posted April 06, 2016 05:12 PM            

There's a guy at work who's like a total opposite of me (appearance wise as well as interest/view on life). I don't know where to start..
I've 'known' him for almost 2 years, but I've never talked to him. He has a very coldish vibe in a sense that he doesn't approach people, unless they approach him first or he sees something interesting in that person which makes it worth it approaching him/her I guess? (This is why I think he's a Scorpio or Virgo rising btw). Even though he's a good looking person, I didn't really feel the need or interest to talk to him just because of this vibe he radiates.

Anyway, fast forward to present time. We're now working closer to eachother because of some renovation in the building so I see him a few times in a week and I don't know how but SOMEHOW we recently ended up talking to eachother. And since then, he approaches me quite often to just have a talk (which ends up being longer than expected) which my colleagues then comment on. They say things like 'get a room'. Pretty awkward... lol.

I really, really like talking to him. The conversation just runs smoothly. Not only that, but I like how every conversation we have is about something deep, like religion or biology. (I personally don't feel comfortable talking about superficial stuff, even if I don't really know the person? Is that weird? Must be my 8th house Sun)
But here's the catch: he sees life differently than I do. I'm religious. He's not.
Also... he grew up in a very different culture than I grew up in. He's East-European and I'm Middle-Eastern. hehe. I'm a bit conservative, he doesn't seem like that.

Even though I see these things as major differences, I notice that I'm kinda obsessing over him. Well, obsessing is a big word, more like, I've been thinking about him frequently but I don't know why? Maybe because he's so different than I am? (My Venus in 9th house trait?)
He's not the typical guy I find interesting. He has an athletic build, has blond hair and blue eyes whereas I tend to dream about the typical rugged, dark haired guy with brownish skin and brown eyes.

Okay I wrote a whole book here.... I hope someone will go through it and give me more insight in the synastry.

Can you see in the synastry why I like him?
PS. I'm on the inside, he's on the outside. I gave him a Scorpio ASC. It could also be Virgo.. not sure.

Two things that stood out to me were: DW Sun opposite Venus and his South Node tightly conjuncting my Venus.

posted April 07, 2016 08:02 PM            

the composite has a very loving venus/moon conjunction opposed to the sun. this certainly brings the mutual attraction.
the sextile trine to the node/Uranus/Neptune stellium brings the inspired conversations that can range from idealism and fantasy to realism and visionary ideas. aspect gives a underlying psychic connection that draws you to similar ideas and thoughts.
themerciru opposi0tonto Jupiter gives the long and constant conversations.it show both of you have many ideas and much intellectual energy. with pluto forming a tsquare, you words quickly turn to deep amd profound ideas. It is interesting that you get along so well as pluto often brings unconscious difference that can cause deep mental gulfs and silence at times. This aspic also show syou both are ambitious and driven to make the most of your professional life.this aspect is not particularly good for a lasting romantic relationship(in spite of the Venus/moon conjunction) because your separate lives and goals are more important that emotional connection. the mercury square to pluto specifically indicated some hidden differences and ideas and thoughts to personal to share.

posted April 08, 2016 03:12 PM            

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Originally posted by Bearee:
Thank you very much todd!!
Very interesting how you can see our communication style in the composite. But, I always thought the composite is supposed to be looked at when two people are together for a longer period of time... I thought the composite didn't really show much for people who're not together or don't really interact a lot with eachother. Am I wrong?

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you may not be wrong but the books your have read are wrong.

it all depends on the theory you use. no book on astrology is absolute. astrology depends on one's personal experiences.

my theory is that a composite is the mathematical representation of the intersection of each individuals auras or astral identities.

posted April 08, 2016 04:24 PM            

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Originally posted by todd:
you may not be wrong but the books your have read are wrong.

it all depends on the theory you use. no book on astrology is absolute. astrology depends on one's personal experiences.

my theory is that a composite is the mathematical representation of the intersection of each individuals auras or astral identities.

the offshoot of this viewpoint is that every person has a preexisting composite with every other person whether you meet them or not. it is pure rubbish to say that a composite does not exist unless you have a relationship. composites are a mathematical creation which exist a priori .
this is why one can run a composite for any moment. the birth moment or an moment chart with a person.
remember astrology is not written in books,it is written in the celestial sphere.
todd

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Very interesting viewpoint @Todd, thanks so much for sharing it here!!!
Btw, if Bearee pardons my irrelevant question, what's your opinion about draconics? Since they are counted from the nodes and hide another mathematical dimension behind them?

@Bearee, sorry for intruding, but I had to thank Todd for that and ask him one question, lol! Good luck with your exotic interest!