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Topic: Uranian Synastry
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athenaia
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posted April 24, 2016 07:28 PM
  
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mar1982delta
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posted April 24, 2016 08:01 PM
Hi athenaia, I have read that prominent uranus in a synastry could point out to long-distance relationships (hence the amount of freedom and space lol), plus relationships with social, cultural etc. background differences, too. Like a relationship with a foreigner, someone that doesn't have the same origin/nationality as you etc.
I have some uranus aspects in my synastry, too. His Uranus trines my Sun, Mercury and Dsc. I have Uranus trine Sun exact, trine Merc and Dsc, too. He is an Aqua. We aren't in a relationship, so in one way or the other the uranian quality is there, lol. 
But, since I have uranus trine sun, merc., dsc natally, a lot of people that are around my age (he is 2,5 years older) will trine my sun etc with their uranus, too. For example, my ex who was the same age with me. We were in a relationship for 7 years and I can't say that uranus affected it SO much. We had some social-economic background difference though..so I guess only one aspect can't explain the whole thing..
I will try and see if I can come up with something else apart what I mentioned in the beginning for what strong uranus in synastry stands for..  IP: Logged |
yungang_grotto
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posted April 24, 2016 08:32 PM
I have begun to see Uranus, essentially, as representative of full presence in the eternal Now, as the electrifying awareness and inspiration borne of full presence in the present moment. It can also be a future oriented planet--or seem to be if we're looking at time in a linear way-but really it distills the essence of things so we're looking at EXACTLY what's there and that's telly pretty blisteringly exciting, bar none... Anything not in keeping with the dynamic and ever changing essence of things being felt by the world-soul or individual soul will not be tolerated by Uranus or those under its influence... hence erratic seeming behaviour, bucking societal norms, etcetera. Uranus really seems to portend the potency of life experience being lived out in the present tense. Uranian relationships, then, have a profound sense of Here and Now. They advise us to live in the moment when Uranus comes to call by transit; not to hold onto things too tightly. Truly this is always good advice but Uranus brings with its blessing the ability to really feel that THIS IS IT! Which is great for romance and this is why new relationships often start with a connection between Uranus and Venus by transit, I think. IP: Logged |
outofideas
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posted April 25, 2016 05:31 AM
My past relationship could be a good example of an Uranian relationship.
We are both Aquarius Ascendants, angles closely conjunct.
Many Uranus aspects in synastry, mostly squares (with Venus, Saturn, Jupiter, ASC), 2 oppositions to my Moon and Jupiter, 2 sextiles, double whammy semi-square with Mercury...
In the composite our Ascendant is Aquarius, of course, Uranus tighly conjunct Mercury
He is 8 years older, from a different cultural background, the relationship was made difficult due to our parents not quite supporting it. We were often forced to spend most of our time together outside, in the car, many times hiding from parents, or with their disapproval, especially his mother's.Strong Uranian contacts within a relationship are meant to bring (sudden) change within the lives of the people involved, which is exactly what happened with us. These relationships are known as on-off because the people are brought together when change of the ordinary is necessary, so separations and reunions are common. We experienced many unforeseen challanges and changes which ultimately changed our views and perspectves on life and forced us out of our rut. We did separate and kept brief long-distance contact for a year or so, then came back together only to separate again, which once more forced my life on to a different, than expected, direction. IP: Logged |
Lotis White
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posted April 25, 2016 06:06 AM
There used to be a frequent poster on this site called YoursTruelyAlways. I did a reading for him a few years back...He and his wife of about 20 years had Venus tightly conjunct Uranus in synastry. From what he communicated to me, and in general on the site, the strong Uranus manifested in a number of ways... For one, he and his wife were an odd couple. She was a white Southern Belle from the South in the US, and he was an Asian immigrant. I think interracial relationships do tend to have a Uranian quality to them because of how the couple stands out.
