 7 °
Moon Conjunction Uranus orb: 7 °
Sun Opposition Moon orb: 8 °
Moon Conjunction Neptune orb: 8 ° IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
Knowflake Posts: 4113
From: love lives forever
Registered: Mar 2014
|
posted March 29, 2016 10:03 PM
Lookin' A-OK!IP: Logged |
madelineleo23
Knowflake Posts: 207
From:
Registered: Jun 2015
|
posted March 29, 2016 10:11 PM
quote:
Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Lookin' A-OK!
Really? Is there anything good that stands out? IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
Knowflake Posts: 4113
From: love lives forever
Registered: Mar 2014
|
posted March 29, 2016 10:12 PM
I  Venus square Pluto...Saturn trine Ascendant is nice for stability. Sensing the identity of the relationship is safe and well grounded, easy and flowing. Venus trine North Node is sweet and romantic. IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
Knowflake Posts: 4113
From: love lives forever
Registered: Mar 2014
|
posted March 29, 2016 10:17 PM
Maybe it's from either side but it looks like it could almost be a North Node-Venus-Chiron grand trine? That's saweeeeet. True love--if we're isolating aspects. It's really really hard to get a feel for it without seeing thechart though I'm afraid. Edit: oh i see now that it's Venus conjunct Chiron... I think that's nice. It's not likely to be a light relationship though, it's not just a fly by night thing. There's real care and vulnerability there. Saturn square Pluto could be problematic. I guess that's a Venus-Saturn-Pluto t-square--but again it's really hard for me to read a chart by a list so my reading sucks lol..
IP: Logged |
madelineleo23
Knowflake Posts: 207
From:
Registered: Jun 2015
|
posted March 29, 2016 10:21 PM
quote:
Originally posted by yungang_grotto:
Maybe it's from either side but it looks like it could almost be a North Node-Venus-Chiron grand trine? That's saweeeeet. True love--if we're isolating aspects. It's really really hard to get a feel for it without seeing thechart though I'm afraid.
Wow really? Here is our chart (hopefully this is a good picture) if not i can try another website. Sorry I'm still learning so much about astrology. I wish I knew more than I currently know. Is there anything that raises a red flag? I don't see the venus opp uranus in the composite. Why is that? Basically is there anything that shows that he's not going to up and leave forever? Is there anything that indicates he will always be in my life?  IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
Knowflake Posts: 4113
From: love lives forever
Registered: Mar 2014
|
posted March 29, 2016 10:32 PM
Sorry, it seems to me that astrology can't ever truly answer that question no matter how much we pore over charts or how expert we become, although there are indicators which point to longevity and solidity. What I said about Saturn trine composite Ascendant is true. It's not crazy glue but it indicates a healthy sense of the identity of your relationship being quite stable and easy..Saturn square Pluto indicates that trying too hard to hold onto it may be the very thing which threatens the stability of the union... We have to be careful with Pluto as it generally carries this warning; in T-square with Venus it is showing us your fears of losing this romance due to instability may itself be a destabilizing force (on this thread you're saying you'd end it just because your fears are confirmed, which position this aspect supports). Saturn-Pluto has a hard time building things but they're gonna be pretty solid if they make it through IP: Logged |
madelineleo23
Knowflake Posts: 207
From:
Registered: Jun 2015
|
posted March 29, 2016 10:39 PM
Thank you for all of your help. I truly appreciate it. Going to keep the positive vibes flowing and just take life day by day. IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
Knowflake Posts: 4113
From: love lives forever
Registered: Mar 2014
|
posted March 29, 2016 10:40 PM
Jupiter sextile Pluto though is not to be underestimated because Jupiter-Pluto can make you feel like you can do just about anything... the quincunx between Jupiter and Saturn is a hard aspect though you see.... The desire to be excited and expansive is in conflict with the need to restrict, define, and hold onto certain ways of being... they don't comprehend one another in this relationship. It's a very stop and go scenario... you never know which way is up from one day to the next. I have my Jupiter quincunx somebody's Saturn in synastry and am feeling the difficulty keenly. Reconciling these two planetary energies would be a constant adjustment and it seems it might be difficult to ever have a sense that things are really exactly as fun or as serious as you'd like them to be... that feeling you're seeking of things being set in stone with this aspect at play may be hard to come by here. What I said before still holds true; enjoy the moment; these difficulties may plague you but take heart as you're experiencing a profound loving experience which is an opportunity for growth and expansion. IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
Knowflake Posts: 4113
From: love lives forever
Registered: Mar 2014
|
posted March 29, 2016 10:42 PM
quote:
Originally posted by madelineleo23:
Thank you for all of your help. I truly appreciate it. Going to keep the positive vibes flowing and just take life day by day.
 happy if i could help at all. Enjoy! IP: Logged |
EmGem
Knowflake Posts: 1737
From:
Registered: Jan 2015
|
posted March 30, 2016 04:39 AM
lol @ 4:46pm  So, how about if your relationship is both URANIAN and PLUTONIAN????? that's some screwy schizo s**t right there. how to cope? IP: Logged |
madelineleo23
Knowflake Posts: 207
From:
Registered: Jun 2015
|
posted April 02, 2016 12:12 PM
-IP: Logged |
Lindaland
UBBFriend: Email This Page to Someone! 