Secondly, their relationship started very quickly in whirlwind romance type scenario. I think they literally got married after only a few months of dating (but so far, they've stayed together for a long time). Sudden events, like a lightening flash, are also a Uranus theme. Other then this stuff, their relationship is the traditional monogamous marriage though. So don't be scared off by Uranus synastry if this is what you want. The craziness of the Uranus synastry is not always about 'open relationships' or any of that. Sometimes it's just that the couple is an unusual match, or that they got together in extraordinary circumstances, or very quickly (lightening flash love). IP: Logged |
margym0o
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posted April 25, 2016 09:05 AM
I have Venus/Uranus DW in my synastry (opp. and trine) and in our case, I think it manifested in us coming together very quickly. We met online and became an official couple only a few weeks later (which was over 2 years ago). There is a strong underlying current of commitment/stability in our relationship though we do have our moments where we take a step back to breathe after a period of intensity (we have a lot of Pluto contacts as well) - a mild "boomerang" effect perhaps.IP: Logged |
12muddy
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posted April 25, 2016 09:23 AM
Relationships where they got together quickly, or in strange circumstances...etc... I suppose online dating, or long distance relationship can be included (?)For my s.o and I (we both have a fair bit of uranus influence in the chart, but it's not the dominant influence though). He has moon/mars/venus square uranus. I have moon square uranus, venus/sun/merc conj uranus. Well our story is a bit complicated and it smells of karma and saturn. But yeah when it happened, it happened fast. I knew about him through a friend. He knew about me for god knows how long. We talked and fell in love. I packed my stuff and flew over to him (we lived in different countries at the time) after a few months. Lots of abrupt changes, lots of moving, travelling, no wedding no wearing rings...etc.. In the years we've been together, we have had to live apart a few times due to circumstances and whatnot. But other than those, our relationship is quite normal imo. Committed. Monogamous. We do funny weird things when we're together. My parents' marriage was kinda similar. They also have a fair bit of aqua and uranus in their natal chart. It was a love marriage, considering their upbringing and the "world" they lived in, it was unusual. Mother was adamant of staying single and denied all the matches. Dad was the same. They got married at 27/28 and 37/38 respectively. Met, fell in love after the first fight. Got married a few months later. It was somewhat a scandal at the time because their families opposed the marriage. There were lots of funny stuff, like mom refusing to wear traditional attires. Rocked up to the ceremony wearing a knee-length, v neck silvery dress, high heels and red lipstick. I had her last name, instead of his. They moved a lot. Never liked staying in one place. Their marriage lasted until dad passed away. IP: Logged |
Ceridwen
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posted April 25, 2016 09:45 AM
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Other then this stuff, their relationship is the traditional monogamous marriage though. So don't be scared off by Uranus synastry if this is what you want. The craziness of the Uranus synastry is not always about 'open relationships' or any of that. Sometimes it's just that the couple is an unusual match, or that they got together in extraordinary circumstances, or very quickly (lightening flash love).
my parents have their fair share of Uranian synastry as well, and well there was no on-off-vibe between them in any way. They hit it off, they got engaged, they got married and stayed married until now (44 years later I think).
They might be an extraordinary couple in that they took my aunt as sort of foster-child in (but that was almost tradition in both families. lol), and my middle brother has the Down syndrome, so that definitely is an Uranian symbolism, and they owned that URanianness by founding and becoming sort of leading personalities in non profit organizations caring for mentally handicapped people, in very practical terms (living conditions, integration into society etc.). Astrologically speaking, my Dad has Sun, Venus, Jupiter in Aquarius; uranus in 10th house.
My Mom has Uranus conjunct ASC (and both have it aspecting BML btw)
my Dad`s Uranus:
trine her Sun (1)
square her Moon (3)
quintile her Mars (0)
opposite her Chiron (2)
square her Jupiter (4)
my Mom`s Uranus:
quintile his Moon (0)
opposite his Mercury (4)
quinkunx his Venus (0)
square his Mars (4)
quinkunx his Jupiter (1)
square his Neptune (3)
square his Nodes (4)
quintile his BML (0)
The major things here might be his Uranus making a T-square with her natal Moon-Chiron-square.
And of course his Venus-Jupiter-conjunction becoming the Apex of a Yod, based on her Uranus-ASC sextile Venus-Mars.
Their composite has Uranus in 11th house widely conjunct Moon in 12th house, and that Uranus being in a close Grand trine with Jupiter in Pisces in 8th house and Juno in Scorpio in 4th house.
Their Davison chart has Uranus in 11th house as well conjunct Antivertex and opposing Mercury in 5th house
(interestingly conjunct my brother`s Mercury-Mars-conjunction and it definitely are children and also educational things and thoughtpatterns that are uranian about them.)
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Faith
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posted April 25, 2016 11:07 AM
My husband and I are super Uranian! Tons of Uranus contacts in synastry, plus the composite has Uranus conjunct Pluto at the base of a kite. (Uranus exactly sextile composite Juno-Mars, on the ASC.)When we got together (first date):
My pr sun 8.59 Aqua
Tr Uranus 8.49 Aqua
on my natal DSC 7 Aqua His pr ASC 8.04 Leo
His pr Uranus 9.44 Leo
on his natal sun, 7 Leo There's a lot more to it, but I tend to be vague about his chart for privacy's sake. I mention our first date because we got engaged before our second date (via IM...so fitting for Uranus!) We have:
- a big age difference
- different ethnic, religious, cultural backgrounds
- the fact that we are about as different as night and day Please don't quote IP: Logged |
DopGang
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posted April 25, 2016 11:52 AM
quote:
Originally posted by Lotis White:
There used to be a frequent poster on this site called YoursTruelyAlways. I did a reading for him a few years back...He and his wife of about 20 years had Venus tightly conjunct Uranus in synastry. From what he communicated to me, and in general on the site, the strong Uranus manifested in a number of ways... For one, he and his wife were an odd couple. She was a white Southern Belle from the South in the US, and he was an Asian immigrant. I think interracial relationships do tend to have a Uranian quality to them because of how the couple stands out.
Secondly, their relationship started very quickly in whirlwind romance type scenario. I think they literally got married after only a few months of dating (but so far, they've stayed together for a long time). Sudden events, like a lightening flash, are also a Uranus theme. Other then this stuff, their relationship is the traditional monogamous marriage though. So don't be scared off by Uranus synastry if this is what you want. The craziness of the Uranus synastry is not always about 'open relationships' or any of that. Sometimes it's just that the couple is an unusual match, or that they got together in extraordinary circumstances, or very quickly (lightening flash love).
Similar story for me. To add, we are absolute weirdos with each other. Basically, every song that you make up in your head, noise you want to make, dancing for no reason, jokes, and etc. just come out without fear of judgement. If we think it then it comes out. Total freedom of expression. Almost like we're putting on an unscripted show for each other. Anything and everything comes out and there's lots of laughing.
We're the only ones that get to witness it.
There is also, as others have said including Lotis White, we have different backgrounds, age, etc. IP: Logged |
Selenite
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posted April 25, 2016 12:15 PM
ya. My boyfriend and I have:My Sun conjunct his Uranus (0)
My Mercury conjunct his Uranus (0)
My Moon trine his Uranus (5)
My ASC trine his Uranus (4) His Sun trine my Uranus (3)
His Moon trine my Uranus (0)
His Mercury trine my Uranus (1)
His Mars conjunct my Uranus (3)
His MC/IC square my Uranus (3)
His Uranus is retrograde in the 12th, square his moon 3 deg, opposite his Venus 5 deg, and mine is direct in the 6th, conjunct Neptune 3 deg and square my Moon 1 deg.
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My theories:
1.) BDSM/Poly
We both like BDSM.2.) "An Unconventional/Taboo Pair" - like therapist/patient, student/teacher, step-siblings, etc.
No (For once)
3.) A couple that prioritizes an inordinate amount of space in the relationship while still maintaining monogamy
We are actually inseparable, it's rare for me. I've spent almost every night with him since we hooked up, it was like a switch. 4.) Age gap relationships
8.5 years. 5.) ?????
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Selenite
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posted April 25, 2016 12:24 PM
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Originally posted by Lotis White:
Secondly, their relationship started very quickly in whirlwind romance type scenario. I think they literally got married after only a few months of dating (but so far, they've stayed together for a long time). Sudden events, like a lightening flash, are also a Uranus theme. Other then this stuff, their relationship is the traditional monogamous marriage though. So don't be scared off by Uranus synastry if this is what you want. The craziness of the Uranus synastry is not always about 'open relationships' or any of that. Sometimes it's just that the couple is an unusual match, or that they got together in extraordinary circumstances, or very quickly (lightening flash love).
Oh yes! That is what it's like. I didn't even think Uranus was the culprit. Both of us were (and probably still are) confused about how it happened / what is happening. We just started seeing each other / sleeping over each others' places every day without fail, which is really hard to do, for anyone I think.. Hah IP: Logged |
Selenite
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posted April 25, 2016 12:29 PM
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Originally posted by DopGang:
Similar story for me. To add, we are absolute weirdos with each other. Basically, every song that you make up in your head, noise you want to make, dancing for no reason, jokes, and etc. just come out without fear of judgement. If we think it then it comes out. Total freedom of expression. Almost like we're putting on an unscripted show for each other. Anything and everything comes out and there's lots of laughing.
We're the only ones that get to witness it.
There is also, as others have said including Lotis White, we have different backgrounds, age, etc.
Yeah same here! It's really sweet.  At some point my boyfriend and I started communicating mostly by meowing at each other.. I don't know, it just happened. IP: Logged |
CRCRINCON
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posted April 25, 2016 01:55 PM
My husband and I have a Uranian relationship aspect wise and archetypally. We have been together since 2005 and married since 2008. Monogamous all the way. We don't get close to people easily in general. We are in a biracial marriage and from different cultural upbringings. We also started the relationship with me coming out of an abusive marriage. So our relationship started with me coming out of trauma. It was really built on friendship though I was super attracted to him. It has had a quality of unpredictability to it as we are both independent. His work schedule is erratic as well. We are super committed and inlove. There is palatable electricity (chemistry) bewteen us and it has not diminished one bit in 11 years. I would say we are both quirky too personality wise but very different from eachother. I am Moon Aquarius, Sun parallel Uranus, Venus sextile Uranus, Uranus conjunct MC, Neptune in 11th house, Uranus in 9th house Libra. My husband has Venus square Uranus, uranus inconjunct ASC, Uranus sextile MC, Uranus in 7th house Libra. Synastry we have Moon square Uranus, Venus qunitle Uranus, Uranus square Venus, Uranus conjunct MC, Uranus sextile MC, Mercury trine Uranus. IP: Logged |
charlie
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posted April 25, 2016 03:51 PM
My husband and I have enough Uranus aspects, natally and in synastry, to light up New York City. We come from different cultures, religions and countries. We look vastly different! We are eccentric and can never remain in the same place for long periods. We are monogamous and very (!) private. We like to exchange crazy ideas and thoughts because we know the other won't laugh at them. There's this electricity between us I know others can feel but not see and it makes them curious. We have tendencies to run hot/cold but I think our moons (Taurus/Cap Decan and Cap/Taurus Decan) keep us somewhat stable in all the turmoil. We always find our way back "home" to safety. As for sex...we are not by any means crazy "out there" but we detest routine. In all fairness he is the more stable one. I struggle frequently with my Venus sq Uranus and I know that when I go off the wall he suffers a little. IP: Logged | |
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